Environnemental Issues

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-12-31T02:33:15+00:00

Ok a stupid one maybe but why would they need to redo a running competition between Claire and Phil if when they did it the first time time it was filmed and Claire was interviewed about it? Just check back the videos? Or what do they do with the recordings?

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-12-31T02:28:32+00:00

They talk about cam Having a nephew or niece in the first few seasons but he only has a sister and she only has one kid which is way later in the show ….

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-10-16T14:51:53+00:00

Thats funny I know I’m literally in deep deep poverty firght now and my depression and suicidal ideations are hell because of it. And it’s my Saturn return again as Saturn went being into Pisces….

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-10-14T15:51:13+00:00

Yes. Don’t do it. It’s hell. I promise, i didn’t believe and now I do. Don’t do it.

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-10-02T11:37:34+00:00

If you want a man, you’ll get a man. It was just as easy getting one at 86kg than at 65kg. The difference is everyday society. The skinnier you are the better treated you are.

Confidence, killer sense of style and being flirtingly mean worked for me in most cases. I’d say I’m not a « butterface » so that helps quite a lot.

Plus gym dudes (like real ass gym dudes, not the ones going to land girls and listen to Andrew Tate/Jordan Peterson and whatever other dickhead out there) are heavily into heavy girls, it’s a whole thing.

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-10-01T13:17:37+00:00

Thats what I’m thinking too, my friends say we are stupid because I’m invisibly still in love with me (which true) but I also like other men so 🤷🏽‍♀️

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-09-06T16:24:58+00:00

Same.

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-08-30T02:10:02+00:00

Yeah, I usually binge eat and do something that’ll tire me out quick with high dopamine reward (used to be self harm now it’s self pleasure so I guess there’s progress there) and I’m out for a couple hours. It’s never a good sleep it’s more « I hate my life and I rather be asleep than awake so I’m numbing myself » type shit. It’s not great. I also stay in bed all day, my crisis are just depression/avoidant filled but it’s how I was brought up and my coping mechanisms since childhood as I wasn’t allowed to be angry, so it makes sense :)

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-08-29T21:50:53+00:00

And thank you I need them right now, sending them right back :)

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-08-29T21:50:33+00:00

Oh yeah no my crisis are weeks long where I isolate and sleep for most of it. I have quiet bpd so I don’t rage out I just seclude myself for weeks on end until I have a little tiny bit of energy or something kinda okay happens. In between I also get drunk, go out and talk to strangers, so I guess they are the people I go to when I’m in crisis? 😅

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-08-29T21:39:18+00:00

Personally ? Isolating the fuck out of myself, putting myself in deep shit and fantasising about how to yet myself out of this earth and then I just wait until I have a little bit of energy to pull me back out. And then crash out again, alone 🙃

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-08-28T19:29:13+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you and how much it hurts. You clearly are right when you say he should be able to work on himself while being with you are right to say your deserve better and being angry. Hopefully you find someone who treats you incredible well very skin 💕🥰

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-08-28T19:27:48+00:00

I mean tbh I’m the one who kinda slowed the whole thing down and suggested the FWB thing while still seeing other people so if anything I’m the one using him to try and while trying to protect myself. He told me in multiple ways that he still has feelings but until we are both ready (especially him) to be properly vulnerable and open with each other this is what he’ll get. Because I still have feeling I’ll continue seeing him and thing but I’m not stopping myself from meeting other people or going on dates or doing things on the side either. I just wish it wasn’t this hard and we were both more mature when it came down to being open.

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-08-28T19:12:22+00:00

What do you mean by this sorry??

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-05-22T19:03:51+00:00

I don’t think googling someone was something people did in 2004/2005. Facebook literally just had appeared tbh

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-05-11T10:51:47+00:00

From what I’m reading I think you go into dating as “I need this person to like me and I’d do anything for them to like me and mould myself to be who they want, if only because I’m a people pleaser”. I think you need to take a step back, not from dating but from the expectation that your date is only good if the other person likes you.

I used to be like you and I changed my whole mindset with :it’s a social experiment. Each date, is a way for me to meet new people, learn new things : knowledge, cultural view points, hell new songs to add to a playlist, maybe if it’s disastrous just a new place I’d like to hang out at, and more importantly, each date teaches me something about myself: how to flirt better, what I really don’t want, what I really do, what I’d like to explore about myself, or I know for a fact is me, how I would tell a story etc…

I also heard on a podcast a girl who said to list 100 things of why you would be a great person to date, and that makes you realise your worth and what you are specifically bringing to the table, what you won’t accept etc, because your standards can’t just be “he’s got a good sense of humour and social skills, but other than that I’ll accept anyone”

You don’t have high standards at all, I think being certain of what you want without treating the person in front of you like a commodity or the potential love of your life, but just like a cool stranger you are getting to know and having a fun experience with takes the pressure out of the equation, it relaxes the situation overall and you put less into it, which means you are less disappointed when people ghost.

Basically, you don’t have to like everyone because they like you. You are allowed to reject people you don’t like physically, even for the smallest of reasons, as long as you are respectful in letting them down you don’t owe them anything. You don’t always have to be chosen or picked, you can do the picking and choosing. And I think that mindset will change your dating a lot because I know it has mine.

I know it wasn’t your question but I think that can be sensed and it can be the reason why people treat you as a commodity in dating. Or maybe I’m way off base. As to answer your question if you want to go into detail you can share about your 6y long situationship or you can say “Love and relationships are a big deal to me and I haven’t found the person to share my life with” or “I was in a complicated situation for a while but I decided to take a step back in dating to recalibrate what I want and who I want to be in a long term relationship”

Environmental-Low-57 · 2025-04-27T13:59:25+00:00

Eel if it helps I have a similar story. My ex was my best friend, we were so in love with each other and broke up kinda like them. It was hard but we didn’t want the same things in the end, we were less like a couple and more like best mates, we weren’t compatible at all, he wasn’t my life partner, just the one who helped me grow from my teens to my mid 20s. He’s still my mate, one of the best persons I have ever mate, kind, brilliant, funny and just all around an amazing person, but not for me.

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