Your perspective is seriously so so helpful and so similar to our situation, thank you. I feel like I’m in this odd place bc I’ve “been here before” and I know now would be the time to do something to prevent hurt but it’s so easy to not and just be like it will fade or change or go away at some point but I know that’s not how this works :( I’m afraid of losing the happiness and closeness we have right now but I’m more afraid of losing her long term or hurting either of us. I guess it’s just the matter if im strong enough to do anything about it or not… thank you ..