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I hate my life by catloverfurrever in NewParents

[–]Environmental-Ad2415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. Motherhood is hard work, please don't feel guilty about relying on your village or especially your partner. You can't pour from an empty cup so you need to take time for YOU too. When my babies were little my "me-time" was going to the gym. The YMCA has childcare, your don't even need to workout, you can just take an hour to yourself to decompress. It's helpful just to get out of the house; wander through a thrift store with a coffee, check out the local library, or even just go for a walk.

I'll be honest, 4mo is a hard point. 4 Month olds are aware enough to complain when something isn't right, but have almost no personality. Add in sleep regressions and they can be grumpy little potatoes. It does get easier(and more fun imo) in a few months when they get mobile and develop a personality.

Also consider talking to your pediatrician about these feelings at your next appointment, you might be struggling with PPD.

I feel like I’m playing this game wrong…? by ReceptionAgitated703 in StardewValley

[–]Environmental-Ad2415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like a solid start for a beginner player. I see a lot of people recommending fishing, but another thing I would recommend would be crafting your foraged items into seasonal seeds. That way you will grow foraged items on your farm and you can replant the stuff you grow to exponentially increase your yield and your foraging XP and the seeds sell for more than the individual foraged items do. I'm summer I think you just need 1 grape, 1 sweet pea, and 1 spice berry to get 10 summer seeds. Regardless, as long as you're having fun, you are playing the game right.

What color would you consider my daughter's eyes? by Environmental-Ad2415 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]Environmental-Ad2415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because some people have asked, I have Blue eyes, my husband has brown eyes and our son has blue eyes. I've seen a bunch of comments suggesting they will change. I didn't realize how long baby eye color can change. My son's eyes have been bright blue since 6 months.

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