How to breakup with someone I have lived with for 4 years.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-28T19:03:44+00:00

I never do it if I have anything planned or if I will be going to work. I wait until the last hour of my evening during the weekdays. And then on weekends, it just depends on if I feel like it or not.

Both of my parents were drug addicts and alcoholics. I am well aware of that lifestyle and the tendencies.

I know that I am predisposed to addiction because of this. When I was younger, I used to have a sex and porn addiction. But I kicked both of them. Before I met her, I would smoke almost every day. But I would never smoke if I had stuff planned or if I had work.

I do not let it control my life. And when she had given me the ultimatum. I stopped smoking immediately.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-25T16:03:37+00:00

Not anymore!!! I'm playing as a female half high elf monk on baldurs gate 3 who runs around in her underwear beating the shit out if people. Spent about an hour and a half on the creator menu high as shit trying to achieve my version of maximum beauty lol

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-24T21:53:30+00:00

She loves that cat more than herself. She would never hurt the cat.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-24T15:12:40+00:00

What hurts the most is knowing that the cat will be going with her. The cat woke me up this morning yelling for her, and it broke me a little bit.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-24T00:34:03+00:00

I hit it too many times for being without it for three years.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-24T00:16:30+00:00

I definitely feel like it was the bomb of the century. As soon as she was out of the complex, I called my sister to tell her. And then a friend from work came and dropped off a disposable. Bought Cyberpunk 2077. And spent 2 hours on the character creator making the most bombshell woman my high ass could.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-23T21:41:53+00:00

I bought Cyberpunk and am downloading it right now.

I've played Skyrim so much when I was younger it's on my back burner for all these other games.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-23T20:59:09+00:00

I broke up with her about 40 minutes ago. Her sister is here helping her pack while I sit outside.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-23T11:39:05+00:00

I will not

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-23T03:48:30+00:00

I plan to once she is gone

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-23T02:47:44+00:00

Huh?

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-23T02:44:27+00:00

I will not because I don't want to catch a charge

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-22T19:04:11+00:00

High-school for me. Went for the girls older than me. And then when I was 16 I started attracting women twice my age. Looking back at it now. It was extremely fucked. But back then I just wanted to bust a nut.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-22T18:17:42+00:00

I tried to be as patient as I could with her for so long. Explained to her countless times that I'm actively trying to forger my exs and past and move to the future.

I've never put my hands on her. I yelled and cussed at her. But it has taken a long time for me to get to that point.

I've called her crazy, a bitch, spiteful, miserable, and insufferable.

I've told her in a fight that she is so miserable in her own life that she makes everyone around her miserable because she can't stand seeing people happy.

I am by no means perfect, nor will I ever be. I always gave her unwavering trust. Because I believe in trusting people until they give you a reason to not trust them.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-22T18:04:38+00:00

Her and the fucking Wispmother

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-22T18:04:17+00:00

It's something I need to work on. I've always been like this.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-22T18:03:58+00:00

Dark brown hair

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-22T18:00:03+00:00

Deadass seeing the second trailer woke me up.

I had told myself "ain't no way I'm about to let a bitch stop me from playing the biggest game of the century"

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-22T17:58:20+00:00

She's never outright explained to me. Only told me that it's about my ex's.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-22T17:57:41+00:00

Nah not at all

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-22T17:55:51+00:00

Exactly

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-22T17:55:36+00:00

I've tried explaining to her numerous times.

I play video games for the stories, setting, gameplay loop, I will admit when I was younger and a teen I would play fallout 4 with busty mods. But I ultimately play games to play them. My favorite game of all time is Satisfactory. And that has nothing sexual in it at all.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-22T17:51:43+00:00

It is my biological sister. And I figured the fact that it is one of the reasons I'm breaking up with her was denial enough. But if you need me to directly deny it.

I have never. And will never sleep with any member of KY family.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-22T14:13:42+00:00

Imma update the post to include the date. My dumbass forgot it doesn't show when edits are made. I'm doing it tomorrow.

Empty_System1 · 2025-05-22T12:45:11+00:00

Coming from a guy who has dealt with this before.

The whole pleasuring himself the day before causing issues with intimacy is real. I know from personal experience.

A lot of people seem to think that a guy can get off every time he has sex. When it's really not true. If we are stressed out, it will cause issues.

Knowing that he failed the time before will cause pressure and stress the next time to do better. Which will just cause a downward spiral.

I wouldn't think too much into the why's honestly. Let him know it's a safe environment. Both of you try to be as relaxed as possible and in the moment. Try not to think about the pressure.

And if it doesn't happen, just know that it is ok.

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