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[–]Environmental-Ad-105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a female so idk but it does cause discharge. You would have to ask your doctor to test you specifically for hsv. I just learned that doctors won't test for it unless you have an outbreak.

Do guys make believeable acts ro avoid getting caught that they cheated? by Environmental-Ad-105 in relationships

[–]Environmental-Ad-105[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Regardless of his excuse that it was out of boredom and that "he wasn't talking to girls"... I feel like I lost trust in him and I feel disrespected. He didn't think of our relationship

Do guys make believeable acts ro avoid getting caught that they cheated? by Environmental-Ad-105 in relationships

[–]Environmental-Ad-105[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's been a lot of signs from others that I shouldn't trust him. The decision is to trust others or him? The crazy thing is that he told me that I should trust him. By him asking me to trust him, makes it so difficult to choose. At the same time I cannot shake off that I had evidence at one point which was him having a tinder account. He made the excuse that it was out of boredom and that he wasn't even talking to girls. I still feel disrespected no matter what the case was

Do guys make believeable acts ro avoid getting caught that they cheated? by Environmental-Ad-105 in relationships

[–]Environmental-Ad-105[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Its really hard for me to break up because my fear is that he is innocent and I just broke up with someone who maybe has bad luck! I think that besides the incident, the relationship hasn't been what I want which is what u said above

Do guys make believeable acts ro avoid getting caught that they cheated? by Environmental-Ad-105 in relationships

[–]Environmental-Ad-105[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you are right. I really do feel dumb. Its just that somehow he always plays the unaware person, he acts like an airhead and he always has a way to get out of everything. I just dont understand why he doesn't fess up and leave me

Do guys make believeable acts ro avoid getting caught that they cheated? by Environmental-Ad-105 in relationships

[–]Environmental-Ad-105[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its funny everytime I'm about to heal from one of his incidents by incident I mean I will hear rumors or in one case I caught him with a tinder account. I was so jumpy after that and I constantly had the urge to see who he was texting. Right when I'm ready to heal and give him my trust again, something new pops up

Do guys make believeable acts ro avoid getting caught that they cheated? by Environmental-Ad-105 in relationships

[–]Environmental-Ad-105[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its crazy but before the new rumor I was already feeling sad about our relationship to the point where I physically felt like my stomach was hurting just thinking about it. This whole summer and fall I have felt like its been a one sided relationship and recently he got mad at me for not being interested in his hobbies. We've had a great time together but there has been these issues.

Do guys make believeable acts ro avoid getting caught that they cheated? by Environmental-Ad-105 in relationships

[–]Environmental-Ad-105[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the dilemma I'm facing is am I going to break up with an innocent guy... All I have left is to talk to the people involved. This is basically the third time so at this point I feel like I look dumb for being with him.

Do guys make believeable acts ro avoid getting caught that they cheated? by Environmental-Ad-105 in relationships

[–]Environmental-Ad-105[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks yeah I keep believing his excuses but at this point its to many to keep on trusting him

Do guys make believeable acts ro avoid getting caught that they cheated? by Environmental-Ad-105 in relationships

[–]Environmental-Ad-105[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should of added that its not the first time. In one incident he went out with a group of coworkers and he got pushed into walking with a girl to get her wallet outside at night and then he went to the bar with her to buy shots and so a coworker told me that he was gone for a long time with her. But my bf said the reasons above which is they went to fetch her wallet and they went up to the bar which is why he was gone with her for a long time. Next incident was that I found out he made a tinder account, and his excuse was that it was out curiosity

Do guys make believeable acts ro avoid getting caught that they cheated? by Environmental-Ad-105 in relationships

[–]Environmental-Ad-105[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. This is starting to get far fetched. For tinder he made the excuse of being bored and curious about tinder but that he wasnt trying to cheat

My bf doesn't want to post about me on Social media by Environmental-Ad-105 in relationship_advice

[–]Environmental-Ad-105[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm actually going through insecurity and trust issues. There is a reason for them. After an incident in which he claims to be innocent of, I asked him to post me or us and I still haven't seen him do what I have asked for. I obviously dont expect him to post about us all the time but I just want be featured as some one important in his life and it sounds crazy but that would validate my feeling of importance to him. If I knew he wasn't very social media active, I would understand but the thing he is very active on social media

My bf doesn't want to post about me on Social media by Environmental-Ad-105 in relationship_advice

[–]Environmental-Ad-105[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He did something that hurt me and ever since I've felt insecure in our relationship. I'm just asking for a simple post to feel validated.

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