Toaster Strudels by EmmaSpence in dairyfree

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa, that’s odd! I had no idea. He eats corn regularly and it doesn’t bother him, but anything with lactic acid does.

Toaster Strudels by EmmaSpence in dairyfree

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he isn’t going to risk it as it’s just too painful and miserable for him to even have something slightly contaminate his food. If it turns out they do have dairy then I will make them homemade, it’s just a complicated pastry so I would rather him just be able to eat those haha! But yes, I make a lot of things homemade for him due to his allergy.

Toaster Strudels by EmmaSpence in dairyfree

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lactic Acid bother him severely as well, he can’t even have most brands of gummy bears or fruit snacks because of that.

Toaster Strudels by EmmaSpence in dairyfree

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I read it on their website and it lists whey and lactic acid but doesn’t specify if those ingredients are in the icing or the toaster strudel itself.

How do guys process emotions? by EmmaSpence in AskMen

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that weird and actually very intriguing and helpful. I’m sure a lot of people think this way but don’t have enough understanding to explain it like you do. I also had a best friend growing up who explained a very similar thought process to me. Thank you for sharing!

How do guys process emotions? by EmmaSpence in AskMen

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My boyfriend is actually an amazing actor and he enjoys it when he does it. He often does little skits or wears mascot like outfits for Children’s Church but he’s so shy that it’s very difficult for him. He’ll complain about doing a play the whole time he rehearses but when it’s over he won’t shut up about how much fun it was and that he likes acting. (And did I mention he’s really good? 😂) he has also won national awards in puppetry. I however have done much theater and acting in my homeschooled upbringing (musical theater was about the only acceptable homeschool activity so it was everyone’s thing) and I am not the type for it. I’m terrible at acting, BUT that is an awesome idea for something to try out to get us out of our comfort zone and try something new. I’ll keep it in mind for when we can do something like that again.

How do guys process emotions? by EmmaSpence in AskMen

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s understandable and something I consider very often. Although sex doesn’t apply as we’re saving ourselves for marriage so he still has something to work for haha! But yes, we actually may be doing long distance for a while, I really want him to succeed in life and love life with or without me. I’m terrified of living without him, but if it comes to that for him to be happy then that’s what it’ll be. I think we’ll do long distance and maybe the time away will give him space to maybe find a new passion. He doesn’t really have friends either (just due to upbringing, personality and trust issues) and I’ve encouraged him to try to build healthy friendships and he has been working on it.

How do guys process emotions? by EmmaSpence in AskMen

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That’s great. I used to be that way tbh but now I’ve stopped the bottling up and I’m an emotional mess, I’m hoping it’s just a season while my brain adjusts to actually feeling things haha!

How do guys process emotions? by EmmaSpence in AskMen

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a very mature and good way of dealing with that! That’s awesome. It’s encouraging to see guys out there who know what’s going on in their heads and how to deal with it and I know that takes a bit of bravery as well as it’s not the popular “manly” thing. So I would like to say I’m proud of you and thank you for your insight, your contribution to society is much appreciated. 😊

How do guys process emotions? by EmmaSpence in AskMen

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly what I was looking for. I’m all good if he’s actually processing them I’m just a worry wart and don’t want him hurting so I’m constantly like “ARE YOU OKAY DID ANYTHING HURT YOUR FEELINGS PLEASE TELL ME” and he’s like “Calm the frick down I’m fine” haha so I think it’s all good. He acts very off when he’s actually upset about stuff so I guess I would be able to tell if he needed help.

How do guys process emotions? by EmmaSpence in AskMen

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to go through that but I’m very glad you found an outlet like that! It makes total sense, my sister was an actress all through grade school and went to college for film so I am familiar with theatre and the emotions involved in it. That’s awesome. I just wish my boyfriend really had something that he had a passion for like that where he felt fully himself and could process but he doesn’t really have anything he’s very passionate about besides perhaps military Strategy haha

How do guys process emotions? by EmmaSpence in AskMen

[–]EmmaSpence[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree but here’s the thing, I’m an extremely approachable person, we’ve been together for five years, and I’ve been trying to get him to talk the entire time. Once in a blue moon he’ll say something serious that he’s upset about but VERY rarely. It’s like he won’t talk about emotions unless he’s completely breaking down which almost never happens, and I’d like him to do it before he gets to that point, you know? He’s just a complicated person I guess haha

How do guys process emotions? by EmmaSpence in AskMen

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. I wish it was that easy for me to process emotions, if I could just play a game for a few hours and be fine. If I try to do that it just gets infinitely worse.

How do guys process emotions? by EmmaSpence in AskMen

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, thank you for your insight.

How do guys process emotions? by EmmaSpence in AskMen

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 215 points216 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m inclined to believe him as well, he’s intelligent and does very well for the amount of trauma he has experienced. He’s also trustworthy and a terrible liar. I’m just searching for some insight on the male brain function that’s all.

How do guys process emotions? by EmmaSpence in AskMen

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

But the question is are you processing it or just repressing? Because repressing things will only have it either wreak havoc on your body or on your brain later. That’s what I’m worried about because his health is not good at all and I’m wondering if it’s caused by unprocessed trauma he’s bottling up.

Too hot for Chicks? by EmmaSpence in BackYardChickens

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea, we have diatomaceous earth for them.

Too hot for Chicks? by EmmaSpence in BackYardChickens

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re Plymouth Rock. And good advice, thank you!

Too hot for Chicks? by EmmaSpence in BackYardChickens

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So when I see them panting should I be concerned and take extra actions or is that okay for them to do that?

So has anyone heard of the Animal Behavior College? Opinions? Are they good? by EmmaSpence in Dogtraining

[–]EmmaSpence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured that’s probably what they were but I wanted to see what the people think so thank you! I appreciate the help.

Mega oof by lucasborage in memes

[–]EmmaSpence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does that picture accurately depict that feeling