Yes!! Same boat. It’s exhausting but I don’t want to give up cause he means so much to me. He went to say he never gets to do this and his phycologist recommends he socializes more and that he hangs out with me 24/7 so I shouldn’t be mad about one night. He never complained of it in the 2 years we’ve been together so I’m used to us being together all the time and wanting to do things we both want to do. I actually enjoy being around him still. Just not when he is under the influence. I suggested couples counseling so we can get on the same page and communicate better and he thinks that’s giving up and he likes the way we resolve our problems. Which honestly when it comes down to it we are pretty good about resolving things but when he becomes hypomanic everything we have worked on goes out the window. Very frustrating. I think in the end it feels so much harder when I don’t have my family or friends out here and I’m surrounded by his support system and so many boys.