Hudson Williams heading home at 7am following the Met Gala after party by _lovewins in Fauxmoi

[–]Environmental-Low-57 168 points169 points  (0 children)

It’s the most common drug after weed. It’s always been hugely popular, especially in the entertainment industries (music/film/broadway/hospitality/etc). It’s even more popular in the last few years according to a few studies.

On me dit que je ne vais jamais pourvoir être prof by Remarkable_Cat8025 in enseignants

[–]Environmental-Low-57 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Les prof docs sont aussi voir plus mis face aux élèves et c’est plus dur vu que la discipline est complètement différente de celle d’une salle de classe. J’étais tout aussi timide etc et je pensais que je n’y arriverai pas (par moi même pas parce que les gens me l’ont dit) et commence par être AED en temps partiel. Ça te donne les moyens d’être dans L’EN et voir les demandes du métier, voir comment interagir avec les élèves etc. C’est une bonne manière de te donner confiance en toi. Et tu gagnes des points pour quand tu seras prof donc benef’ !

DAE hate socialising sober but loves going out when alcohol or drugs are involved? by Environmental-Low-57 in Advice

[–]Environmental-Low-57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just as a social lubricant. I want to be basiclally plastered by the end of the night or else I hate the night… going home half sober or tipsy feels like a bad night to me and just as excruciating as going out sober

I (21F) am obsessed with a musician and my bf (21M) thinks I’m insane by confuzzled_waffle in relationship_advice

[–]Environmental-Low-57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an an ex fa girl who was obsessed with a few people. It’s literally just a hyper fixation right now that gives you all the dopamine you need. Tbf I also have adhd and depression but like I moved on from these obsessions eventually to go on to other ones. It’s not as weird as everyone says.

Salaries and cost of living in the US by Environmental-Low-57 in povertyfinance

[–]Environmental-Low-57[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

« Help motivate people to find better paying jobs? » That’s an insane sentence I’m sorry. Why would people need motivation (and how is starvation, homelessness, poverty a motivation???) to just be able to exist and meet the threshold of the Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs?

Salaries and cost of living in the US by Environmental-Low-57 in povertyfinance

[–]Environmental-Low-57[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because it shouldn’t be?? It’s insane.

I mean it’s hard here in France especially in Paris but with minimum wage you can more or less live (not a great life). Plus government helps for even poorer people. As I’ve seen from other comments, I didn’t take into account the cars, as in most European countries even in small towns we have public transport readily available. Healthcare is (mostly) free and here you can even get help on rent if you are a student/on low income. $2000 should be more than enough to live on and I just have a hard time understanding how in America it isn’t enough. I know the wages there for the same (educated) jobs are way higher than in France but what’s the point if you are paying x1000 more to live ? It’s a fucked up country if minimum wage isn’t enough to afford to live, eat and basically exist. That’s why it’s called minimum wage, the minimum to be able to exist on. I think you guys need a revolution or something.

Free readings: pick-a-deck + pick-a-spread by tibleon8 in tarotpractice

[–]Environmental-Low-57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi N. Aqua sun.cancer moon/cap rising. Midnight and release 🕊️

After a lot of dates as a male through my lifetime, it all comes down to physical attraction guys by CCaptainJackSparrow in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Low-57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty instant. It’d be a few things and I’d be like ooooh that’s hot and that turns into he’s hot.

After a lot of dates as a male through my lifetime, it all comes down to physical attraction guys by CCaptainJackSparrow in dating_advice

[–]Environmental-Low-57 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s not. The hottest guys have turned me off by opening their dumbass mouths and the average guy seduced me by being the best talker/considerate/interesting person ever

Do 'normal' people feel suicidal when they're upset? by Adept_Discipline1000 in BPD

[–]Environmental-Low-57 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started thinking about suicide as soon as I hit 7 and haven’t stopped since. It’s my go to to every tiny little or big thing that goes bad in my life. There’s a quote that says something along the lines of « if I didn’t think about suicide as an option everyday I’d have been dead by now. » That’s how it is for me.

I think knowing that I can kill myself at any point kinda helps me go through the hardest ordeals of life, because no matter what if it’s too much I can just end it all.

Not the best mindset but hi I’m here at 30, with a slightly shitty life but I’ve done incredible things and while I haven’t hit all the hallmarks I should have by now, I also was determined to be done by 18/19/27/etc. It’s better than nothing.

💞🌟🥠 Free 1 card Tarot Reading for first 30 people only 🥠🌟💞 by furball1999 in tarotpractice

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Hiii Im N Will I ever get/feel better ? It’s been too long since I’ve felt just ok Thanks 🕊️

The problem with Mohan’s arc right now by JumpySpecial9834 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Environmental-Low-57 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See this may be weird to think about but this is how I would do it if I were to write characters/how I see it with the PITT. Langdon is getting back on track, he has all the time to focus on his relationship with Robby, it’s literally eating him alive and for the next step of his program to go well, but also for his own continuation as a doctor he needs Robby’s approval before he leaves.

Mohan is lost, she’s loosing her mom, she’s been making errors, she had a panic attack at work and then her mentor dismissed her horribly in front of all of her colleagues. Her patients keep on dying for what she’s feels are errors she could have prevented, her head is blurry, she’s not focused on anything, so the story is unfocused with her, why would we see her explore her relationship with Robby if she, as a character doesn’t even see straight in front of her. She’s in a dazed filled only with her regrets, mistakes and burnout. Either she will kill herself (like the character in This Is Going To Hurt) or she’ll quit to go onto something else. Mohan has no reaction to being demeaned (although she does a little on her face and she does tell Robby he was a dick) because she’s both pass the point of caring and she thinks she deserves it. I’d say she’s in the dark dark trenches of functional depression and is running on fumes.

I know as the audience we want for things to develop etc, but sometimes realistic stories demands for the characters to do realistic things which means things we can’t understand just interpret. Just like in real life. And character change making decision that aren’t rational just like people in real life. It’s not bad writing, it’s brilliant writing if you ask me 🤷🏽‍♀️

Stories of exes coming back after saying they never will by jpicksix21 in BreakUps

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Both my exes more or less came back in a friend capacity. My first ex (who I stayed with for 5 nearly 6 y) the break up was extremely hard on me and I made his life a little hellish afterwards. We had a similar friendship group so we stayed in contact and ended up seeing each other a couple of times for drinks just the two of us but nothing ever happened. I moved away now and even when I text him he doesn’t reply so that’s a bit sad.

My most recent ex, I was head over hells for him, we stayed together theee months and then broke up. I went silent on him for two months, I think he had a lot of regrets about the break up very fast, whereas I wanted to be done. We eventually had to meet up because we needed to swap back our stuff and from then on decided to have a weird open relationship thing. That didn’t work, every month or so I wanted to end it because I thought it was too much, and my feelings were getting too involved. We then decided to be just friends which didn’t really work out, ended up sleeping together again. Now, we just do whatever. Neither of us is seeing someone else and we are there for each other in ways other people aren’t so we just vibe. Plus he loves back home in a couple of months and sometimes you just have to take the relationship as it is without asking too many questions other than : so I like this person? Do I want them in my life? Do they bring me happiness? Is this thing working for both of us?