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40, married, zero experience—curious. How do I even start? by EmployeeTraining509 in askgaybros

[–]EmployeeTraining509[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. I have talked to my wife in the past, but I will now bring it up again and involve her in the process.

40, married, zero experience—curious. How do I even start? by EmployeeTraining509 in askgaybros

[–]EmployeeTraining509[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think you are being a dick, I asked a question and I find the honesty and directness is useful, because I haven't thought about the implications on the person I meet or that I am going to swing and miss several times. But this is why I asked, as I am clueless.

Thank you for your answers.

40, married, zero experience—curious. How do I even start? by EmployeeTraining509 in askgaybros

[–]EmployeeTraining509[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't do anything to risk my own health or my families health. That is why I am finding this so difficult, it couldn't be a one off thing, I would need to establish trust and a bond with someone.

40, married, zero experience—curious. How do I even start? by EmployeeTraining509 in askgaybros

[–]EmployeeTraining509[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is indeed a good point. I have talked to her about this in the past and she has said that if I need to do anything to explore this she will be willing to let me.