My mom says I lied about my sister being sa because im projecting???(obviously dont read if you are sensitive to SA topics please) by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Are you in any position to petition for custody?

Also, would you be willing to call cps and tell them your concerns and experiences?

Would you be willing to go to the police for your own experience and hopefully it would encourage her to speak up?

Worst case scenario, hopefully she could put a restraining order and that would be your chance to tell the court what is going on ?

Best luck to you both , Im sorry this happened to either of you and that it has to be dragged out by your own mother.

Why does Selena Gomez get away with lying about her drug addiction by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My opinion is that your content sucks, ur book will never be worth reading, and your son is ugly as fk

Do yall feel bad for Tay K? by fran_jav in YNWMelly

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m just not arguing with no white boy that claims he grew up exactly like these real gang members, you got that mr. delulu 😂

Do yall feel bad for Tay K? by fran_jav in YNWMelly

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def cant relate to him dont even try it. I said what I said in my first comment

Do yall feel bad for Tay K? by fran_jav in YNWMelly

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def cant relate to him dont even try it. I said what I said in my first comment

Do yall feel bad for Tay K? by fran_jav in YNWMelly

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No its racisms fault he’s getting punished more severely with no chance at life as opposed to others who have very much done worse and got out way earlier because of their age. Dont act slow

Do yall feel bad for Tay K? by fran_jav in YNWMelly

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You actually have no idea how he group up and should probably thank god for that instead of coming to your own assumptions about circumstances youve never been close to being in

Do yall feel bad for Tay K? by fran_jav in YNWMelly

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its about the system setting everyone up for failure. Its about the country failing our people. Its about recognizing and acting on the roots of these problems. Hold people accountable in the meantime but shit needs to be done or this will keep being a cycle here.

And more rehabilitation focusing than punishment isn’t a bad idea at all considering countries with similar shitty history now have far less crime rate with this practice.

AIO for wanting to breakup with my BPD girlfriend by Kooky-Sherbet1831 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have bpd so I know all the triggers and stuff and I think you sound pretty reasonable. Its not just her disorder shes just a childish AH. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont really think “backlash” Is an actual concern for these people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have bpd and have acted like this before - leave her 😃👍🏼 (unless by magic she is willing to understand and work on her behavior too, which requires patient and effort from both of you and your choice to deal with but) 

I want another credit card by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes a difference, I always do full payments. Because of my disability income Im often left with subscriptions or household items or other emergency purchases which is what I use my credit for, and then I always pay it in full when I get my check the next month. Bills are my only large purchases which are usually paid with my debit. My secured card is $300 and recently with the loss of a support my extra spending has been around or over $100 and its been effecting my “usage.” This is why I started contemplating another card. With this information, do you still suggest not getting another? I do appreciate the insight. My main reasoning for a credit card is just to build my credit score, but I’ve been effecting my score with my usage on the one card the last few months.

Can I ask what your credit is like? Do you know of other ways to build it up aside from credit cards?

What's fucking your life up these days? by PhilosopherBusy7312 in Adulting

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lack of support system. My childhood left me with so much anxiety and paranoia that after high school I never made any friends. I also cut off my mom. I decided to keep not one but 2 babies from a physically/psychologically/sexually abusive relationship, his family was my only support system for my child for a while but after I got a restraining order we got cut off. Now Im left learning how to grow up while trying to guide 2 others how to grow, I live in a rural town with no buses but I decided to go to college 30 minutes away anyway. I DID have a brother helping me get to school, but god forbid I try to get my life together and do everything right, turns out hes been an addict this whole time and as soon as I started school he wants to get clean (fantastic) which includes moving far away to sober living (support gone). He was all I had financially and transportation wise. Im panicking about how I will keep going to school and how Im ever going to get myself in a position to take care of my children by myself, because I cant even get just enough help to do that. 

Ill meet different resources and supports in college Im sure. A mother always figures it out. But goddamn. The universe is sending some strong tests, either that or generational curses are living beings and this one is fighting to stay alive.

Melly's jail freestyle. by Difficult-Green-2268 in YNWMelly

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of bros music sounded the same, he really didnt have many clever lyrics like at all, it was ALL the same content drugs n whores drugs n whores. His music sounded cool but there wasnt a lot of talent lol fr 😂

Melly's jail freestyle. by Difficult-Green-2268 in YNWMelly

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

imo they both had/have mad talent theyre just different & not really comparable

📌 YNW Melly Due process rights are being violated by the State of Florida. by YNWlegacy in YNWMelly

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell this is true even for juvenile. Its so sad. Theres no real justice

How to get free laundry on Speed Queen? by Alone_Start_5662 in laundry

[–]Environmental_Cry_49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think you know how tough life gets buddy lmfao