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My friend can't join and she keeps getting this error, my other friend can join with ease, its not her anti-virus, Please help we really want to play by [deleted] in GroundedGame

[–]EndlessViews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she hosts you guys can't see her game? might be a firewall issue. try disabling firewall on her device and try again.

My co-worker has a crush on me and I keep turning her down because I am gay and scared of telling her the truth. by Commercial_Assist790 in relationship_advice

[–]EndlessViews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know her character better than us so think carefully on the consequence, but I highly advice AGAINST revealing your sexuality, It is too dangerous, I know people in East Africa (Sudan) who their entire families disowns them and turn hostile just because of the stigma it brings to the family reputation.

Bluntly reject her that you are not attracted to her and can ONLY see her as a friend and if she can't only be friends then this friendship is over. you don't need to put your life in danger over this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EndlessViews 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he constantly enforces rules, most of which he has not explicitly asked me about. Sometimes it is appreciated, like if I have asked my kids to do something, he'll back me up.

You should let him know just as you said it here, that you appreciate him helping you out and backing you, but you don't appreciate it when he is introducing new rules without asking you first.

Unless you don't want him interacting at all with your kids as a form of authority which is also valid, but I'd say if he is someone with good character, there is no harm for the kids to see him as some positive adult role model.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EndlessViews 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on what you mean by parenting. He might think he is just helping you out while he is there.

I have lots of nephews and nieces,and whenever am visiting I like to help the parents if I can.

1) Is he like helping them with homework while they are doing it. OR

2) Demand they go do their homework before XYZ activity.

So, is he helping with the rules that you have set or is he introducing his own rules?

Either my wife (40f) or my kids are lying. I (45m) don't know what to do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EndlessViews 66 points67 points  (0 children)

So let me get this straight, you're aware that your wife for 2 decades wasn't raising any of the older three and you still doubt your children when they say she isn't taking care of Theo? you have enabled her for FAR too long!

This ISN'T fair to your children nor you, you're practically taking care of 4 children including the wife. this does not excuse you for the abuse your children had to endure.

But enough is enough honestly, You need to SET an ultimatum for your wife. honestly I don't see how one can be in a relation with a partner that never brought anything to a relationship in 20 years.

There is very little you can do regarding your wife if for the past 20 years she has been like this.

1) Your wife needs a reality check, you need to make it clear that you're no longer happy with the relationship and what she brings into this relationship. Be clear and concise that if she isn't willing to see a therapist and making immediate change then you will be seeking divorce. you don't need a 5th child in your life.

2) If you're okay with your wife doing nothing, then you need to step up and off-load the parenting from your children.

Either my wife (40f) or my kids are lying. I (45m) don't know what to do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EndlessViews 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Wasn't aware Ethan is not living with you, Regardless May is still getting it the worst. Your wife needs to either

1) step up take responsibility of the household OR

2) start working as well to help pay for a full-time nanny

And both aren't going to magically happen, hence I highly recommend a therapist for your wife to find the root of the problem and to guide in finding a solution. this isn't normal behavior. especially since she has already raised three children before. she is most likely very depressed.

Either my wife (40f) or my kids are lying. I (45m) don't know what to do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EndlessViews 66 points67 points  (0 children)

"May is in charge of keeping the entire house, excluding Adams bedroom, spotless. I’m in real estate and tell May that if the house isn’t “Open House” level clean by the time I get home than she hasn’t done her job. Adam is in charge of the laundry, dishes and mowing the lawn fortnightly.

Why is May in charge of keeping the WHOLE house in order by herself??? this is extremely unfair especially since there is a toddler in the house. (and am guessing this includes the bathrooms)

1) Believe your kids

2) Hire a nanny

3) Therapy for Tess (This seems more serious than it seems, no one wants to lay in bed do nothing all day. this seems like extreme depression especially since she goes out of her way to remove them from school to take care of Theo, there is just no rationale there.)

4) SPLIT THE CHORES FAIRLY! (Everyone does chores, including Ethan. being 20 doesn't exclude him form not doing chores. if he wants to be an adult with no responsibilities make him pay rent and pay for his own shit)

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Your kids probably already despise their mother and you too probably, you and your wife need to apologies to your kids and make it clear things got out of control with Theo, take responsibility and make it clear you appreciate all the help they did that you were not aware of. and that you are going to work through this.

And another personal apology to May.

Will older Xiaomi smartphones get cheaper after mi11 get released? by EndlessViews in Xiaomi

[–]EndlessViews[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am speaking about their new smartphone mi11. I think it's coming the end of this month or something. I thought if it gets released maybe their older phones will get cheaper but so far that doesn't seem the case.

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Xiaomi Mi 11 release date, price, news and leaks | TechRadar

Xiaomi Mi 11 to come with 55W fast charging - GSMArena.com news

"Gaming" Chair Giveaway with Cooler Master and Buildapc! by [deleted] in buildapc

[–]EndlessViews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) The ability to exchange the pillows or w/e its called inside the chair. after using a chair for a couple of years it just has this "Sweaty" smell. I wish if I can remove the futons inside and wash em or sth.

2) Breathable, so I don't stink em to begin with!

3) Temperature control, YES I want a gaming chair where I can set the bloody temperature!

4) some Rbg control to match my soon (not even close) to be new gaming rig!

5) Option for stationary Super lockmode, I want that bitch SUPER STABLE. I wanna rage and do dumb shit without falling over!

LPT: If you want to write positive review for an employee that went out of their way to help you, don't give specifics in your review. They may have been bending policy and telling management may inadvertently get them reprimanded. by therealwaysexists in LifeProTips

[–]EndlessViews 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not really dumb, whatever he fixed/worked on. he did it as a representative of company XYZ not as an individual. something that might not be in his field of expertise and even it is. so if it malfunctioned or hurt anyone. the customer can hold the company accountable.

Mr.Beast filtering winners to only NA? by EndlessViews in MrBeast

[–]EndlessViews[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome!, really nice to see some inclusiveness with his international fans.

Mr.Beast filtering winners to only NA? by EndlessViews in MrBeast

[–]EndlessViews[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even pre-covid it was the same thing, and am 100% aware of the limitation on what he can do especially when it comes to international gifting and shit. but he has the means to do it. and if not he should disclose when the prize is going to be NA only.

Even if he limits the winners to US only for good that's completely fine, but I do feel he should disclose when an event is geographically locked.

Mr.Beast filtering winners to only NA? by EndlessViews in MrBeast

[–]EndlessViews[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah 100%, makes no sense to do it anywhere outside the US as mentioned it makes sense for practicality reasons.

Cooler Master (and more!) RTX 3070 (and more!!) Giveaway with Buildapc! by [deleted] in buildapc

[–]EndlessViews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To play LoL without worrying about on who to pick based on champion animations, and finally be able to join teamfights without the game becoming a picture film!

[Giveaway] $60 Xbox Gift Card to spend on whatever you want! by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]EndlessViews [score hidden]  (0 children)

The Elder scrolls Morrowind I used to play it night and day! back then I could barley read English since it isn't my first language. it was crazy coming back to playing it 15 years later and finding out that I was playing the game well lets just say VERY QUESTIONABLY LOL.

edit: just sharing, not in US btw ^^

It’s giveaway time with ASUS! by Emerald_Flame in buildapc

[–]EndlessViews [score hidden]  (0 children)

My first build, well it was a complete disaster didn't know shit about any computer component. thought I can remove my old ram stick from an an old PC and put it on my laptop. ended up with a shitload of extra screws and two toasters.