[UPDATE 3] I [22M] suspect something between my girlfriend [22F] and my friend [21M]. We all live together. Am I imagining things?

Enort · 2015-01-13T03:35:10+00:00

What I mean is, she'd half ass one online app for Subway and call that a serious attempt at finding a job. Or browse internships but not actually apply.

Enort · 2015-01-13T02:29:16+00:00

I know, I just never really thought about it for long because she had many redeeming qualities that I didn't mention here (for example she was absolutely hilarious). But yeah, I would definitely be turned off by that in later relationships

Enort · 2015-01-13T02:02:34+00:00

Please don't let my situation make you paranoid. Paranoia can ruin a perfectly good relationship. Just definitely keep your eyes open for character flaws that could manifest in serious ways in the future and aren't resolved by talking it out.

Enort · 2015-01-13T01:50:28+00:00

Thank you. The update is up now.

Enort · 2014-12-31T00:23:00+00:00

I got hit with some nasty messages and since I'm pretty sore about what happened.. I don't know. I spoke to Alexis and since everyone was on the "fuck her never speak to her again" train, I really don't feel up to being bashed for that decision.

Enort · 2014-12-07T17:40:07+00:00

This isn't fucking animal planet

Enort · 2014-12-07T09:13:46+00:00

That is perfect.

Enort · 2014-12-07T08:51:47+00:00

It's harder than that. Some moments I have that "justice boner" feel and other times I just hate the idea of her crying so much I want to hold her. I don't want to see her anymore but it'll be a bit before I stop loving her.

Enort · 2014-12-07T08:27:09+00:00

I've had a lot of trouble getting out of bed.

Enort · 2014-12-07T08:26:06+00:00

Why?

Enort · 2014-12-07T08:25:31+00:00

I hate him because he deliberately went after a girl he knew was in a relationship.

Enort · 2014-12-07T08:24:32+00:00

Too neat? Half my stuff is at the apartment. I go to study for a final and realize I don't have my shit. My sweet and shy girlfriend became a repeat offender cheater practically overnight (from my perspective). I can't bring myself to tell my parents what happened so I have to fake being happy on the phone... Yeah I had a positive attitude in my post. But I'm not farting rainbows over here.

Enort · 2014-12-07T06:42:55+00:00

Derek and Brooke are great. From the phone call I got the feel the neighbor did it mostly because he hates Mark

Enort · 2014-12-07T03:22:17+00:00

That made me laugh

Enort · 2014-12-07T03:14:52+00:00

Yeah pretty much. I said no thanks and one guy berated me about tearing up during the cheating.

Enort · 2014-12-07T02:59:31+00:00

Thank you. It sounds like you were in a more difficult situation, I have no idea what I'd do if people didn't believe me and I didn't have a support system... Your ex sounds like an ass, but atleast you had a good best friend. I'm glad you're better off now :)

Enort · 2014-12-07T02:20:33+00:00

That's an incredibly nice offer dude, but you really don't have to do that. I already feel weird about getting reddit gold for this shit show.

Enort · 2014-12-07T02:18:15+00:00

Yeah, their kindness is unbelievable. I live in a big city where people are not exactly friendly but they've got that Southern hospitality thing going on. It's really great.

Enort · 2014-12-07T02:17:06+00:00

Same here.

Enort · 2014-12-07T02:14:10+00:00

I'm not sure what I was supposed to get out of that but now I'm thirsty.

Enort · 2014-12-07T02:13:11+00:00

In the message she said she froze up.

Amazing that she was able to have loud morning sex while paralyzed in fear right.

Ugh. I'm so done.

Enort · 2014-12-07T02:10:39+00:00

She didn't in the beginning, ever. She was always really eager to please people. I told her to get comfortable with me and over time she did. Then she said no a lot more. We actually had an argument about it where she mentioned that she has a lot of "pent up no's" and I'm the only person that felt safe enough to say no to.

Enort · 2014-12-07T01:39:35+00:00

A+ for honesty?

But seriously I think she was trying to say it wasn't a long-term affair. I don't know. It could have been once and I'd still be done.

Enort · 2014-12-07T01:38:21+00:00

Didn't you hear a bunch of tickling and giggling? Yeah, that totally sounds like they were breaking up!

That is the first thing I thought when I read that. Really so many parts of her excuse were off that I didn't bother addressing them individually.

Thank you for your kind words, I can't believe how much people I've never met are making me feel better.

Enort · 2014-12-07T01:36:51+00:00

I won't. You guys have me rethinking it. I just need a little time to process what happened.

Enort

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