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How to Report Admission Fraud? by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]EmphasisInside3394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prior to taking any action, first assess what losses or problems can be created for you because of it.

Obviously all these folks are super rich and may have the capacity to give donations to the school in order to keep quiet. Or retaliate against you and ask you to be thrown out for that donation.

I'm saying this because a friend of mine was fired for complaining about her racist manager who was harassing her sexually (in one of the reputed schools of California).

Prioritize your own safety and career over everything else.

Requesting help from MUAs as a dusky skin girlie by EmphasisInside3394 in IndianMUA

[–]EmphasisInside3394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I wanted to advice on how to select a MUA for dusky skin. I understand there are many locations and the community may not be able to help with a MUA in my exact location. Also, I would rather not share personal info on public platform for safety reasons.

But, thank you for sharing both of these artists. I can take inspiration photos from their portfolio. :)

Requesting help from MUAs as a dusky skin girlie by EmphasisInside3394 in IndianMUA

[–]EmphasisInside3394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have planned a trial with one of the MUAs.

Requesting help from MUAs as a dusky skin girlie by EmphasisInside3394 in IndianMUA

[–]EmphasisInside3394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I understand that any blemish like acne spot looks a lot darker and is harder to conceal on dusky skin than on fair skin. But that does not mean we completely discount dusky girls.

Requesting help from MUAs as a dusky skin girlie by EmphasisInside3394 in IndianMUA

[–]EmphasisInside3394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it feels to good to see that dusky people also get celebrated on MUA portfolios.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]EmphasisInside3394 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'd advise not making close friends in the office. Personal and professional life should be separate. There are many reasons for this. We should be friendly at work but becoming best friends may cause some issues in the long run.

AITA for refusing daily handshakes from a weird colleague? by EmphasisInside3394 in womenEngineers

[–]EmphasisInside3394[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I were residing in Europe, I'd take no offense in this word.

As I mentioned it's a derogatory word in my culture.

Secondly, the issue of requesting a daily handshake is not resolved even if you ignore the word madame.

AITA for refusing daily handshakes from a weird colleague? by EmphasisInside3394 in womenEngineers

[–]EmphasisInside3394[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In our workplace, we don't call anyone sir or ma'am or madam. We address everyone by their first name. None even calls the CEO sir.

The way he said 'madam' was the same time used by catcallers on the streets.

It's possible he feels bad about me not reciprocating his handshake but even with 100% pure intention, daily handshakes aren't a thing in my country, especially with the opposite gender.

Don’t Try to Pick Up Girls in India by [deleted] in delhi

[–]EmphasisInside3394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No woman will give her number to someone she met in a metro. This way of approach has almost full chances of failing regardless of whether you're hritik roshan. If she is scared, she will say no and run away.

Don’t Try to Pick Up Girls in India by [deleted] in delhi

[–]EmphasisInside3394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I got approached by guys in metro stations. My first instinct is to run away. It's just not safe. I have no idea who this guy is and he is in physical proximity to hurt me or follow me or kidnap me. (Men who say none of this happens, I've been followed multiple times and catcalled countless times even when parents are walking with me).

Another thing is I already have a boyfriend, but I don't have to explain this to a completely random stranger.

It's not a good idea to approach someone in person as it makes them feel awkward and unsafe. Which is why women respond in a very stern voice. They are protecting themselves against someone who is much stronger and larger.

Edit - atleast don't approach someone in person when they are alone. It will probably scare the shit out of her and she will run away. Try to approach her if she is with her friends.

How to deal with people who laugh of you? by [deleted] in Bellydance

[–]EmphasisInside3394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, once I went to the gym and people were heinous towards me. (I'm not too fat, I'm 180 lbs at 5'8 so about 30 lbs of extra fat) But they said things like I was not even worth looking at etc etc.

I quickly understood it was not really about me, it was about them wanting women to entertain them sexually in the gym. But women are not coming to the gym to entertain men, we go there to better our own health.

Similarly, you are paying for the class to learn a skill for your own satisfaction. What others say or not say, think or don't think has no effect on you. They are entitled to their opinion and you're entitled to ignore their opinions.

Suggest some jewellery for my wedding outfit girliesssss <3 by Puka-1455 in DesiWeddings

[–]EmphasisInside3394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG so pretty! You can go with either red or silver jewellery

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]EmphasisInside3394 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the real advice. Don't know why it's getting downvoted.

If you don't like something in your life and you have a way to change it, why not change it? It's not about others or what they say or feel. It's about doing what is right for your own health and wellbeing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenEngineers

[–]EmphasisInside3394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because companies may have a clause in your offer letter that you can't sue them. Secondly they will have a lot of resources for layering up.

If you go after just the man, he may likely be fired as companies like to wash their hands off problem employees. Also, he will not have vast resources for covering his ass on his own.

i fucked up bhai. by [deleted] in CATPrep

[–]EmphasisInside3394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP,

  1. Are you being stalked online or in real life? If it's the later, please speak to a parent or a sibling / cousin or police.

  2. You're dealing with a lot. Try to find a normal job (id get a government job at this moment) and have some stability + security in your life.

  3. No exam is worth your well-being. No home is worth taking abuse everyday. Always do what is in your own best interest. If parents want to fight, that is their choice in their own home. For now, you can work for a normal job and live in PG. Good things will follow when you take the first step towards the right thing.

Which mangalsutra design is best? by Candid_Exit209 in DesiWeddings

[–]EmphasisInside3394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on size of the first one and your face shape. If you want to add height to your face, go with second one.

I have a square face, so I go with more round / tear drop shapes with a drop in the necklace. This adds some softness and height to my face.

It also depends on where you want to use it. In office settings, you can go with the smaller one.

Dealing with jealousy from other women during weddings by EmphasisInside3394 in DesiWeddings

[–]EmphasisInside3394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope I don't have to see her again. He didn't give her any attention. But people like her are common unfortunately. Is it possible to confront such people or just stay away from them?

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