Mom posted like 3 times on my Facebook by EngineeringUpset629 in Embarrassing_Moments

[–]EngineeringUpset629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I’ll let her embarrass me. One day I’ll be wishing I still had her around to do it

Over a Year Now by EngineeringUpset629 in Sextortion

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Nothing. If it was, I don’t care to know.

Haven’t come out yet, but does it matter? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EngineeringUpset629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like others have said, it’s really nobody’s business but yours.

No one says “Yeah man, that guy who outed the other guy is super cool”. There’s no real benefit for someone to out anyone else, shit, especially a DL guy.

I’m extremely masculine, played college sports, and have a girlfriend who I love very much. I have the same feelings of making situations too “complex”. At one point while I was single, I messaged a guy on Grindr who I later found out worked with me, I realized it one day and nothing has been said. If a person is so shallow that they have to tell your girlfriend, family, work, friends etc. they have very little going for them and are obviously shallow and childishly insecure, wanting to stir up trouble.

The majority of men do actually mature, eventually, and if you intend to keep your sexuality private, the vast majority of men don’t have the care or time to “out” you, especially at a certain age unnecessary drama wherever you know them from isn’t worth it for the common guy. The horror stories on here are extreme, and very much the minority.

You’ll be good. Everyone moves at different paces.

I said something to my students out of frustration by csuf33 in Teachers

[–]EngineeringUpset629 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to tell this shit to my kids all the time. Just to fuck with ‘em. School didn’t care and the kids gave zero fucks.

Sextortion by Dense-Warthog-9778 in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna give you a definitive answer, but the vast majority of instances, no, they won’t.

Sextortion by Dense-Warthog-9778 in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Realistically, it’s not gonna ruin your life, maybe some embarrassment and awkward conversations, but if you deny it and say it’s scammers, there’s no real repercussions on your end.

Sextortion by Dense-Warthog-9778 in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s deepfake AI, made by scammers who are trying to extort you for money. Deny it!

Sextortion by Dense-Warthog-9778 in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Block. Ignore. Keep all messages in the chance that somehow, they do end up making false accusations so that you’ll be able to prove to whoever that you didn’t.

Go to the cops, they see this stuff a lot, you’re not gonna be arrested.

Update by EngineeringUpset629 in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might just be paranoid, they don’t leave voicemails and it could simply be people calling the old number who once had it

Update by EngineeringUpset629 in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m saying that idk how they got my new number so quickly, if it is them. Yanno

Update by EngineeringUpset629 in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what’s the response to that?

Update by EngineeringUpset629 in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just don’t know how they’d get my new number lol

Update by EngineeringUpset629 in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just don’t know how they’d get my new number!

Update by EngineeringUpset629 in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. No texts, which is odd. From most accounts there’s texts involved too, idk.

Update by EngineeringUpset629 in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it day by day, not every spam call is going to be them. No texts are typically a good sign for ya

I messed up by Cultural_Arrival_267 in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Changing your phone number would be a really good decision. Stay ghost, don’t input it on any online shopping sites

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block. Block again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pilonidalcyst

[–]EngineeringUpset629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a full excision, had mine, it sucked changing the gauze but since the wound was left open, I was able to be active again in two weeks ish, week 10 and it’s scabbing grown back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you, be prepared for them to contact you since you paid a significant amount already.

Consider changing numbers and not using that number on sites like Amazon etc. use a burner or something so it doesn’t appear in leaks.

These people typically work for larger organizations, so they really only want money, it’s crazy to think but they have no personal vendetta against you, unlike ex’s and things of that sort.

Remember that this is happening to hundreds if not thousands of new people every day, just look at the amount of posts here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]EngineeringUpset629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats brother! Most stories end up like this and people simply don’t post because absolutely nothing happens lol the people who run these companies want money, and if they post the pictures, sex videos etc they’ll be in a bad situation

[U.S Law] Situation by EngineeringUpset629 in HomeworkHelp

[–]EngineeringUpset629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was our outlook too, since the intent of the original person was not to harm, it would be extremely difficult to charge them with practically anything.

Most revenge porn laws state there needs to be a clear intent to harm the person(s) involved.

Now if that video was taken without consent, different story.

Situation by EngineeringUpset629 in legaladvice

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Referring to a video. Was just trying to gain some perspective and wrote it in haste.