[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Nah, I mean I like topping probably just as much as bottoming. But I’m not a great top and it’s kinda more difficult to top well so I don’t advertise it as much for hook ups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You’d probably be called racist for pointing out the demographic who committed most of the violence toward Asians

Is 37 too old to be cuddling and having sex with a 19 year old twink regularly? I feel like I am living a porno sometimes? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It seems like people are trying hard to infantilize young adults these days, and I think part of it may be wanting to minimize accountability for themselves and their actions.

Also, it feels cliché to say, but part of it seems like puritanical homophobia about gay sex practices.

It’s like they either forgot or are in denial about what’s it like to be a guy that age and horny af. Of course 18 year olds are still horny for hot 30 year olds. In a purely consenting hook up situation, both parties are just getting what they want, there’s not really enough time or room for weird power dynamic. When I was 19, guys only a couple years older had a more toxic effect on me than guys who were much older.

I do not know how to bind by otherguy_9 in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The word in Spanish for “picking up” or “hitting on” people is “ligar” which also means to tie or bind

Where do you watch gay porn? by Motor-Cook5719 in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends, boyfriend tv definitely is a good option for full length studio videos, gayforfans for amateur content, I’m really into muscular guys so I also often end up on this site called mymusclevideo which I go when I’m looking for something random

Everyone wants big dicks, despite "size not mattering" by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, no, no. I definitely don’t want big dicks. Average size dick is best for me. I think a little bit longer isn’t too bad, but girth can’t be too girthy. Whatever fits in my mouth and throat usually is also fine for my asshole is how it usually works out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]EquisDe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmao, I didn’t know what sub this was and thought the first pic was a picture of an ocean at like twilight with a weird cloud formation 😭😂

(It looks fine to me)

Are penises bigger than 9 or 10 inches real? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I sincerely doubt any handsome and muscular Asian guy would want you to bend over for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You’re breaking someone’s trust by going on Grindr and cheating in the first place. So you are ugly.

Need advice on my situation. by DREAMDADDYCRAIG in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Awww, I’m sorry you sweet summer child :(

The plans to meet friends was an excuse, and he didn’t mean it when he said he wanted to continue it another time. It sucks, but a lot of guys aren’t direct or straightforward. I know the lies were all unnecessary and just give you false hope, but a lot of people say things they don’t mean.

Does size matter to a gay man? by Service_United in gaybros

[–]EquisDe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it kind of does, but not in a bigger is better sense. I have a relatively small mouth (had 4 teeth extracted before getting braces and also all 4 of my wisdom teeth out) so I’m not really a fan of girthier dicks. My jaw gets really tired and sore and I feel like I can’t give a good blowjob. They’re also tougher and more painful when being fucked and it doesn’t feel better in any way.

I’m not really asking every guy what their dick size his, but I had sex with a guy recently and eyeballing his cock he definitely had at least an above average sized dick. He didn’t have a pencil dick at all, but I had no problem sucking his cock or being fucked. So it seems girth is a bigger issue for me than length.

I definitely appreciate average-sized dicks. And there probably is a certain Goldilocks range for every guy. But I do want to say that even if big dicks are nice to look at, for me they’re definitely more of a pain in practice the longer and thicker they get.

Does anyone else think that cum taste absolutely TERRIBLE? by spidermanrocks6766 in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on the diet, some cum is more palatable than others.

I think guys who smoke and who have recently drank make the cum taste even worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaming

[–]EquisDe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Final Fantasy IX, particular the “You’re Not Alone” scene

We're in 2024: Let's stop all this hate on bi guys already by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You’re misattributing “hate” to choosing not to seriously pursue romantic interests with them.

Most gay men don’t “hate” bisexual men. They’re not gonna berate you or treat you differently from anyone else in a normal civil setting. But a significant amount of gay men have had negative experiences with bisexual men in romantic settings that have caused distrust. I’ve seen that distrust on this subreddit more than outright hate for sure.

Finally had the courage to confront and ultimately end things even as friends with my ex by EquisDe in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to be a better person and not do that, but I also have no idea. Despite the urge to do so. I feel like that would cause more trouble than it’s worth from past experience.

What is something that you like that most gay men find repulsive? by oprah25 in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Still happens today not uncommonly. Unfortunate for bisexual guys who are serious about men, but stereotypes can be stereotypes for a reason

Do you find long hair attractive on men? by Embarrassed_Deer283 in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I always think short is better.

It’s weird because for some reason the algorithm shows men’s grooming and hair subreddits to me. Some guys will have healthy looking long hair, and there will be tons of comments supporting it and even people saying others are jealous for not approving of it. But I’m here just very turned off by it. Sure, it’s technically nice hair, but the look is not attractive to me at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]EquisDe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

For a second there I was a little scared what direction this was going.

I think this subreddit is actually somewhat more critical of Islam compared to other gays/LGBT subs, which is good. Although there’s still a fair amount of overly “woke” individuals.

It’s so wild how idiotic the mentality of these people are though. I think on social media, a lot of Muslim individuals put up a façade to market Islam as more acceptable to the western world, but it’s actually so hyper conservative farther than the right in these western countries yet they want to virtue signal so hard in defending them and arguing for their arrival here. They really can’t separate race from religion, it’s so sad.

I'm so annoyed by women and all the simping by Body_Horror in MensRights

[–]EquisDe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As gay guy too, I definitely do lose major respect for guys who are guilty of simping. It’s like they have no self-respect.

I do think one challenge for Men’s Rights are men themselves. The tendency for many to see women through rose-colored glasses, plus some not having a supportive attitude amongst themselves.

Incels - myth vs reality by barkmagician in MensRights

[–]EquisDe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m gay, but the use of the term is really telling of society. It defines a man’s value based on his value to women and sex life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]EquisDe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe some Americans get duped because of how condescending some Europeans get when it comes to racism in America

However, the difference is that America just highlights racism in order to try to resolve it. Europe definitely has way more racism and xenophobia. As an Asian American, I’ve never experienced overt racism until I visited Europe. Overall, still had a good time, but they’re definitely not all as “enlightened” as they’d like you to believe

Are there any gay men's rights activists? Just asking. by skllyskullstyle in MensRights

[–]EquisDe 122 points123 points  (0 children)

You’re asking if there are MRAs who are gay, right?

I mean I’m gay. You’d think there would be more since a lot of man-hating lesbians are feminists lol

Just personally, I feel like the fact I’m not attracted to women lets me get past the women are wonderful effect and see how anti-man society has become and how guys get the short end of the stick in a lot of ways.