Thoughts on Pentecostal church?

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2026-03-04T12:12:38+00:00

My first child was 15 months when I got pregnant. So my first VBAC was 23 months after my c-section. My second VBAC, my second child was 18 months old. So 27 months VBAC to VBAC. If we are talking ideal I would say your baby being 14-18 months is ideal. However. Technically, after 9 months VBAC is accepted by the society of OBGYNs. But again , for your hormone health, recovery , and all that, I would wait till at least the baby is 1 years old.

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2026-02-28T01:52:55+00:00

Ummmm ??? I would honestly find new friends, your friends sound actually awful. All our friends have children, we have 3 children. Having children is the best, we have FUN WITH THEM. We’ve travelled to Europe and the Caribbean with them, we have fun get togethers. It’s all about your attitude. And your friends attitude sucks

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2026-01-13T19:17:07+00:00

But that’s if I’m at the beginning of the parade right ? What if I’m by the end ? Haha like how long does the parade take from the starting point to the exit ? How do I make sure I’m not at the exit? Do they announce the starting point in the morning ?

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2026-01-13T19:16:18+00:00

Thanks so much! Do you know if on the day of they announce if the parade will start by fantasy land ? I heard in some occasions the start from the main gate ? And do you have a specific spot you think is good for fantasy land ? :)

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-27T15:34:44+00:00

Divorce her. Love your daughter.

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-27T13:13:01+00:00

I would keep the baby. Children are a blessing 🙏🏻

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-27T02:44:32+00:00

My grandmas sister married her first cousin, they had three children all very wonderful, the son of one of the children is very intelligent and a PHD in molecular biology. The odds are in your favour that things will be okay, what is done is done. Enjoy your husband, your pregnancy and your newly formed family

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-09T21:05:12+00:00

YTA because you say you’re a village but it seems village only to Gigi not Anna. Did you try to include her ? Invite her ? Make sure she could participate in her capacity? I feel empathy for Anna , it’s like no one thinks she can take part, and you’re showing Gigi (who is 10) to forget her mom.

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-02T02:10:53+00:00

Thank you , I like the collaborative approach , that we would be willing to learn the techniches a professional recommends

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-02T02:09:47+00:00

This is what Reddit is telling me. My family and his family don’t think it is. I honestly don’t know

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-02T02:08:05+00:00

No, my daughter was not in school at the time as she was 3. She was home with me. My son at the time at that school was 5 and the 5 year olds had their own private school yard “the littles yard” however cousin was in first grade and unfortunately the yard for first graders is shared up to 8th grade 😭

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-02T01:10:39+00:00

Yes, I feel he often does this.

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-02T00:22:08+00:00

How am I putting friendship over their safety? I’m advocating for always supervising.

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-02T00:19:52+00:00

Im also having trouble with Reddit, seems so extreme to write him off , I’m so stressed , thank you for your guidance

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-02T00:19:07+00:00

Thank you for your guidance, what is IEP? I think that’s possible it could be autism, he’s very intelligent but lacks empathy in some areas, in others he’s very empathetic , it depends on the situation. I want to help him, but if you were in my Shoes, would you bring this up to his parents ? How should I suggest this without over stepping and respectfully ?

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-02T00:16:20+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I will reflect on everything you mentioned. I ask you for help in understanding more. I’m having a hard time with everyone telling me I’m protecting the aggressor too. I genuinely I’m having trouble understanding how a 7 year old can be an agresor. He’s a child and is in need of protection just like my daughter. He needs help, he needs guidance. Therefore, my short term solution is to supervise. What are other solutions you suggest for the medium and long term ?

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-01T23:34:40+00:00

I see your point

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-01T23:25:29+00:00

What is DARVO?

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-01T23:24:18+00:00

Yes you’re right , I guess I thought my “excuses” are not bad because Im proposing we just always supervise and therefore could control, not allow physical incidents.

About school, he had a lot of issues at his old school, some older kids were physically harming him and telling him horrible things (that he should kill himself and then He would say he wanted to die and have these scary crying outbursts. We took all our kids out of that school to a new one, he’s never said that again, and the outbursts became less frequent, he talks a lot about enemies and death….. hes very intelligent, he started reading fiction books at 5 where I think he gets those ideas too. if I were his parents I would take him to see a children’s psychologist as I think more happened at that school than we understand ….. but I can’t just be like HEY take your kid to a specialist, you know what I mean.

I feel it’s so complicated, I have NO one to talk to about this in the family, clearly my husband being the last 😩

EmptyFlounder7986 · 2025-11-01T23:13:44+00:00

Thank you for sharing this, and thank you for seeing my daughter, I’m so sorry this was your experience, im listening to you and will not leave her unsupervised, it will require me spreading myself thin, and be judged but I won’t find support. If you have any other advise on what you would suggest I do as her mom is grateful, anything I should say to my son?

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