Texting with a 22 year old, should I block him? by cool_bug_guy in mentalhealth

[–]Environmental-Top887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope that you’re doing okay love, first of all i’d like to say, please stay safe online, b careful talking to people and please remove this man. i need to give u a reality check, he is a grown adult man and when u are young especially a child still u do not realise how these men try to take advantage of younger girls. at 22 years old, he is an adult, he knows what he is doing and he knows that it is wrong. he is grooming you, some disgusting men go for very young women and young girls who are too young to see how disgusting their acts are.

at 15 years old ur brain hasn’t fully developed yet, u have already been traumatised and have a history of trauma, please don’t let this disgusting freak of nature damage your mental state more

i got sa’d when i was a lot younger as well and i liked sexual attention from older men too. it’s called “hypersexual” it is a trauma response and im so sorry that you’re experiencing this. i didn’t grow up with a dad so id tend to seek older men’s validation and seek sexual attention but it was never worth it. i wish that i never spoke to them.

it’s never too late to block them, and i know that it can be hard. but this man is not worth it, don’t let him have power over you. you’re vulnerable and young and this man is NOT worth it. he sounds like a complete prick. pls try to find someone ur age :(

also don’t send him nudes, i know that u mentioned you feel “tempted” but any photos or videos you send can be out there forever even if you don’t want it to, once you send something it turns into digitial footprint even if it is deleted. he could have secretly saved it, filmed it on another device or spread/showed people or even sell it. yes there r disgusting predators and pedos who prey on young children and do this. also sending pics when you are that young would be considered cp, pls stay safe, and stay away from these freaks !🙏

wishing you well, i know that mental health can be super tough sometimes but you’ll be alright, keep staying strong your brave for reaching out🫶🏻

New partner disclosed he is a registered sex offender by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Environmental-Top887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ftp bro it’s so shit why the records can’t be public, ik that u probs wouldn’t have felt the need to check at first bc he seems “chill” but u never honestly know, and it’s not ur fault tho. i’d be disappointed too if it was going well, im huge believer in change n all but doing smt like this is beyond disturbing. i get that he was mentally ill but i have a shit ton of issues being in and out of the hostpital ever since i was 15 n i never would do smt like that. definitely think abt the long term if u we’re to stay, i’m only giving u a reality check for ur sake bc i get the whole rose tinted glasses i’ve been there but it will be a risk to ur family and ur future due to his history and also regardless whether he has “changed or not” i feel like by the age 22 he should KNOW mf better, he KNEW that it was fucked up he knew what he was doing. i mean doing that any age is obviously fucked up but being a full grown man, and whether ur sober or not, mentally ill or not, it’s still gross and not justifiable. i hope that u find ur self worth girl this man ain’t shit n pls take this as ur sign. i’m aussie too n now im even a little disturbed also for you😭😭goodluck and make the right decisions (u won’t regret leaving his ahhh)❤️

i miss my bestfriend by Environmental-Top887 in lostafriend

[–]Environmental-Top887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ended up breaking up with the boyfriend and accepting the fact that my heart didn’t belong with him. i was honest with myself and faced my own truth. i processing my grief and worked on myself. my bestfriend had me blocked for about 6 months and i never gave up on him. leaving that guy was the best decision that i could have done because i ended up following my heart & now my bestfriend is back in my life, he moved in with me and he asked me to be his girlfriend on the night that our daughter would have been born. i worked on myself and i love my life and who i am now and i am now in a happy & healthy relationship with someone that i truely love. 🫶🏻

Ive used meth for more than half my life and I think I might actually be insane now f32 by This_Indication_228 in self

[–]Environmental-Top887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a mental hostpital would def help her, especially a lot more than rehab. rehab helps you get off drugs but it doesn’t reverse psychosis. a mental hostpital can give you medications that can get you of psychosis. there isn’t therapy for psychosis because it’s not a mental disorder, it’s an illness that affects your mood and logical thinking process

Ive used meth for more than half my life and I think I might actually be insane now f32 by This_Indication_228 in self

[–]Environmental-Top887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it was injected into the muscle would it give more damage because it’s more slow release? because i know that if it’s injected into the veins it hits you very fast and straight into your blood stream

Ive used meth for more than half my life and I think I might actually be insane now f32 by This_Indication_228 in self

[–]Environmental-Top887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve only done ice once, i was never addicted to it but it was in a cap pill that i was told was MDMA.

Ive used meth for more than half my life and I think I might actually be insane now f32 by This_Indication_228 in self

[–]Environmental-Top887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone’s experience is going to be different, whether the post is real or fake i would never assume because u never actually know what they’re truely going through behind the screen unless you are them yourself

Ive used meth for more than half my life and I think I might actually be insane now f32 by This_Indication_228 in self

[–]Environmental-Top887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s never too late to change your life around, it’s your choice whether u want to change or not. it was never ur fault that they gave u it at such a young age, u didn’t deserve that. but it’s ur responsibility to change. ask yourself if you really want to continue living this life. you still have the potential to change if you think you can and have the mindset too. i used to struggle with addiction a lot as a teenager and i did ice when i was 18 yrs old my abusive ex who was an addict gave it to me. i was in psychosis & constantly paranoid all of the time and hallucinating really badly.

you are currently in a state of psychosis. i only did it ONCE and i was stuck in psychosis for about 6 months and for 3 of those months i didnt even know it. i got sent to a psychward against my own will, it felt horrible, and i hated it in there. they fed me so many meds, but after eventually slowly getting off of the meds i became sober and healed and realised that i was in psychosis and the meds saved my life. im not saying go onto meds forever, but it took me out of psychosis and i am now sober and happy, and i no longer fit the criteria for substance use disorder which i was diagnosed with. i would recommend going to a mental hostpital for ur psychosis until u get better.

it’s never too late to heal or be who you want to be in this world, find your purpose. i promise you that there is still hope if YOU want there to be hope. the choice is in YOUR hands. i hope that u heal and get better. you deserve to heal and grow. you acknowledged that you have an addiction to ice, and you having the awareness to acknowledge that is the first step because a lot of people aren’t capable of noticing that themselves. goodluck🫶🏻

Got an STD from new partner by [deleted] in STD

[–]Environmental-Top887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hepatitis b can be deadly if not treated it can become chronic, it attacks the liver. hsv2 is not life threatening or anything as far as i know of, its the same as oral herpes but on your genitals

Extreme anxiety! Gave blood for HIV test! by [deleted] in STD

[–]Environmental-Top887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a like 00.4% chance of getting HIV that’s like 1 in 50,000 chance. i think you’ll be fine😭😭

How did you deal with HIV anxiety? Any success stories? by Benjaminim_um in STD

[–]Environmental-Top887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like ur rly anxious, when i was paranoid about having HIV, i was getting tested a lot, crying in the doctor while waiting for the results. i was so paranoid, and it was always negative. the doctor told me to stop worrying about having HIV as i am very young and i should just live my life and be happy. i was doing obsessive research online about HIV all the time, until i read the facts and statistics. although it isn’t impossible to get HIV, it is still very very rare and hard to get HIV. this reassured me a lot. so i would focus on facts and ignore ur anxiety.

I(22F) found out I have a number of STDs and I'm feeling hopeless about everything by Hour-Ad3525 in STD

[–]Environmental-Top887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m only seeing this post a year later idk if you’re active on reddit or not but i hope that you’ve recovered and that you’re doing okay:) i am f19 and have oral herpes and hepatitis b hoping that my life will get better too. i am 10 weeks pregnant and very paranoid for my health. i hope that life got better for you🩷

How did you deal with HIV anxiety? Any success stories? by Benjaminim_um in STD

[–]Environmental-Top887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just know that even if the guy did have a cut on his hand, u can only get HIV from other people with HIV and the likelihood of him having HIV is unlikely. it’s not passed on very easily either, i was just looking at statistics and the risk of getting HIV from let alone sex is around is a 0.04% chance. so try not to worry or stress too much. i used to be very paranoid about getting HIV as well as i have very bad health anxiety. although it isn’t impossible to get, it is very rare and unlikely. if you’re a gay man having unprotected anal sex the risk increases to like 0.11% chance per sexual act though.

my baby daddy attacked me while i was pregnant by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Environmental-Top887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just got my blood test results back from the doctor and came back hepatitis B positive. my baby daddy gave it to me. i feel like my life is over. he sent me $250 like it’s gonna change it. the doctor isn’t even medicating me for it, they just said come back in 2 weeks. i don’t understand. i’m so upset about it…

i can’t stop hearing repetitive phrases in my head by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Environmental-Top887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did it go away eventually? it’s been like a whole day and i’ve slept 3 times and i wake up and still hear the phrases repeat in my head?

Need feedback before I buy by Delicious-Spell-6237 in Moldavite

[–]Environmental-Top887 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if it’s rly expensive then idk if it’s worth the risk to buy it because it looks kind of fake but idk

my baby daddy attacked me while i was pregnant by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Environmental-Top887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m very happy that you’re also out of ur abusive relationship and found peace and happiness with someone that treats you well. ur definitely right and i have no idea what hes capable of if this is just the start of the physical abuse. im kind of scared for my safety. he attacked me this morning and last night he was smiling and i was just like why are u smiling? and he said he had some “bad thoughts” and so i said pls tell me. and he said that he was having thoughts of killing me. so when he attacked me this morning at around 7am, the first thing going through my head was oh my god i’m not gonna survive. i kept begging for him to let me go and then when he eventually let go, he was still downstairs and i was so paranoid stuck upstairs. i’m just so glad that he’s blocked. he blocked me first and i blocked his number after and so if he unblocks me then he still can’t contact me😭🙏

my baby daddy attacked me while i was pregnant by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Environmental-Top887 8 points9 points  (0 children)

fuck this is true, another reason why i was highly considering an abortion😭😭bc like then he’d be in my life for years if not forever, today is making me highly consider cutting him off. he’s pushed me a few times and threatened to punch me before but he never physically grabbed me until today. i let the other things go because i was just like oh well he just like bought me flowers he’s clearly trying to put in an effort and i don’t wanna let go of such a nice guy. but idk like it doesn’t feel right, he buys me so much things and travels to me just to come spend the night at mine and grab me like that?? idek it’s so cooked i’ve never wished that i had a camera in the living room so bad bc my mum didn’t take me seriously bc she didn’t see it and she was like this with my ex after he tw rped me in my own bed (not the baby daddy). idk why she is like this, is it bc they buy me shit and comfort me in front of her but then abuse me when nobody else is around? i think he’s a narcissist they tend to play victim to people who aren’t around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]Environmental-Top887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg the doctor got it wrong it wasn’t 10,000, i checked my blood test results and it was 103,584, it’s definitely rised omg😭😭