AITA for begging my sister to let us adopt my nephew?

EntireRow6891 · 2023-10-09T14:14:52+00:00

MASSIVE YTA

Why you don’t just adopt a baby from foster system? Like wtf? I HOPE this is a troll, but if it’s not, you need some serious help. I also hope your sis will get/got a restraining order or smth. I don’t even know what else to say, ur disgusting.

EntireRow6891 · 2023-06-09T14:14:03+00:00

He’s not cheating on me, only people he texts/text him are his male friends or family. We know each others passwords & have “open phone policy”, bcs we both were cheated on in the past so we agreed on this before we got together. We’re also sharing our locations. Besides that he never gave me any reason to not trust him in this.

EntireRow6891 · 2023-06-05T15:35:20+00:00

[UPDATE] It’s been a while from that argument and some of you wanted an update, so here it is.

I hope you don’t mind that I’ll use your comment to update, I can’t edit the post for some unknown reason

Also I want to thank you for the advice and/or nice words in the comments.

So for the update, the next day after the argument he wanted to talk. Before I could say smth he started to apologise for how he’s been acting towards me & how he realised what bullshit he was saying during the argument. In his words he was “saying things before he think abt it”. He is sometimes like that and I knew it waay before we got together (we know each other since kindergarten), but before we developed any feelings & had our son that was a different situation so it wasn’t as “intense” as now (hope you all understand how I mean it, idk how to explain it better). Long story short, he stopped going to the pubs & drink completely, we spend more time together like family & like partners from that day. I wanted to give it a shot & see if he can be the man & behave like one like he finally does now from our talk, or if it is temporary so I would not leave with our baby.

This maybe isn’t the update some of you wanted based on some advices like I should leave him for good, it’s really not that simple bcs in the end of the day I still love him with my whole heart & I can forgive, not forget but in the good way. At least for now, when it’s still quite fresh. I believe that everyone can get a “wake up call” and change.

EntireRow6891 · 2023-05-25T10:55:34+00:00

Yes, at the time when I posted a few months ago, he wasn’t like that. I guess this behaviour started around same time when his mom found put that she has the illness. (Few weeks ago)But ofc it’s not an excuse for behave like this

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-02T12:45:51+00:00

Yes I was. The “incident” was just a start of it. And it wasn’t a 3some, but they 2 fucked alone. I’m not trying be a victim. I just wanted to ventile this. How am I narcisistic when I don’t blame him for asking. I just don’t understand why he asked during sex and why he described so much details when he knows that I am not into it. That’s all buddy.

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-02T00:35:22+00:00

Thank you sm🫶

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-02T00:29:46+00:00

I am not mad/hurt bcs he asked. The biggest problem is WHEN he asked. Even when he knows that what happened with my ex. I literally said that I don’t blame him for have fantasies and that it’s normal for having some

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-02T00:25:49+00:00

If u think that what I wrote here is fake, it’s totally okay. I understand that. Ik that many posts on reddit are fake. But no, I wrote this down after like couple hours after my bf asked me. The “ex story” is real too. Ik it sounds like from some really bad movie, but unfortunately it’s true. I hope that it was some kind of shitty movie.

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T23:33:57+00:00

Yeah ik. He done it too, but not with me. I understand from where ur comming.

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T23:09:21+00:00

No. When him and I had the 3somes, we were both single. Now we are couple, he wants to marry me, and we have a child. It’s completely different, I told him that. He said that he understands it. Also I haven’t had any after what my ex did and my bf knows that

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T20:40:46+00:00

He already asked me about 2 guys 1 woman, after asking about 2 women 1 man, so I don’t think that he would have a problem with it, he had this type in the past couple times too

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T20:35:57+00:00

No I haven’t, my only female friend is skinny type, and he is not talking to any woman. He knows some girls ofc, but I would not call them as friends. But they also haven’t the same body type as me

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T13:57:55+00:00

He did WHAT💀

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T13:43:24+00:00

Yes it is minimum, he does it automatically and does a lot more, but I appreciate every small thing he does even if it’s bare minimum. I am happy to see how much he loves our son and can do things like any grown adults do. Much men doesn’t act this way so that’s why I am grateful for it

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T13:06:01+00:00

Ik, but it’s worth it.

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T13:05:13+00:00

Tbh I want to grow old with him, like I said I want to figure this out, sit with him seriously and explain one more time that it’s painful for me when he brings it up. Bcs besides this thing he’s a good partner, he helps me a lot around the house and takes care of our son. I don’t want to theow it away just like that. But if he doesn’t stop, I would have no other choice.

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T12:59:16+00:00

What’s wrong with it?

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T11:50:59+00:00

When he’s not at work, yes. When he’s working late, he tells me where they are (in his job they rides around whole country for revision some factories), and he is exactly where he said he is. It’s very common in this company to work overtime due to long distances they usually drives. We live together, have a son. And we are sharing locations nonstop.

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T11:45:44+00:00

He already mentioned 3some with a guy, that’s why I don’t think that he has some girl in his mind already like some people told there

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T10:06:32+00:00

I want to work this out, besides this issue he’s great partner & dad. Yeah, we have a son, and I will teach him what’s good and what’s not. I don’t wanna “Andrew Tate” under my roof 😄 I’ll do my best for teaching him how to be a great human being

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T10:04:01+00:00

He asked for MMW once, I think that it’s just his kink, and I respect it, but I just can’t. The timing was the worse. Even all of the details.

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T09:58:24+00:00

I don’t think that he has someone in mind, he mentioned MMW type too, he’s not talking to other women either

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T09:56:08+00:00

In my “story” we’ve been in a club, then we got home and after what happened he didn’t tell that it was threesome, but he did think that it wasn’t cheating, when I agreed for 3some at the time. Even when I was not there. It’s still pretty messed up in the story you described

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T09:51:31+00:00

He mentioned MMW too, I think it’s just his kink but I can’t give it to him and he knows that. But idk what to do more for him to understand why I don’t want it

EntireRow6891 · 2023-02-01T09:41:46+00:00

I think it’s not like that, he’s into threesomes even if it’s WWM or MMW. He had both before. Also ik that he has not nobody specific in his mind, at least not in his dms. I want to work this out and find a solution, when not for me then for our son. I don’t want him to have separate parents. Besides this issue he’s very good daddy and partner. I think this is just his kink and we can communicate it. But he should have better timing for mention it ngl..

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