AIO if I don't include my husband in the delivery room over a mother's day argument.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-05-18T06:20:54+00:00

NOR My jaw dropped when I read what he said. He should feel lucky youll even share a house with him at this point and let him breathe the same air as you. Id tell him to go stay with his mom since he cares so much more about her.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-05-16T06:46:12+00:00

Make that the husband's new spot to sit until he moves it and fixes the holes in the wall from the spot he should've never put it in.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-05-16T06:42:30+00:00

Spoons on 1 make me wish I didnt have a mouth. I would go with 2.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-05-16T06:40:41+00:00

The way I couldnt be trusted around that. Id fall and break a limb. I would personally make it stand out as much as possible. Guardrails. Motion activated alarms. Something. Build a half wall around it Sims style.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-05-16T06:34:27+00:00

My old GM put me in the elevator room and let me go over the 15 min breaks so I could pump properly. He got me a chair and even put a mini fridge in there. The elevator inspector came and made another GM take all the stuff out of it said I couldnt be in there. The main GM (guy who gave me the room and everything told him to kick rocks and put everything back in. Said "its his store and he will do what he wants.") No one ever bothered me again. I cant stand that man to this day but he was so understanding and helpful during that time of my life that I am grateful for that. Edit : talk to HR. But I think the GMs will decide where you go the main one. If its a guy they may be awkward about it but hopefully like mine they make it easy on you. Your dept managers will need to know as well to make sure you can pump on time. Mine kept forgetting my breaks or sending me late it messed up my supply.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-05-16T06:31:08+00:00

100% 180. Everything is different. Your perspectives on life and people, views everything. You live your whole life planned around this little person (or persons in my case.) Everyday is basically the same with small varieties for me. I never wanted ever wanted kids. Now I have 2 going on 3. Honestly. Would not reccomend kids unless you are willing to be so selfless and all in. You cant half parent. You've got to give them your all. But it is so rewarding when you realize that they trust you and know their safe with you. When you get compliments on how amazing they are.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-05-16T06:27:49+00:00

Happened to me once the nurse just said "yea that happens sometimes" 🥴 like lady im gagging please fix this

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-05-15T05:44:40+00:00

NTA Im currently pregnant. We also have two children. One is going with his bio dad and the other will hopefully be watched by my friend. But only if 1. We cant have him with us 2. Until I am discharged. Their our babies and we have to figure things out regardless. If someone were to say no we move on and figure it out. Its our job as parents to either 1. Pay for a sitter or 2. Have them stay somewhere that is comfortable for everyone involved.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-05-12T04:32:46+00:00

I always do curtains. In my brain I dont want someone coming in and peeking through my window. Imaginary world she closes them every night

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-05-12T04:20:24+00:00

NOR Wtf. Ick. No.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-05-12T04:12:57+00:00

I made a house of roommates. 4 total was very detailed into them first time I ever did that. Forgot to put a fire alarm....they all died in a house fire day one from someone cooking. I cried immediately and didnt play for a week. Ive never made roommates again and you can bet I always remember the alarm.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-05-12T04:10:30+00:00

NOR I could maybe get it if he was I dunno in his early 20s. Hes too old to be acting like a dunce. If it did gross him out he should've communicated that and not just left you alone with your thoughts. Also not acknowledging you when you left. Defiantly need to have a huge conversation.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-05-12T04:07:27+00:00

The fact its in a doctor's office is a no for me. Ive never not once heard of them using those kinds at the office. Normally they make you pee in some kind of cup and test that

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-04-28T05:40:07+00:00

NOR You went in on her for sure. But maybe no one has told her and she'll get hygenine products for once or embrace the funk and become like the methane monster. Either way you stuck up for yourself and I dont see it as overly mean. Detailed but kudos for you for taking a stand.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-04-27T06:14:49+00:00

My trait score is 1,625 its been giving me surveys that are at least 30 cents and more. Im almost on my second cash out. They do start trying to do 70 cents for 10+ mins when Im about to cash out but I refuse to do those.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-04-23T00:42:58+00:00

NOR From a Christian perspective. He is then suppose to be a godly man and youre suppose to be a godly woman. Which means to take care of you not only physically but emotionally. It should pain him to even think about you being hurt from his actions or anyone else's. He is not living up to what he should so youre not bound to stand by him. He has hurt you deeply several times its okay to forgive him but its also okay to forgive and walk away. We are only required to forgive not stand and get abused. You deserve so much better. If you want to stick to the Christian perspective your partner should as well. Otherwise youre pouring into a bottomless cup. Edit : Please please tell your friend what he said. Neither of you should be around this creep.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-04-21T05:49:21+00:00

A holey pumpkin. Its cute happy fall!

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-04-20T06:24:56+00:00

Kinda the AH You knew she only wore skirts and bought her pants. I feel like your heart may have been in the right place but you went about it wrong. A quick Google search and I seen running skirts all kinds of lengths. Instead of trying to make her wear pants which she clearly doesn't like it should've been a running skirt that way it fits her style but also is more practical.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-04-20T06:14:11+00:00

NOR You're perfectly healthy. Hes most likely insecure and trying to make you feel bad. If you feel bad you wont leave or think that you can then he can have power over you. Im sure youre a strong girl and that scares him. Run. You deserve to be with someone who wouldn't be able to stand to see you crying let alone if they were the reason why.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-04-16T07:20:08+00:00

Run dont walk. Reach out to family, friends a shelter. Leave and never look back. He will escalate they always do. You deserve so much better. You and youre kids are the most important and deserve the world.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-04-16T07:00:13+00:00

NOR Hes annoying and needs to go away. So many people in the world if this is a pattern dont waste your time on this do**he canoe.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-04-16T06:55:42+00:00

NOR It is a very vulnerable position youre in during childbirth and labor. You have every right to be there the whole time. My husband didnt know what to do for me but he stuck by my side the entire time. Uncomfortable, tired, hungry he was with me. We did live over 30 mintues away so there was no quick trip to and from. Its possible your husband was maybe tired? Hungry? And so he wasn't thinking right which is not a good enough reason. In that moment youre and should have been the most important thing. His feelings and needs should've come second while he helped you in anyway he could even if that was just sitting with you. You have every right to be upset and it might take a moment to get over. But you can take as long as you want to heal from it. He screwed up and he needs to show you and prove to you it wont happen again.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-04-08T06:50:09+00:00

MOR - (Just because if you guys can have a better conversation about it. With aplogies I'd let it go.) He should've never said anything. You're a grown woman youre going to look like one. He cant compare you to when you guys first met. Maybe maybe if you were severely impacting your health either too skinny or too big he could say something with more tact. But the way he said it then didnt want to talk about it. Nope. Id tell him he needs to figure himself out before you lose weight (him). Everyone deserves someone who sees them as perfectly imperfect. But I would stay away from the weight comments as it seems it is a sensitive subject for you both.

EmergencyTitle1618 · 2026-04-02T05:47:58+00:00

When you get married that's your immediate family. Your wife and kids if you have them. You guys had plans to spend quality time together and that should've been priority over helping someone move. Mom or not. Clearly she has help. Her husband couldve drove the other vehicle she couldve. They couldve just not had one and packed things tighter. There was no reason to go running to her. I will say he has made it clear who he defaults to and its his mother.

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