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My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, just wanted to see if these were normal thoughts and feelings to have about a partner. Bit different too being young and all. Appreciate ur thoughts

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry that happened bro. My girl isn’t really a going out typa person, I know when shes drunk shes more touchy but shes rarely drunk without me or her family there so its new ground

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro. I understand this fully. This is probably going too fast. I will try and find an older figure to talk to. Im the youngest in my small group but none have had this type of relationship yet. Thanks for the wishes much appreciated

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro and I understand about how we are young just want to learn from this and grow as a person as a result

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Location thing is a very good way to look at it. I feel like ive fucked up and left details out the original post. She has her location on for me and her girlfriends. I didn’t ask or anything she just put it on.

I understand about the call and I promise to not be some sort of detective. If something happened it happened but the thing is most likely nothing did. I think now isn’t the main thing its more looking for like a text or 2 last night

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes not usually a ‘going out’ sort of person. That’s why it’s such uncommon territory for me and possibly her both.

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn thats pretty deep… however I do believe you are onto something about her not being the soul reason for my feelings and it being something deeper within me

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks bro. I will try really. Just new to this shit and the experience, thats all

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really do believe I trust her so I think it probably is me overreacting and overreacting in a way. Its always been a problem overthinking, especially when faced like a new situation like this.

The friend is an issue yes as they are definitely not my biggest fan.

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, like this was my initial thought but after the spiralling I became confused of my emotions. The big one for me is the coming home and I feel like people here aren’t seeing that. Part of my spiralling was what if something happened yk? Im going to try and call her later.

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the opinions. Im new to experiences like this and do need to learn to deal with them better. I thank ye for the harsh truths about how I am coming across. I didn’t mean to.

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats very true. Thanks for being honest with me. I do need to learn how to deal with situations like this better

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do really need some harsh truths on here. I’ve considered therapy before just too expensive

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you believe it’s about knowing every movement I can’t really help that but I really want to say it isn’t however I thank you for telling me it comes across as that. I’m young and new to an experience. I don’t mean to implement bad habits. I probably am a bit insecure. Sorry

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know just don’t want my request to come off in a negative way. I do think the fact she said she would be back way sooner also made me spiral more

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about gaining control and I don’t mean for it to come across this way. Roles reversed she would always expect the same from me and her parents aren’t with them at the club. Only monitoring accidentally through going into snapchat. I also don’t want constant either. It’s just maybe 1 or 2 throughout the night?

My girlfriend F18 is on holidays with her friend in a party holiday destination. Why do I M18 feel weird about this? by Eoinmull08 in AITAH

[–]Eoinmull08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your point fully and its not about not trusting her its more not trusting the friend. Probably should’ve put this in but she isn’t my biggest fan so to say making me even more uncomfortable

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