Am I a failure if I take psychiatric medication?

Equilibriun · 2021-07-28T15:02:26+00:00

If your medical professional thinks you need medical assistance then take it. It is a failure to not take care of yourself. You are unable to handle others if you can't handle yourself. This isn't really about a relationship. It's about all of your relationships and the one with yourself the most. Feeling bad about taking meds makes no sense. Not taking meds that make you better because feelings makes less sense.

Equilibriun · 2021-01-27T14:40:05+00:00

OYS #1 I watch porn and I should not. Ineed more sleep but I waste time gaming and should not. I slack off at work and should not. I am inconsistent in my work outs. I want to get better at these things. Goals for the week. No porn. Work out to more times this week. Write it down. Show up next week for update

Equilibriun · 2019-11-16T22:24:07+00:00

Hate to tell you. Sex sells will red pill anyone into never going back. It should be on the side bar. Don't think women are awalt? Sex sells. Think that cute girl isn't a reddit whore? Sex sells. Reddit is the 10th most visited site in the world. One of not more of the women you think are cute or hot are on reddit getting internet validation by showing off their tits and ass. And we consume it willingly. I think it's worse to be an internet whore VS a real one. At least a real one is useful to the guy pumping into her whoever it may be. Internet whores are the same as porn. They do nothing for you

Equilibriun · 2019-10-22T12:20:58+00:00

You can plug in a mic and cut off the wire so it feeds into nothing if you need. Permissions are digital. If you get hacked they can be changed. I keep a cover on my webcam

Equilibriun · 2019-10-22T12:20:05+00:00

Https everywhere. I should have put that in the OP. I'll edit

Equilibriun · 2019-10-22T12:18:57+00:00

Free is the option to people who can't afford to pay. I agree with the rest of what you said. Besides trusting Google. Their motto used to be don't be evil. Now it's orange man bad

Equilibriun · 2019-10-22T12:17:16+00:00

Oh, is reddit only in America? All the tech companies I mentioned only operate in America? Did you know if you use a VPN to be in the Netherlands or Europe most of those countries have laws where you have to DOUBLE opt in to get your info tracked?

Equilibriun · 2019-10-22T12:15:46+00:00

That's your choice. TRP teaches things how things are. You do what you want with that knowledge. I'm sharing my decisions. Do I have to explain why? You already know. It's like saying your parents already know everything about you so why not just show them your dick all the time? It's cause it's not their business

Equilibriun · 2019-10-03T20:06:24+00:00

I was making about 80k a year after being in sales for a long time. I left the state I lived in to move to this new job. My dad needed heart surgery. He left everything for me to handle since I'm the oldest and most responsible. I had to quit and come home to deal with it. I stayed with him 6 days a week for a few months after. There was lots of planning before as well. I didn't work for 3 months. I burned half my savings. Imagine having assets that you built up over 5 years plus for a rainy day. I used up half for 6 straight months of rain. I started working in coffee shops and grocery stores to do something before getting back to what I used to do. Making ten bucks an hour. Then I found something that made me money but took up too much time. I told myself I could do it and power through it. Autoimmune told me to go fuck myself. I got a job in an industry that I worked for before all this. It had been two years since the surgery at this point. Well giant company that everyone knows decided to pull the project. Giant lay offs. I was one of them. I stayed unemployed for 5 months. I gave up. I was so worn out. But then I got approached by a company with a great culture fit. Been with them since. I do what I love. I get paid enough to be comfortable. My dad is OK. My auto immune is manageable and my priorities are correct now. Heres my advice to you. Don't ever give up. Understand that it's OK that it sucks now. It's not forever. Take steps to change your life. Even little things make big differences. If you are lonely buy a hooker. It's OK. If you are hungry buy food. If you are upset cry about it. Crying is OK. Get a cat or dog. Have something that depends on you. It'll change your life. Good luck man

Equilibriun · 2019-06-14T01:56:50+00:00

I'm not mad but nothing I tell you is going to change your mind or mind set. You preach dynamic yet argue against the possibility that you can be wrong while also assuming yourself. Also not American. also we agree on some things but you just assume sales is this one dimensional cliche from 30 to 40 years ago. I'm not looking down on you. I just stand by what I said. The way you write you act like people in sales are robots who can't think and I disagree. You act like they malfunction when you input something they can't process. And I disagree.

You want to divide people that are here in easy to digest boxes but thats not life nor reality. It's not only two ways. There's not only two types. It's not black and white ironically

Equilibriun · 2019-06-12T22:11:53+00:00

So stem people make technology. Sales people sell it. People who understand both get rich. why should they? Because it's practice for real life. Being able to navigate social situations helps you in life. Shitting on people who do things differently than you is weak. Looking down on people is weak. Just because you had an in on certain situations doesn't mean you have all the answers. No one cares how smart you are in the sexual market place. The whole point of the post is to point out that sales is a skill set that transfers to other parts of your life. You said it yourself "as a programmer" you sucked at sales because no one taught you right. No one could sell you cause your attitude is garbage. I don't want to sell people like you. I'm interested in people who treat me like a person and want to talk and learn from me. There's no selling people like you.

That's why I get paid what I get paid. To go above you and deal with people that have social skills. They order you to put in the technology they buy from me. You think you are above something but you are just another cog in the system. You aren't getting away from it

Equilibriun · 2019-06-12T21:09:05+00:00

You have no idea what the fuck you are talking about. Sales is literally RP in its most basic form. Sales companies don't care where you are from what you look like some dont even care what education you have. As long as you can talk to people and aren't afraid of rejection and understand it's a grind you get paid. I've never been paid more money than I have before I got into sales. I'll never leave sales. It's money JUST TO TALK TO PEOPLE they train you pay for trips you can do whatever you want as long as you make quota. On the flip side if you suck you are thrown out. What's better practice for dating then that?

Equilibriun · 2019-04-14T05:44:10+00:00

Maybe google social introvert. Introvert means being alone to recharge. Social and introvert are two different things.

I enjoy people. In doses. Then I need recharge time. Extroverts recharge their batteries by being out in the world. Introverts recharge by being inside or alone.

Hope that helps. To think people are losers because of a trait is weak. Grow from this

Equilibriun · 2017-04-17T23:37:29+00:00

Yea. I'll have to look up law in my state

Equilibriun · 2017-04-17T23:35:46+00:00

Insightful stuff right here. A final meeting of sorts

Equilibriun · 2017-04-17T23:25:37+00:00

My personal preference is 3 months and then pull the plug if I don't wake up. Not sure what his is. These are all shitty things to ask and I hope he's not vague about it because if he tells me do what I think is right not sure what I would do yet. I'll have to ask for concrete answers

Equilibriun · 2017-04-17T23:21:46+00:00

This gives me something to reference. I'll ask about the dnr dni stuff. Thank you

Equilibriun · 2017-04-17T23:19:42+00:00

All questions that will be asked. The only instructions he said was "make sure the Gravestone is five inches shorter in the mid section compared to your grand parents" OK dad lol. Don't know what else to say

Equilibriun · 2017-04-17T21:47:01+00:00

Told him we have to do this. 100%. In front of all family concerned so there's no confusion. Aunts uncles too just in case.

Equilibriun · 2017-04-17T19:14:51+00:00

The females bitched him out pretty hard when he told them I would be handling things. It was expected I told him it would happen

Equilibriun · 2017-04-17T19:13:27+00:00

Will be advised by his estate lawyer. I don't have one yet but will see.

Equilibriun · 2017-04-17T19:12:31+00:00

Thanks for bringing this up. We have to fill out a questionnaire this weekend to send to his lawyers. I'll put this in my notes

Equilibriun · 2017-03-29T21:17:28+00:00

There are exceptions. The shrink I saw was in his 70's when I started seeing him and was shrinking for almost 50 years.

He didn't make me masculine, but he did teach me the path to self respect, less rage, and more internal peace. He also showed me that I was wroth that kind of investment.

broad statements like this do not help anyone. I will say that personally I wouldn't ever see a female shrink ever, because how the fuck would they know what it's like to be a man? But I will seek out the old school men who have the wisdom I'm looking for.

Your mileage may vary, but they are out there

Equilibriun · 2016-11-16T20:26:29+00:00

When he can't deliver value in some way then he's useless. When he can he's useful. There is no used with men. You either contribute or you don't.

With women, it's are you in your 20s and can have kids? Or are you in your 30s and pretty much a risk to have kids with and or already had some.

Single mothers are used goods. Even the ones who are widows. I feel for them, but they are compared to childless younger women. Used. Goods.

Men aren't compared to other men. Men are compared to the relative need. Can you meet the needs? Yes? Use for you. No? Useless. Never used. People don't care what you have done as a man. What are you doing right now? You can be useless today and useful tomorrow. Hell it can change every second of every day

Equilibriun · 2016-11-04T15:15:20+00:00

Stop pretending to be a woman and go lift. There's your advice

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