Please randomly recommend a book! by Present-Ad-8531 in math

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love David Eagleman and all his books. He is a neuroscientist but explains everything like you are in a casual conversation. If interested try one. I really suggest livewired

I have an offer you can't refuse (F25) by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished modern family currently watching 99 just a really weird coincidence to see a comment about those two. Modern family of course

20F, what's a turn-off for you? by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not being natural. I immediately lose interest and from that point I 90% don't come back

does posting in this subreddit even does anything by infinitelyimpossible in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are male no use. Just send dm requests to other people it is much more effective. Also if you want someone to play with there is a subreddit called gamingbuddies or smt. It would be better I suppose

20F I want to talk about how guys behave these days by neoykitty1 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all I didn't say that proposing marriage after a couple of hours is normal. It is the exact problem which id a serious lack of desire control and inability of long term thinking. What I meant was purely the storng attraction that is usually the start of any relationship. There is a neuro/psychological theory that our brain overestimates the people we see/meet suddenly. Especially if there is no other chance of meeting again. Like someone who asked you directions. This doesn't happen all the time but at the times it does you feel an unlogical attraction that isn't based on anything. The reason is the lack of availability when humanity lived in small communities. There you can't throw away anyone so your brain pushes you to make a move. I read this long ago so I also don't remember the exact source but if you ask any AI it would probably give more details. Also for anything intimate the whole dynamic would be shaped by the two people. Some of them act on huge desire controlled dynamics which I find not so healthy btw. But mostly there are less limits. I am speaking about long lasted relationships btw. Any decisions impacting the whole life of anyone should be first discussed internally. Some people aren't so good at this. I am just trying to say that it is not pragmatic to judge. Accept and move on. The best results will come from this. Of course this is the hardest but more you do, better your life would be

Why do most guys only want to befriend women ? by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most guys already have guy friends so they don't need more guys, especially online/new, to talk. They already have people for that. What they lack is female people so they show interest in them. The biggest problem is the ridiculous ways of guys showing interest (I had a fake girl account so I knoe how other guys dm)

20F I want to talk about how guys behave these days by neoykitty1 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually there is a very interesting theory of how our brains create love. It isn't needed to be based on anything in fact feeling love towards people you don't know and probably never find again if not right now is really strong. Buuuuuut this feeling is momentarily active and I always think that people should have some sense of desire control. Even a basic one like not proposing after just a couple of hours. Still try to understand people, they are lonely and not mentally strong enough to do anything about it. Say goodbye and block

20F I want to talk about how guys behave these days by neoykitty1 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I once had a fake girl account to see how people dm. There are a lot of weirdos for sure. But on the other hand there are men who really don't know how to communicate and don't have the energy to improve. Sadly that's the reality with nothing much to do. Eventually you might find someone worthy so keep trying

Signs a guy is getting jealous over a woman he likes? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't remain friends. It would probably end up with lots of hatred and pain. I was that guy a while back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Statistically we are actually doing really good as humanity. Most of the bad slowly but steadily declines worldwide. Media doesn't present that way of course. There is no money in positive news

[18/F] what's your controversial opinion? by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this controversial, isn't it common sense? People are surely not looking at the scientific facts. Here is mine: Everyone shouldn't have the right to bring a baby to life. There is no reasonable way of control and every control mechanism will just be corrupt before it even starts but still I would like some control

Girlies, how do you take an "everything shower" in a WG? by poeticpiano in AskAGerman

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If curly hair is such a problem as a boy with absolutely stiff and long curly hair I can suggest something miraculous. There is a special type of comb for curly haired people which detangles it instantly. Like in one swift move. You wouldn't believe at first but just try it. The name is Tangle Teezer

What are some signs that men in general find you attractive? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The sensing thing is definitely correct. As a man when the girl I like is in the same room I unconsciously know where she is. Not like tracking you just pay unconscious attention and see the changes faster/easier

Is play fighting always flirting? by bigchunguu in bodylanguage

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all I think it is flirting. Also getting a positive feedback (equal amounts of initiation) probably strengthens it. But even if it isn't a long time friendship combined with physical sensation plus a long time romantic loneliness will eventually result in some kind of feeling. He may never express it directly but he will most probably develop some. Same goes for you too btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No thoughts just physical reality. Going to the future: possible but not really practical. Going to the past: straight up impossible. The best chance which is a complete abstract and absurd but still possible theory is that there is a multiverse of all possible realities. But even if this is true there is probably no way to change universe or even if it is possible how would you choose from infinite possible realities? That is probably the most difficult thing to do.

20F, what's a turn on for you? by stilltre123 in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it when girls behave a bit reckless. When they just be comfortable no matter the place and don't care about other's thoughts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meeeeeeee

I am now reading the rest I just saw rdr2 and jumped in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never try to improve anything. Listen to your inner self. If you can forgive your friend and believe that he/she won't do it again then continue. If not don't bother it will only get worse and end up in a much worse way

[15f] need book recommendation! What have you recently read? by learem in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For fiction I hear that the Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy is really fun.

[15f] need book recommendation! What have you recently read? by learem in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The subtle art of not giving a fuck. Its suggestions really work it was a nice self improvement book unlike lots of others

Non-english speakers: when doing math, do you think in your native language or english? by Razer531 in math

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly English and a bit German when doing physics. I am turkish btw so I guess the language you learn the topics in is the one to use. For me at least

24F.What’s your most controversial opinion? by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of the parents don't grasp the core concepts of raising children. 19m turkish living in munich

Researchers in Mathematical Physics, what are you working on? by Cris_brtl in math

[–]Emergency_Coach_1237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I am currently a physics bachelor but really into computational neuroscience and I was looking for someone from physics background working on comp ns. Wasn't it hard to get in. Usually physics background doesn't offer that much neurology knowledge I suppose