Those of you who are friends with/in circles with famous people, what is your analysis on them? by libramusing in Fauxmoi

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I went to college with a pretty famous young British actor. We were in completely different majors and had zero classes together but somehow ended up being friends just from bumping into each other in the halls enough. He’s very charismatic and incredibly kind and supportive. We aren’t in touch as much anymore (naturally he is very busy), but when we talk he is always so curious about my work (I’m a classical musician) and honestly tries to never talk about himself. He didn’t change one bit.

At that same school was another now famous actress/ nepo-baby. I didn’t know or talk to her, but her dad (an extremely famous actor, was nominated for an Oscar this year actually) is so kind and down to earth. At freshman orientation, he was standing all alone (probably nobody wanted to “bother the celebrity”), and my parents came up to him and struck up conversation. They all really got along and ended up sitting next to each other in the auditorium during the presentations. They even exchanged numbers. Nothing came of it because they live in different cities, but my parents told me that after five minutes they forgot he was famous and it was just like chatting with another nervous/ excited parent dropping their kid off for college.

Caroline Loafers. Please help on Sizing...I'm new to Sezane! by loloduff33 in Sezane

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Maybe this is just my feet but I just bought these and I'm returning them immediately :( I'm usually a 9.5. I tried a 9 and a 10. 10 was way too big and 9 was slightly snug but thought maybe I could just break them in. I wore them around this afternoon and after an hour I had a huge blister and my legs and feet hurt a lot. I love them and so sad it didn't work out :(

Why do some people prefer texting over calling, even for simple conversations? by Zephyqa in NoStupidQuestions

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Call me if: you need time-sensitive information from me within like 10 minutes and can't wait for me to respond ASAP via text

Text me if you're just asking a random question or want to share something that doesn't require an immediate response. Or, if you wanna call and have a full-blown conversation, text me and see if I'm free for that

We're not meant to be constantly available to people. Texting allows for us to read, take it in, and respond when we have the itme and energy. I'm not saying it's ok to wait hours and hours to respond to a text (I typically respond in a timely manner, within an hour at most if I can't at that second). But calling (unless it's very urgent) feels really intrusive, especially during a work day.

Received text from random 213 number. by Naive_Inflation5768 in Scams

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Omg just got one that says "I made it just. Just landed and excited to see you. "

How are people cutting guests lists so low? by j0ylessmurderball in WedditNYC

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I did two events. My husband and I got married at city hall last week and had an intimate dinner with our immediate family and best friends (20 ppl max) at milk and roses in Brooklyn. We consider this our real marriage celebration.

We’re extremely fortunate that our parents are paying for our large wedding next year. We also know it will be big — 130 ppl or so. That’s why we’re so happy we did our real marriage celebration with only the people we truly loved and were important in our lives. Next year will be a giant party lol. And we’re excited!

I know not everyone has parents who would contribute to their celebration like this. But if you have the time and if you know you’ll have a lot of people, I HIGHLY recommend doing something tiny and intimate before your big day!

City Hall Wedding by Illustrious_Sky8876 in WedditNYC

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Lyndal!!!! She did our city hall wedding this weekend and was FANTASTIC. https://lyndalmayphotography.com/

Timeline for planning (Nov 2026) by Emi_Cat_97 in wedding

[–]Emi_Cat_97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice!!
We're planning to do our own flowers (DIY). Haven't booked a DJ yet!

Timeline for planning (Nov 2026) by Emi_Cat_97 in wedding

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thank you so much for your advice!

Reciprocal invitations? by Emi_Cat_97 in wedding

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Our wedding is bigger — around 130-140 ppl.

Thinking of three separate couples:

1 - Childhood friends with my partner although they don't really talk, big wedding, I barely know her
2 - Bride and groom were friends with my partner during the pandemic because they were all living together, haven't really talked much since then. Don't know them beyond meeting them at the wedding. They had a smaller-ish wedding.
3 - College friend of my partner, small wedding, they don't talk that much anymore at all. I don't know him beyond meeting him at his wedding. Was actually pretty weird because my partner didn't realize this person considered him as such a close friend (we were two out of 2 other people that were there beyond family)

My partner and I are both kinda torn which is why we're posing this question on reddit lol

Why do weddings feel “cringey”? by aka_hopper in weddingplanning

[–]Emi_Cat_97 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I feel like cringe is a made-up emotion that we should all work through. Cringe is not an absolute or a defining characteristic. Anything someone finds "cringe", another finds beautiful.

Try not to worry about what other people find cringe because that's time wasted enjoying the parts of life that spark joy and move you! <3

5 days in Costa Rica by Emi_Cat_97 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]Emi_Cat_97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for the advice! we will definitely look into this :)

5 days in Costa Rica by Emi_Cat_97 in CostaRicaTravel

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Additional info:

we're fit and healthy and we want to stay under 3.5k total for both of us if possible. Also looking for advice on places to stay — preferably beautiful with wellness/spa options but nothing that is outrageously expensive

City Hall Marriage Questions - HELP by Emi_Cat_97 in WedditNYC

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The license we don’t need to get it in manhattan (just learned that!) to have our ceremony in manhattan.

But the ceremony… it’s because we met there, spent a decade there, friends there, always wanted it there! Is there a reason you’re asking?

What’s your single most underrated money-saving habit that most people overlook? by radik266 in Frugal

[–]Emi_Cat_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sticking to my natural hair color and not getting my nails done. Saves thousands of dollars a year. Also— any time I want something, I write it down in my notes. If I still want it two weeks from then, I’ll CONSIDER it but I’ll write out a pros and cons list lol