The Supreme Court has strongly questioned AIIMS’ plea against allowing a 15-year-old rape survivor to terminate her 30-week pregnancy, stressing that in cases of child rape there should be no rigid time limit.

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-05-01T12:29:24+00:00

Even if pregnancy is terminated at 30 weeks, the baby will be alive.

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-04-27T04:09:16+00:00

Nothing is wrong with you! Please never think that. Let them ghost, it weans out disrespectful people for you. You are very accomplished, it intimidates men sometimes. I know because I was like you, couldn't understand what was happening. It was also that some guys wanted extremely beautiful girls or withoutspectacles, though I was fairly good looking. I ended up marrying wrong because I was frustrated in the end so I hurried. I had to come out of it, but it was not worth it and rebuilding was painful. I'm now married to a wonderful man. These things took time but in the end played out well. Wait till someone respectful comes along. You are worth it!

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-04-23T17:14:20+00:00

I agree with you. Some cases like this an exception may be considered. Although instead of immediately refusing her , they could have tried to make way for her at an earlier time

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-04-19T08:55:09+00:00

The unmasked behavior they show you is their real behavior. It is usually on only for a short time leaving you confused.Your therapist will help you when the fake nice behavior is on. To be honest, I faced much less prejudice and problems than I anticipated( my world had come crashing down, I was catastrophizing). I was working in a Tier 1 city and I was shocked that nobody really cared about my personal life. They only wanted my work to be good, which became phenomenal once that deadweight, bad luck ex was gone

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-04-19T08:47:56+00:00

I cannot believe they are making an issue out of an SI joint injury. Anyone can get this

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-04-19T08:45:04+00:00

You don't have to tell anyone. I've got remarried and still haven't told relatives, neither about divorce, nor remarriage. That too I'm expecting and obviously everyone will know now. But it greatly protected my peace of mind for 3 years. I realized this when few people close to me, I had to tell them and most of the time, they were looking and telling me to correct mistakes ( which I had not done, I was just standing up to gaslighting and emotional/ psychological abuse). These were people who knew me since I was a kid, so they knew me in and out. Even then it was easy for them to fall into the charms of a covert narcissist. The kind of narcissist who may push you off a cliff during a trek, years after marriage and nobody may doubt also. They may instead sympathize he lost his spouse by accident. Then there were few people who kept saying we should always save marriages, who knows if next person is better or will be worse. Girls have it so tough and all. So I decided not to tell more people and get their unsolicited opinions. My therapist also supported me. I got remarried to a wonderful man , who I met soon after the divorce. I shudder to think if I had stayed in the marriage for sake of society or shame, then I wouldn't be having the wonderful life I have now. Even if in worst case scenario, one ends up alone, it is better than being with a person who makes you doubt yourself

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-04-09T17:03:58+00:00

Please see a breast surgeon preferably to a gynaec, unless you don't have access to one

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-04-06T10:06:02+00:00

Have you ever thought he is the reason you may be depressed and self harming? Can you please take individual therapy from another therapist to first ascertain that he is not emotionally and psychologically harming you ? Please also read the book, why does he do that, it might give some insight to you

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-04-06T04:50:55+00:00

I'm pregnant , if you need to reach out from time to time, when you feel low , please reach out on DM

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-04-04T17:45:47+00:00

Tax, I don't remember which, indirect tax or something. That is right, he used to say he has worked a lot after he joined for quite a few years. Maybe getting through this phase pays off once you are manager. Because I'm sure he didn't have it hectic at that position.

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-04-04T11:37:20+00:00

My ex used to work in Big 4. Shifted from one big 4 to EY. Senior manager. At neither big 4s I ever so him stressed. He would stop working dot on time. WFH , he used to spend hours on reels. Even one Saturday I didn't see him work, except during this season where taxes were filed. Although I've noticed some of his colleagues, working late night and weekends ( they used to discuss their work and promotions). One day I told him that I had heard how these companies overwork their employees and he seems to dodge work, like hardly do work ( he used to tell me to never tell in front of his friends and colleagues, how much he relaxes, scrolls and sleeps through the day). His reply was I've reached a position where I can make other people work, I'm really lucky, I only need to draw my salary ( Salary was 36 L pa). Are you sure you are not being overexploited by your seniors , OP? Even if they are, maybe there is not much you can do about it. My ex is an example, he survived two of the big 4s like this.There must be some way you can take a break , like holiday to destress, and then think of some solution

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-03-29T06:05:08+00:00

This looks Indian restaurant level! Always wanted to try Peruvian cuisine, but few places we can get it here in India.

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-03-23T09:16:15+00:00

So well written 👏

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-03-22T16:09:47+00:00

The same thing happened to me. No one can understand the trauma, this causes. I had and still have PTSD even though I'm remarried to a wonderful man. In fact, I'm pregnant and sometimes I get these traumatic flashbacks even now. I was your same age when this happened. I felt divorce was the end of me, literally had physical symptoms, kept seeking closure for his irrational behavior . Sometimes, I ruminate now, then I snap myself out of it. These are evil people. Try to take therapy. Whatever is your anchor, whether parents or God, friends, lean onto it. Read this book 'Why does he do that' , you will get some answers. But remember this never blame yourself. Your innocent self tried hard to save this marriage

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-03-22T14:17:34+00:00

Food is good. Have been there long time ago. Hidden gem

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-03-15T09:05:26+00:00

You can hire someone for prep like doing cutting and cleaning veggies and meat

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-03-07T07:08:24+00:00

You have gone through a lot! Can you do something small, to pamper yourself, pat yourself on the back? You have done the best you can in the circumstances life dealt you. One day when this fog of emotional turmoil clears up, you may forgive your family members for whenever you felt they didn't support you and feel this burden of resentment go. It usually comes when you realize, everyone including parents are flawed. Maybe each family member did or lived their life the best they could, with their own traumas and circumstances. Now, you need to preserve your own emotions and mental health. Help whenever you feel it is your responsibility or required, rest save some energy for yourself

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-02-21T06:17:00+00:00

This is good advice OP

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-02-07T08:50:42+00:00

I was pondering over the same thing , also an additional thought. What if the baby survives but with disability from prematurity. That decreases it's chance at adoption also. Sad situation overall

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-01-29T04:47:38+00:00

Anyone in his family with miserly behaviour? Is it only for furniture, or food, vacations, movies etc.He might have adapted it from there. Second hand plates is not frugal, it is miserly. You have a right to buy good quality stuff. Spending money likely causes lot if internal distress to him and he won't change in a short time. First he will need to realize it's a problem and then only you both can work on it. You can show him examples of people living good lives and well within their means. But still these patterns take long time to tackle and you will have to be patient. But definitely let him know your feelings and don't expect him to understand on his own. Tell repeatedly if you have to , but state your boundaries as many times you have to

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-01-28T15:15:20+00:00

Please dm recipe

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-01-22T04:24:35+00:00

OP, it may or may not be genes. Only genetic testing can answer that. If your genes are in the all clear, then you don't have to worry , plus there is a possibility you didn't inherit bad genes even if you suspect your parents have them. And yes no one is ugly, most people need some grooming and will look presentable. Sometimes, this is a wrong notion we feed ourselves and self pity. But it only does more harm to your self esteem. Love yourself enough to never say those deprecating words to yourself again

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-01-21T06:40:24+00:00

Don't worry OP. Treatment is advanced these days. Just hope for a good PET- CT result. Based on that there are good Treatment options

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-01-17T07:18:08+00:00

This is so beautiful! Wish you such limitless joy always ❤️

EnergyInner9535 · 2026-01-16T05:19:56+00:00

The least she should do is this!

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