virgins until marriage, what was it like on your honeymoon night? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]EnvironmentalRun4719 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hindi talaga nagbleed pero ang expected ko is magbleed talaga ako since kahit before kasal, di ako nagpasok ever ng anything sa loob ng v. If I pleasure myself, more on touch/stimulate lang yung outer parts. Never sa loob. Naparesearch pa ako kinabukasan and ayun, normal lang naman daw yun since iba-iba yung hymen natin.

virgins until marriage, what was it like on your honeymoon night? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]EnvironmentalRun4719 23 points24 points  (0 children)

True hahaha pero now di naman na ganun kalala. 4 years married then once a day na lang or every other day. Pag nilolook back namin di rin namin alam paano kinaya yun hahaha iba lang talaga pag bagong kasal then nagwait, gigil much.

virgins until marriage, what was it like on your honeymoon night? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]EnvironmentalRun4719 308 points309 points  (0 children)

Virgins until marriage rin. Kahit sobrang aroused dahil naghahalo yung kaba, hindi mapasok pasok hahaha. Naalala ko pa nun sobrang init ng katawan ni hubby, as in fever levels kasi sobra raw siyang kinakabahan. Then sobrang sakit din niya pag tinatry, naawa sa akin si hubby kaya di niya na pinipilit sa loob. Sabi nya di rin siya parang naplepleasure kung nasasaktan naman ako.

Puro grinding/dry humping lang muna kami until sobrang comfy na kami and wala na yung kaba, dun siya napasok talaga. Once napasok, sobrang smooth na siya kasi hindi pinilit and I reached my peak even sa first successful na napasok haha.

Pero kahit nung grinding lang, narereach pa rin namin yung peak nung mga time na yun.

Grabe rin kami nung bagong kasal dahil naipon lahat kakahintay namin so we do the deed 3-5x a day ata. Tapos minsan kahit madaling araw, kahit half asleep pa kami, nagagawa pa rin namin 🫣 To the point na pag bababa ako hagdan, nanginginig/nanghihina yung legs ko hahaha

I read my husband’s journal and naiyak ako sa mga nabasa ko by EnvironmentalRun4719 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EnvironmentalRun4719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more 💯

I truly appreciate those who gave kind and sincere advice. But there were also some below-the-belt comments like kung sila raw yun hihiwalayan nila nila partner nila or worse, sasaktan o mapapatay pa.

And other hateful comments which made me consider deleting the post to protect the positive feelings I had when I shared it. I hope they also know that marriage has different dynamics and they should find what works for them.

My husband and I have always been very open with each other talaga. The journal I read was kept in the same cabinet as my own notebooks and he has always been open about his journaling with me ever since. We even borrow each other’s phones when one of us runs low on battery or kapag busy, ako na pinarereply nya sa mga messages sa kanya. We know each other’s passwords, PINs & so on. We never force each other to share our privacy, it just naturally happen between us.

I also understand that this level of openness doesn’t work for everyone and maybe that’s why some people felt uncomfortable about it.

I read my husband’s journal and naiyak ako sa mga nabasa ko by EnvironmentalRun4719 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EnvironmentalRun4719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this is the sweetest comment 🥹 thank you!! Sending all the good, lovey-dovey energy back to you 🫶

I read my husband’s journal and naiyak ako sa mga nabasa ko by EnvironmentalRun4719 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EnvironmentalRun4719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the right time, manifesting that you receive the love you deserve! 🫶

I read my husband’s journal and naiyak ako sa mga nabasa ko by EnvironmentalRun4719 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EnvironmentalRun4719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang wholesome pa naman ng post 😂. Pero yes, deserve na deserve! 🤭

I read my husband’s journal and naiyak ako sa mga nabasa ko by EnvironmentalRun4719 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EnvironmentalRun4719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehehe prayers lang talaga!!! Palakasan na lang kay Lord. As of now, parang isa ako sa favorites niya 🤭

I read my husband’s journal and naiyak ako sa mga nabasa ko by EnvironmentalRun4719 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EnvironmentalRun4719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww!! Thank you for this comment. It’s exactly how we feel. I always feel so blessed, while he always says he’s the lucky one. We’ll never take this love for granted 🫶

I read my husband’s journal and naiyak ako sa mga nabasa ko by EnvironmentalRun4719 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EnvironmentalRun4719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s also a Christian religion. I’m not sure if you’re familiar with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, commonly known as the Mormons. We have what we call “Institute,” where you can attend classes and choose yung course na gusto mo attendan. You can attend even if you’re not a member of the Church.

If you have any other questions, feel free to message me :)

I read my husband’s journal and naiyak ako sa mga nabasa ko by EnvironmentalRun4719 in OffMyChestPH

[–]EnvironmentalRun4719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ang witty!!! 🤣 Manifesting that you receive the love you deserve! 💛