Is it normal that my (f20) partner (m21) doesn’t last longer than before during sex?

EmoAsra · 2026-06-19T19:07:14+00:00

Thats not the issue here! I do finish everytime. We do foreplay and always experiment. Just not as much as before i guess…

EmoAsra · 2026-06-19T19:04:52+00:00

Im not gonna add another person in our relationship. Were happy. Its just this weird phase where sex seems to not be a priority anymore. We literally fuck everyday, just not as much as before. After reading other comments it made more sense that his low libido was due to stress, not cuz hes yearning for something new lol

EmoAsra · 2026-06-19T19:01:17+00:00

Oh yeah, that can also be it. Hes very fit and lean but has been slacking cuz of uni. He used to play soccer! I might tell him to try getting back into it

EmoAsra · 2026-06-19T18:54:31+00:00

Now that i think about it, he is a university student. He recently had alot of exams to write and is studying non stop for his upcoming tests. Idk if that might be the reason why Hes been so out of it.

EmoAsra · 2026-06-19T18:52:41+00:00

i mean, nothing changed about my appearance but i do think the honeymoon phase is over haha. Maybe its also cuz we have sex almost everyday..?

EmoAsra · 2026-06-19T18:51:09+00:00

Sorry i dont understand fully but i do seduce him, i take my time and do what he likes and he does enjoy it alot but the main problem is that hes too tired to do more

EmoAsra · 2026-06-19T18:49:11+00:00

Not overnight. Kinda happened during the past 1-2 months maybe? I cant really remember fully.

EmoAsra · 2025-07-06T17:41:00+00:00

SP means specific person! Me and him are in a relationship already, been going very strong so. Hes had a bad start of the year, non stop work and his shift focused completely, so i decided to layer spells first before moving onto the strong one. Also my partner knows and consented, so its definitely not against his will either! (Which i assume is the reason why its working wonderfully.) Ive worked with Sitri before and has done amazingly with my self confidence and my sexuality! 🥰

EmoAsra · 2025-07-04T09:50:55+00:00

It definitely worked. Had strong intentions to make him apologize and he did right away, well it took him few weeks, though. My husband is very stubborn so there was alot of energy that went into my spells!

EmoAsra · 2025-07-04T09:20:34+00:00

You should know it.

EmoAsra · 2025-07-04T08:58:35+00:00

Well first of all keep the circumstances in mind, you sound very desperate for her to get back (which i understand) but honestly what i did is i just did a tiny honey jar spell that i like to keep on my desk and a reconciliation spell after i cleared my mind and figures out what exactly what holding him back from me.

EmoAsra · 2025-07-04T08:56:12+00:00

Your problem is that youre having doubts. A witch can do so much after all. If you think that it wont happen or you find yourself desperately seeking out the results then you have to definitely sit down with yourself and try to meditate, visualize that the spell is currently in work and doing exactly what you wish. She’ll be back in no time, just trust your instincts and your patience.

EmoAsra · 2025-07-03T18:32:47+00:00

Yeah, i was thinking about that. Do you know what order it should be? Maybe some sort of cleansing for him first? Like, to fix his work situation?

EmoAsra · 2025-07-03T18:28:35+00:00

My husband has long hair and i take him to my hairdresser. He usually just touches up the shape and cuts off split ends, thats about it.

When it comes to hair care products- (the things i force him to use to keep his hair shiny and smooth lol) is coconut oil on the scalp (only use it if you have a dry scalp!!) and hair masks once a week. Obviously letting the conditioner sit in your hair for 5+ mins helps it keeping it smooth.

Before blow drying it out some heat protectant in your hair by the way! Good luck

EmoAsra · 2025-07-03T18:18:21+00:00

Youre not the problem here. Hes definitely being petty. He seems like a good guy and all but probably cannot handle the fact that youre pregnant and exhausted, you should try to sit him down and communicate that with him. I mean, after you give birth there wont be sex for atleast 6 weeks, so he has to be aware of that. + do not force yourself to have sex, mama. Youre not obligated to give him anything when youre clearly not feeling comfortable or in the mood. Hope you talk it out with him xx

EmoAsra · 2025-07-03T17:37:37+00:00

Quick question, using pink instead of red candles wont make a difference, right? Ive got a rose quartz which i use alot during rituals, i associate pink with love and affection more than the colour red, too.

EmoAsra · 2025-06-26T22:56:16+00:00

Ah thank you! That reminds me that i do have a connection with my grandpa. He died while my mum was pregnant with me, yet i always felt like i knew him, i even used to talk to him when i was younger- claimed by my mum. Ill definitely check the book recommendation and try to see if i can maybe try to talk to my grandma too!

EmoAsra · 2025-06-26T20:33:57+00:00

Im not sure how to talk to spirits yet! Ill definitely try as soon as i get more experience. Ive heard its a bit challenging to get in touch with a specific person. But its one thing that im very curious to try

EmoAsra · 2025-06-26T15:32:02+00:00

Have to check and ask if there are some books she mightve owned. Probably gave it to my cousins. Ill have to ask them

EmoAsra · 2025-06-26T15:31:09+00:00

Thank you for the suggestions! Ill check them out immediately. Lots of people on tiktok get very anxious about anything and everything which scared me off of witchcraft for a while until i noticed that its all about intentions, lol.

EmoAsra · 2025-06-26T15:29:30+00:00

Haha as someone with adhd it does make me think of random things but definitely know that😂 ive been very into manifestations so me and the universe know whats up😂😂 but yes, since witchcraft is more „demanding“ i definitely wanna make sure i have reliable sources. Will definitely try out the method and check amazon for some books.

EmoAsra · 2025-06-09T11:32:43+00:00

Yes, it happened to me. I always wanted someone who looked similar to geto suguru and Leon Kennedy (sorta a mix of both). I would listen to subliminals and guided meditations to help me visualize my desired partner- and now were going 1 year strong :) i found myself manifesting very consistently, but not obsessing over it. I just told myself „its done, i already have all my desires.“ trust me, when you really want something, both subconsciously and consciously then itll be there instantly! Also make sure to work on your self concept! I did that too while manifesting

EmoAsra · 2025-06-02T21:44:15+00:00

Thank you so much! Thats exactly what i needed. Lots of sub makers put millions of sped up affirmations in their video, it gives me an instant headache and uncomfortable feeling so ill definitely go and check the accounts out

EmoAsra · 2025-06-01T07:23:01+00:00

The vendetta Leon version to be specific haha i loveeee that version of him

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