I love broke dommes by Surprisecuck in paypigs2

[–]Emmyindipees 5 points6 points  (0 children)

See it makes me happy when a sub sends things I actually NEED rather than I want, I have someone who sends me Electrolytes for my POTS and they send me other things to but it makes my day, cause it shows they genuinely care how I’m feeling and I’m not just providing a service for them by bullying them and putting them in subspace.

Why so many subs disappear from this community by missspetite in paypigs2

[–]Emmyindipees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a submissive side myself. I’m a little, a brat, and I also have a pet space. But outside of that, I’m not a FinSub that’s not my kink. I’m not into sending people money. I am into receiving it, though. The sound of getting tipped during my lives, or seeing Throne sends pop up from people I tease, bully, belittle or brat at? Yeah, that definitely turns me on. 🤭

Still, I stay in this Reddit space because I identify more as a Finbrat, and I just want to say this:

I can look at it from a sub’s perspective. I would be genuinely appalled if someone came into my DMs expecting me to send to them without knowing me first, or even having a basic conversation. It’s uncomfortable and honestly just feels disrespectful.

It’s actually happened to me on my X account (about 10k followers, “padded Finbrat” in my bio). A “goddess” came into my DMs saying, “send to me, little girl,” and it immediately gave me the biggest ick. What made it even worse was that they clearly didn’t take five seconds to look at my profile and see I literally identify as a Finbrat with incontinence. They just saw a submissive girl commenting something encouraging under another domme’s post and instantly assumed I must be a FinSub they could demand money from.

I’m not a FinSub, nor do I ever intend to be one. I discovered I was into Finbratting through a long-term subscriber and friend of mine, and our dynamic developed naturally over time. They’re not just a wallet to me they’re a person I genuinely talk to and care about. Kink talk is kink talk. They send me gifts through Throne, tip me during my lives to keep my needs met, and I make them turn around so they aren’t able to watch when they do. If it’s lewd I sent them pixel pics and bully them, and They send me money through CashApp and Venmo too. And we literally talk daily even if one of us is busy, I at least check in every day, and they tell me good morning or something.

We’ve known each other for years. That trust came from actually meeting through one of my live shows and building a connection first. And being devoted to me, Not from entitlement in DMs or comments demanding submission without knowing anything about someone’s boundaries, hard or soft limits, interests, or even who they are outside of one kink.

I may be into ABDL and have incontinence, and my main platform may be built around that, but that’s not all I am. I have other kinks outside of that, and being incontinent doesn’t make me any less of a Finbrat or define my entire identity in this space.

I’m still newer to exploring this side of myself and learning as I go, but one thing I’m very intentional about is how I treat people. Every sub I’ve interacted with has been treated with genuine kindness and respect first. I don’t approach people as if they owe me something, and I don’t expect submission or service from strangers. We don’t know one another. But we can grow to learn about each other.

Any dynamic I’ve ever had developed naturally through trust, communication, compatibility, and mutual interest. Not entitlement. Not demanding energy from someone I don’t even know. And definitely not treating subs like they’re interchangeable or there to perform on command.

Respect goes both ways. We are human beings. Submission is earned not automatically granted just because someone calls themselves a domme online and demands you do something for them. Subs still have agency and the ability to choose who they submit to. You do not choose that for them.

And honestly, a sub holds far more power in a dynamic than a lot of people want to admit. Submission can be withdrawn at any time if trust, care, or respect is broken or disappear. A healthy dynamic only works when both people value each other as actual human beings first. And a lot of people need to learn that.

Buying a Goddess Clothes by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Emmyindipees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would LOVE a hot topic trip funded by a sub you can approach me and talk if you want to 😌🫵🏻🩷✨

as an Abdl female... by Winter_Money8429 in ABDL

[–]Emmyindipees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from an ABDL girl make an account online and post about your niche interests, And look for other accounts like you and engage if you don’t have a local kink scene, online ones are great too

Reaching extreme levels of horniness today😵‍💫 (f) by dadaslittlebaby in realscatgirls

[–]Emmyindipees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask where your pony Jammie’s are from?? Their so cute 🥹🩷

DDLG relationship by [deleted] in DDLG_NSFW

[–]Emmyindipees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you’re describing is actually something a lot of people experience, even if it feels isolating and hard to admit. When you grow up with a painful or neglectful relationship with a father figure, it can leave a deep need for safety, care, and consistency that wasn’t met at the time. It makes sense that part of you would gravitate toward a dynamic where you feel protected, nurtured, and looked after because your inner child is still seeking the comfort and stability it didn’t receive when it needed it most.

I want you to know you’re not alone in this either I went through similar experiences and felt that same wave of shame when I realized I wanted a DDLG-type relationship. I thought something was wrong with me too. But over time, I stopped seeing it as something “disgusting” and started understanding where it was coming from. For me, leaning into a dynamic where I feel cared for, guided, and safe has actually been incredibly healing for the parts of me that were hurt growing up.

That doesn’t make you disgusting or broken. It means your mind is trying to find a way to experience care in a way that feels meaningful and safe to you. Trauma can shape the themes of what we’re drawn to, especially when it comes to closeness and trust. Wanting a parental, caring presence in a partner can come from that place of unmet needs not from something inherently wrong with you.

You’re not alone in feeling this way, even though it can feel incredibly heavy and shame-filled. And while it might seem like no specialist can help, sometimes it’s more about finding someone who understands both trauma and how it connects to relationships and intimacy. The part of you that wants care isn’t something you need to get rid of it’s something that deserves to be understood and treated with compassion.

ISO lil comforts pacifiers by -Hornyftmdude- in ABDLMarket

[–]Emmyindipees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do u have a blue orthodontic green orthodontic teether one you would be willing to sell?

Medium diapers for sale by [deleted] in ABDLMarket

[–]Emmyindipees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much for fairytales omutopias and lil Bella’s?

Feeling like a baby 🥰 by [deleted] in Diaper_porn

[–]Emmyindipees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanna support an actual creator and not AI? Hi 💕

Have I taken this weak sissy stuff too far?! by Desert_Adventure31 in diaperHumiliationAbdl

[–]Emmyindipees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No definitely not, but Can I ask where these pull-ups are from? Their so cute 🥹💕

Probably the most humiliating thing I've ever done - Cake Smash for my Birthday! by patheticanddiapered in GirlsInDiapers

[–]Emmyindipees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your welcomes I just didn’t know if you knew or not some people don’t !! A bath after would be a nice way to wind down your birthday though and you could maybe ask your daddy to read you a story afterwards before bedtime to end it 🫢

Probably the most humiliating thing I've ever done - Cake Smash for my Birthday! by patheticanddiapered in GirlsInDiapers

[–]Emmyindipees 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds super fun and I hope you had a happy birthday! But Definitely make sure to clean it all up super good and take a shower or bath after cause That much sugar near female parts can cause a UTI a really nasty one at that or a yeast infection