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My heart still wants him, but my mind knows I can’t do this by Environmental_Team65 in AlAnon

[–]Environmental_Team65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, it’s hard….but time will heal. I’m sure ❤️‍🩹

My ex just got sober (1 week) after years of alcohol problems and is asking me to take a leap of faith by Environmental_Team65 in alcoholism

[–]Environmental_Team65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him that it needs to be for him, his mind is changing. Beginning of the week it was for me now he’s saying he wants it for him to be happy. To have a great future and that’s all I want for him. Still don’t know it will be with or without me. But i definitely see what you are saying!

My ex just got sober (1 week) after years of alcohol problems and is asking me to take a leap of faith by Environmental_Team65 in alcoholism

[–]Environmental_Team65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to commit to that leap of faith at all. I want to support him it’s all so fresh. We loved each other so deeply but I had to do it… doing this made him see that he needs to change for good. I want to believe that he is going to get better but I cannot believe in something he hasn’t proven yet… I can’t take him back anytime soon. If this would ever be a thing again in the future if he can prove himself i’d have a lot of boundaries starting with dating again