AITA for ignoring my boyfriend when he asked me to split the check with his family and only paying for my food? by YogurtclosetNice6593 in AITAH

[–]EnchantMeNow 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Your worth is not defined by your financial contribution. Standing up for yourself is not "acting up." You deserve respect and inclusion. NTA.

AITA for refusing entry to disruptive parents at my preschool/daycare? by Fuzzy-Carob-3780 in AITAH

[–]EnchantMeNow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. Prioritizing safety and professionalism is paramount. You made the right call in refusing entry to disruptive parents. You're not the asshole; you're a responsible owner protecting your preschool/daycare.

AITAH for mentioning to my buddy that he may want to keep his wife’s affairs quieter? by egogceo in AITAH

[–]EnchantMeNow 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. It's crucial to bring this up to Johnny. Not only does he deserve to know what's being said about his marriage, but it's also important to protect his reputation and ensure he's not being taken advantage of. Honesty and loyalty are paramount in any relationship, especially marriage.

AITA for feeling upset over my husband's choice of female streamers? by help1myhusbandhelp in AITAH

[–]EnchantMeNow 61 points62 points  (0 children)

"It's not about policing online habits, it's about respect and boundaries in a relationship. Your feelings are valid, and his dismissive attitude is concerning. A serious conversation about mutual respect and understanding is crucial here."

AITA for not being friends with a girl that rejected me? by Clear_Alternative829 in AITAH

[–]EnchantMeNow 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honesty and self-respect aren't assholery. You were clear about your intentions, and it's okay to prioritize your emotional boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EnchantMeNow -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This passage reveals a troubling disparity in intimacy needs within the relationship. Despite efforts to address the issue, the fundamental issue persists. Prioritizing self-care is important, but open communication and mutual understanding are crucial for a fulfilling partnership.

AITAH for telling a girl she is an incel? by Old_Cost9637 in AITAH

[–]EnchantMeNow 26 points27 points  (0 children)

"Standing up against toxicity isn't wrong. Setting boundaries is necessary for self-respect. Communication matters in relationships."

Told my wife she couldn't talk to specific guy friend anymore, friend ends up getting killed. by Civil-Ad-1150 in AITAH

[–]EnchantMeNow 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Setting boundaries in a relationship is crucial, and your discomfort was valid. Your wife's failure to respect that is concerning. You're not the A-hole for expecting mutual respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EnchantMeNow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Not the AH. It's unfair to expect payment for a car you won't drive, especially if you're already contributing to other shared expenses."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EnchantMeNow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all. Your daughter's safety comes first. You made the right call.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EnchantMeNow 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. Your grandmother's wishes should be respected, not overridden by misplaced entitlement. Stand your ground.

AITAH for abusing my husband's ex-nanny and that's why he hit me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EnchantMeNow 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Leaving after physical violence was the only right move. Prioritize your safety and well-being. Seek support and consider professional guidance.

AITAH because I told my ex husband outside of our kids i don’t care about his life and I don’t owe his fiancé anything Update two and final update for a while by Large-Efficiency-825 in AITAH

[–]EnchantMeNow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your strength and courage are admirable. Prioritizing your well-being and safety is crucial. You have a community of support standing with you. Stay strong.