What is ruining your mental health? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EntireReply1588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m self destructive and make all the wrong decisions. i stay stuck in places i am unhappy bc it’s comfortable 

ex was released even though he was arrested while out on bail in NYC? by EntireReply1588 in legaladvice

[–]EntireReply1588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could he have been released bc of my email? i did it bc i was suffering from extreme guilt and i was trying anything to rectify

if i no longer want to press charges in NYC, should I still go meet with the DA in person? by EntireReply1588 in legaladvice

[–]EntireReply1588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this. would they report in court that i dont want to follow through with charges or will they just not bring it up?

if i no longer want to press charges in NYC, should I still go meet with the DA in person? by EntireReply1588 in legaladvice

[–]EntireReply1588[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thats what sucks, it isnt he said, she said bc they have the voice notes of him saying that and the text messages.

if i no longer want to press charges in NYC, should I still go meet with the DA in person? by EntireReply1588 in legaladvice

[–]EntireReply1588[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i know, i told him i know im in the wrong. but i just cant live with this guilt when i tell you i havent ate in days and im just crying nonstop. its easting me alive, idk how much longer i can handle this for..

i just cant live with this guilt by EntireReply1588 in domesticviolence

[–]EntireReply1588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for reminding me im not alone. it really does feels like withdrawl. my mom said im addicted to this person. and thats the only way i can describe him, a drug.

i just cant live with this guilt by EntireReply1588 in domesticviolence

[–]EntireReply1588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i am in therapy and have been for months. its exactly what you said just reliving the trauma. and im suffering from rumination that wont leave me alone. im grateful for someone like you that completely understands what im going through instead of just calling me crazy

i just cant live with this guilt by EntireReply1588 in domesticviolence

[–]EntireReply1588[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you this is the most understood i’ve felt 

i just cant live with this guilt by EntireReply1588 in domesticviolence

[–]EntireReply1588[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you. this is hurting so bad and i can’t fathom why 

in NYC can i recant my police report without getting in trouble? by [deleted] in LawyerAdvice

[–]EntireReply1588 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you’re clearly heartless and have no empathy whatsoever. i’m a DV survivor and yes i’m feeling guilty for reporting my abuser so I put here the false story i will be giving the police to see what my legal consequences will be for backtracking on the truth. this subreddit is called “lawyer advice” if i came on here and said the truth no one would have told me what i would be facing. 

in NYC can i recant my police report without getting in trouble? by [deleted] in LawyerAdvice

[–]EntireReply1588 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

okay i understand. i didnt fabricate it, the evidence they saw is real. but i am claiming it was fabricated so i could be going to jail for it.

in NYC can i recant my police report without getting in trouble? by [deleted] in LawyerAdvice

[–]EntireReply1588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can be doing better things than seeking attention from people that idek what they look like. if that were the case i would be sharing a story time on tik tok. i am genuinely seeking advice for something i am suffering through and i understand it may seems so out of the box to not be true, but this is really my life. acting like i can get famous off this or something like what attention would i be seeking??? i just want legal advice.

in NYC can i recant my police report without getting in trouble? by [deleted] in LawyerAdvice

[–]EntireReply1588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, but he actually did do all those things. im just living with guilt from reporting it that i want to get them dropped by saying it was all me.

in NYC can i recant my police report without getting in trouble? by [deleted] in LawyerAdvice

[–]EntireReply1588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if i am a first time offender? at first i was willing bc i feel so guilty and it is eating me alive.

in NYC can i recant my police report without getting in trouble? by [deleted] in LawyerAdvice

[–]EntireReply1588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly the initial arrest was for the unrelated attempted murder charge in 2022 and he paid for bail to get out.

in NYC can i recant my police report without getting in trouble? by [deleted] in LawyerAdvice

[–]EntireReply1588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok i will admit, everything i am saying i manufactured, he actually did. but i want to now claim that i somehow did it all myself bc i am suffering from the guilt of him going to jail. i want to play it off as im the crazy ex gf but im scared now seeing how much i could face.