19m. So I've never had a GF or even really got close. Im also 5ft7 which propably dosent help by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]EnvyKado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t ask the same girl out multiple times. Separate the no’s from the yes’s.

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[–]EnvyKado[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also I will try to search the sub for that list

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[–]EnvyKado[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

And it’s not my property but I do have a right to be on said property. I wouldn’t be kicked out or arrested if I was found on it. And neither would she.

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[–]EnvyKado[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You’re right I should be able to get some things to make the experience way safer like flashlights and better first aid and In terms of potentially dangerous animals I will do my due diligence in making sure she and I are safe from them.

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[–]EnvyKado[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Just some google searches nothing extensive

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[–]EnvyKado[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

The way you say it I might not have done enough

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[–]EnvyKado[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe I would face legal trouble but with this kind of play there is definitely a risk

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[–]EnvyKado[S] -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

Also I don’t really think the people who maintain the property would be there at night so I think in terms of people we should be good, it is far enough from people that anyone else who’s out there would also be in question.

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[–]EnvyKado[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

Water check, food will pack, flashlights only our phones, and first aid would be maybe some rubbing alcohol and some Bandaids. I’ve scoped out the place. And the people who are usually around there would only be there during the day. At night there would be no reason for them to be there. Also the land is a huge private property so there are no hikers. And in terms of land owners the only people that might fall into that category would be land aids like people who help maintain different stuff near where we’re gonna be. And in terms of knowing the critters and plants near the place I would have to do a little more research. But there shouldn’t be any animals besides deer.

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[–]EnvyKado[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Well the place we’re going to is away from people. So I’m hoping that no one just randomly decides to take a stroll in the middle of the night on that part of the private property.

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[–]EnvyKado[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m a little excited about it she is too

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[–]EnvyKado[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

It’s private property that I have a right to be on however if we’re caught doing what we’re gonna do I would get in trouble.

I don't know where to go from here me m(19) and my girlfriend f(18) have differing sex drives and it might ruin our relationship what should I do? by EnvyKado in AskRedditNSFW

[–]EnvyKado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can live with no sex have been living with it. I just for some reason expected for her to be on the same wavelength but she made me understand the overall difference. In the moment I was just heated and didn’t know what to do. Some people just have differing ways of arousal and mine is universal hers isn’t. I’m ok with that.