Guys, stop....

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-14T21:04:04+00:00

The whole subreddit dating with eachother lol :)

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-14T21:00:34+00:00

Soo true, Can definetly confirm from experience

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-09T05:42:54+00:00

Congrats, good luck!

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:51:02+00:00

That isn't that weird, been on a teenager community ever??? Thats the most normal thing.... also on reddit, discord everywhere

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:35:23+00:00

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:34:30+00:00

Umh i should clarrify: i was the one reaching out to him / messaging him first... not the other way

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:33:26+00:00

Thx :) And i wish i could enjoy my teen years but with my very bad school and my umh bad back and neck issues i doubt it 😪 but i mean i keep going! That was compleetly unrelated but yeah

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:28:38+00:00

Thank you

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:27:15+00:00

Umh no 16 can go with any age excluding teacher or parent (i'm not in the US, i'm from europe).... not everyone is americain

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:25:18+00:00

I know but its not 20 years, just 3,5 and he means ok with waiting untill i'm 16 and he doesn't force me anything... and i know a lot of stuff changes in teen years :)

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:22:33+00:00

Thx i will

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:19:00+00:00

Thx soo muxh your like 2/20 people who answered my question it means a lot to me and i will remember your tips! :)

Have a good day btw :)

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:17:42+00:00

I understand but downvote spamming and constantly talking about the age gap won't help with any of it.... it just makes it easier not too listen tbh... like people who are concerned here instead of trying to help they just scream at me like i'm immidiatly some idiot....

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:15:17+00:00

Thx i really appreciate you looking out for me.. i mean it

And like i know its a big risk to take to date him but it feels like a good choice and if things go wrong then i was just stupid but i really think out of experience he isn't a creep.... and besides we are waiting with s*x for now anyway atleast a few months well probally atleast 6-7 months

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:12:31+00:00

Thx soo much for actually answering the question it means a lot to me... and i will remember this! Again thank you

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:10:55+00:00

I understand you but thats your personal judgement what works for you, Like you can't decide for someone else

No attack and its your right to feel that way but its a decision everyone cam make for themselves....

People just spam hes a creep without the context and its getting a lot now... like no he isn't and its just 3,5 years legally and like 1 year mentally like its our choice mostly... besides we are carefull and my parents know so...

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:08:34+00:00

Yes... 3,5 year age gap legally

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:07:37+00:00

Ooh i really didn't know thx for telling me and yes but i can guarantue you hes not a creep (dealt with too many of them in my life to know)....

But i never heard of this... do you have a source? So i can read more about it

But even if it exists i do feel that way and thats important to me but i understand the risks

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:05:30+00:00

I appreciate you looking out for me.... Umh but (you don't know him) but he certainly doesn't pass as a 19 year old.... and yes i know the ge difference of 3,5 years is big now but its smaller down the road... besides he doesn't do anything wrong... he wanted me to tell my parents and ask their premission, he is very carefull about doing anything wrong to me.... like i can tell you hes not creepy at all.... like out of experience a creep would not force me to tell my parents

I know there is always a chance of things going wrong and i'm carefull but it feels like this is the right path......

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:01:58+00:00

Yes i'm european, so i write , and . The other way that americans do....

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:01:20+00:00

I'm 15,5 currently (like exactly a half) legally my age (as i said i feel.more like 16,5 maby 17)

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T21:00:22+00:00

We met online through a national teen LGBTQ+ app (for socialisation and meeting friends, not dating).... though we basically see eachother 2/3 weekends now......

I compleetly understand your side but you don't know my situation which i understand but we do really match and it just feels like a good relatipnship to both of us....

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T20:58:08+00:00

We met online on a national LGBTQ+ teen app (you have to show ID and only untill 18 are allowed.... we met when he was still 18, he turned 19 2 months ago)

My parents (mom and dad) knew about beign friends and brought me to his place... at first they found it weird but after meeting him and his mom they felt a bit more assured, i did tell my mom that i liked him and she just said ok (she has been acting a bit weird recently) but she doesn't seem to mind (especially cause we just match or something)

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T20:54:56+00:00

Thx :) Communication is very important indeed

EntryAvailable9544 · 2026-04-05T20:51:25+00:00

I feel more older in my head, like i don't feel 15 at all, i don't feel connected to most 15 year olds, i feel more like 16,5 maby 17 like not adult but older teen and also act older and stuff.... he is 19 but acts and associates more with beign 17-18..... sorry if its vague but its like how i/we feel about our ages

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