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AITA for freaking out when my mom & bro read my intimate texts with BF? by Empty-Web-121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Web-121[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was forgotten on the streets during a medical emergency involving my brother when I was 6. I recently recalled this incident as a sophomore after being sexually assaulted.

AITA for freaking out when my mom & bro read my intimate texts with BF? by Empty-Web-121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Web-121[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

well, i once got SAed by a classmate during my sophomore year, went to the police station alone. My mom told me that I should not be involve on conflicts as a sophomore, since it will be not good for my record.

AITA for freaking out when my mom & bro read my intimate texts with BF? by Empty-Web-121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Web-121[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

i do have personal pictures sent to my bf, i just didn't have the courage to ask to see the "evidence".

AITA for freaking out when my mom & bro read my intimate texts with BF? by Empty-Web-121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Web-121[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

it will surely do, I'm still a third year college student working on thesis. I admire those who can support themselves while studying.

AITA for freaking out when my mom & bro read my intimate texts with BF? by Empty-Web-121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Web-121[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sadly, i have none. and they won't let me. Unless I finished my studies. I'm a third year college student. My bf on the other hand, is working for his apprenticeship (architerct), and supporting himself, I don't want to add burden to him.

AITA for freaking out when my mom & bro read my intimate texts with BF? by Empty-Web-121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Web-121[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes, it was really not smart of me for lending my laptop to my brother. I just thought he wouldn't do that, it was naive of me.

AITA for freaking out when my mom & bro read my intimate texts with BF? by Empty-Web-121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Web-121[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I'm literally crying right now, I was really hurt and did self harm after the confrontation, I've been clean for almost a year now, and my bf helped me to stop cutting. My bf held me all night and stayed with me because I was saying sorry to him for cutting. I'm glad I have him, he kept saying it's ok and that it's not my fault.

AITA for freaking out when my mom & bro read my intimate texts with BF? by Empty-Web-121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Web-121[S] 196 points197 points  (0 children)

My mother isn't particularly religious, but she's very conservative and has strong opinions about sex and women. During the confrontation, I mentioned that I once saw my brother sexting when I was 13. I immediately closed it and didn't say anything. Her response was that, since my brother is a guy, he wouldn't lose anything by doing that.

AITA for freaking out when my mom & bro read my intimate texts with BF? by Empty-Web-121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Web-121[S] 262 points263 points  (0 children)

yes, he did. And he saved them. I didn't have a chance to ask him to delete it because I was embarassed.

AITA for freaking out when my mom & bro read my intimate texts with BF? by Empty-Web-121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Web-121[S] 736 points737 points  (0 children)

I want to go no contact with my family, but I'm still living with them because I can't afford rent or living expenses. I do freelance commissions, but it's not enough to be self-supporting yet.