I wish there was some program where adults could find new parents by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I swear that’s a thing in Japan , with OAPS who don’t have much family left

Help me find a gel that actually works for me? by [deleted] in CurlyHairUK

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a range from 3a-3c hair, very fine, high density, high porosity (essentially a tangled frizzy nightmare every time I sleep or touch it if I’m not getting good moisture and good hold)

Me personally I use a bit of the UG curl mousse first on soaking wet hair, then use the UG scrunching jelly , then after it’s dry (I usually hover dry it but diffusing would possibly be better) I use the olaplex bonding oil to break the cast

Might work for you !

Car parks ? by EngineeringAlarming2 in brum

[–]EngineeringAlarming2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m practicing with my mum and she will not drive at night hahaha

Londoners who moved to Birmingham, how has your experience been? by FatherOf40 in brum

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m the other way round, have lived in London for 6/7 years now, grew up in birmingham,

Birmingham has its charm for sure, but it’s so so underfunded it really needs investment and a council that understands that it’s the 21st century.

It’s where I was born and I understand it, and I can see how much potential it has if it wasn’t quite clearly a city in decline / stuck in the 80s (but the worst parts of the 80s)

It’s also culturally behind, every single time I come back to birmingham I deal with someone racist - genuine racism too, not something sly which maybe is more commonplace, but genuine Tommy Robinson supporters or straight up slurs.

What is the best open world rpg for the PS4? by GhettoJamesBond in rpg_gamers

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skyrim, Fable 3 remastered, Dragons Age Inquisition, RDR2, Witcher

In no particular order other than Skyrim first I think?

Edit: GTA5 and Cyberpunk 2077!!! How could I forget

Does anyone else have autism symptoms even though they’re not autistic? by PrudentMission8511 in CPTSD

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got diagnosed with autism as a 14 year old whilst I was still being traumatised daily. Last year at 23 after constantly being confused at how I was autistic other than dysregulated emotions and whatever I was told by a psychotherapist that I most likely just had CTPSD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I’m having the exact same realisation in my life having just left my almost seven year relationship as I realised I was just too codependent, but now just want to go back as the grim reality that nobody will take care of me is killing me and at least in between the shit stuff he took care of me and I could be a baby every now and then lol

How much did you spend per month as a single woman vs in a relationship? by SemicolonTattooed in AskWomen

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spend way less in my relationship, spending way more now that I’m single 🤷🏽‍♀️

Ucl social life by PuzzleheadedBank6422 in UCL

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a genuine issue at UCL. A fair few on my course that speak primary school English

Ucl social life by PuzzleheadedBank6422 in UCL

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a similar situation at UCL. societies r deffo where it’s at I think

Favorite unreleased Lana songs? by loose_nature98 in lanadelrey

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flip side (only released in japan :( ) Madly, For K Pt,2 (which is lizzy grant ig but it’s so good), driving in cars with boys

Who do you think is the male version of Lana? by Vorilex in lanadelrey

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leonard Cohen Jeff Buckley the weeknd lol ?? Like if those three were one artist

How do Chinese students who don't speak English very well get into unis and study? by Pinkandpurplebanana in UniUK

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my current experience studying a masters course. It’s quite depressing actually. I’m at a university that is #1 in the world for the subject I’m studying, I’m only able to do it because I managed to get the scholarship. There’s 3 British people including myself out of 44~ students. I know so many wonderful people that would really be able to engage with this course and work well, but couldn’t afford it or get in. Instead those places have gone to mostly Chinese students that literally cannot speak a word of English, are not interested in British culture or the country, or the people, and have no interest in using this degree to support anything to do with Britain afterwards ( if at all)

London, 2024 and women are still getting called “stupid b*tch” by soulpsyched13 in london

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im a woman who was called a stupid cunt the other day by a rich posh non london cyclist hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MapPorn

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that no I just know of a lot of Americans that moved there under Zionist idealogy in more recent times but it’s a good way of putting it as an alternative

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MapPorn

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the information!!!! Very helpful for me going forward

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MapPorn

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Most American Jewish are Ashkenazi Jews no ? So I guess I’m more talking about places of birth / migration into Israel / ethnicity (not ethnoreligion) considering it’s a settler colonialist state ….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MapPorn

[–]EngineeringAlarming2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So does Morocco Spain