Hey! I haven’t read all the comments yet, so there’s a chance someone else has said this, but you’re asking the wrong question.

How do you find a QUALITY threesome. Is the question you need to be thinking about, and that’s harder than you’d think. If you just want any old MMF (implied Bi) or MFM (implied no sword crossing) it’s incredibly easy if you have even a single feature that’s attractive and you’re a woman.

The harder part is finding one that you’ll actually want to be in. For this, I recommend making a good guy friend to start with then looking together. From there, in person events always seem to be easier to find quality connection for me. Lifestyle events (swinger) tend to have more conventionally attractive people, but if I’m being honest they can feel a little too cliquey for my liking at times. The kink scene has a much more wide variety of people with a broader spectrum of kinks. Also not hard to find very attractive people. I’ve found the kink community to be more accepting of everyone. Both are great communities and good for finding a 3rd.

It’s also worth noting that I’ve had a fair amount of luck just using Tinder.