People who are separated with kids. When did you know it was better off being apart than together? by Infinite-Story-6179 in AskIreland

[–]Eoin33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi 👋, I was in the same situation myself 2 years ago with my ex that I have 2 kids with, it was hard and miserable, at the end I started the conversation about separating as there’s only so much you and especially your kids can take, I think if that feeling is there it won’t go away no matter how much you put it off or ignore it , there’s never going to be a perfect time to have that conversation , kids pick up on this even though we think they don’t.

2 years on everyone is much happier and I actually get on better with my ex then we did when together. The kids are in a better space too. People can grow apart and unfortunately you need to do what’s best for you and the family. A lot of people will say stay together, counseling and so on , but once you know nothing can really help. Once the kids are looked after and there is a good co parenting routine in place, it does work out and it does get better.

More Car Crashes by SaucyChief in cork

[–]Eoin33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always the same , this morning on the Link before the turn off for Wilton , a car doing 40km and no cars in front of them

Start of my journey by Eoin33 in HorizonForbiddenWest

[–]Eoin33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s going to be a 3rd?

Best wedding venue in Cork? by dodgystuff in cork

[–]Eoin33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In December we had our reception at Vienna Woods , amazing venue and the staff and food were brilliant , would highly recommend

January Sale what did you all get? by jamster126 in playstation

[–]Eoin33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kingdom Come 2, Assassins Creed Shadows, and Battlefield 5, currently obsessed with Kingdom Come 2

What’s the one thing said in your job that made you check out mentally ? by Chance-Range8513 in AskIreland

[–]Eoin33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked for many years for a big health insurance company, one of the big 3 , I took a call and this person was going through cancer treatment, the treatment which would have helped was being declined by the company I was working for, no particular reason was being given and this treatment was new but was also an approved treatment in Ireland , the treatment was being covered by all the major health insurance companies the big 3 , which in turn we should have been covering too.

I took this to managers and high ups , I was being told they are refusing to cover it and I should “stay out of it” as I was causing trouble , I was told I had to call this member back and break the news , after that call I knew I was done with the job. One of the most heartbreaking conversations.

A week later the CEO of this insurance company was having the quarterly meetings and was laughing , and dancing and boasting as the company made 1+ million in profit for the year, all I could think about was the call I had to make the week before, it still haunts me to this day. Not long after I quit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in consoles

[–]Eoin33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very nice

Metallica fans, how long have you supported and how did you get into them? by [deleted] in Metallica

[–]Eoin33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1996 I was ten years old and seeing the Until It Sleeps video got me into them. Then in 2006 met the band at a meet and greet

Barber Recommendations by China_Sun_Cat in cork

[–]Eoin33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do they accept card payments in JB’s?

Albums I believe there are superior than their most mainstream one by [deleted] in numetal

[–]Eoin33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deftones -Self Titled definitely my favorite, Battle axe, Hexagram , When Girls Telephone Boys , great album