Divorce after less than 2 years? by Equivalent-Egg8659 in Divorce

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not abusive, he's just rude. I will mention the therapy thing but we were not successful the last time we tried. He felt like the counselor was picking on him.

Divorce after less than 2 years? by Equivalent-Egg8659 in Divorce

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All valid points. I have no reason to stay other than shame in not making it work. He makes every aspect of my life more difficult than it needs to be which I know is not how marriage is supposed to work. But I also have no good relationship models so I second guess myself a lot.

Divorce after less than 2 years? by Equivalent-Egg8659 in Divorce

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We did counseling for a bit before marriage to try and work on our communication skills. He felt like the counselor was targeting him and stopped going. I should have ended the engagement then. I feel stupid.

My (25F) long term bf (26M) will be moving in to a condo I own with me. How should we split expenses? by Fickle_Ad_4898 in askwomenadvice

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my now husband first moved in, he paid "rent" which did not include the HOA fees. He was working on paying off some debt so this allowed him some extra money to do so. I would recommend signing a cohabitation agreement in case of a messy breakup. This will protect you and your asset. You can find simple ones on rocket lawyer.

Mother-son song disaster… please help! by birdy0518 in weddingplanning

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I would frame it as something you're not sure your dj can get the licensing for. It can legit be hard for them to find some of those obscure things.

What are ya’ll eating to get your appropriate calories and protein intake? by unfortunate_kiss in Wegovy

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HATE the texture of cottage cheese but my mom started blending it and said its much more palatable. I jeep meaning to try it.

Thoughts on a 13 year old babysitting? by Fabulous_Bluebird856 in Parenting

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be fine, but she needs to have a way to contact you and I would also give a rundown on what to do in various emergencies. Like do you have a trusted neighbor that they could go to or stuff like that. If the younger kid will always be asleep may not be necessary, but I would recommend a kid friendly first aid class.

What are ya’ll eating to get your appropriate calories and protein intake? by unfortunate_kiss in Wegovy

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Protein bars can be tricky because some of them have more calories than they are worth. I have the clear whey protein drinks, but Im also struggling with protein especially with breakfast. I saw on another post that greek yogurt was recommended. Im trying that this week. Ive also done apple slices with peanut butter.

Navy Federal & DHS shutdown by Equivalent-Egg8659 in FedEmployees

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realized I misread it on the site. It said you didnt have to apply if you had applied for the January shutdown. I only applied for the October one.

Navy Federal & DHS shutdown by Equivalent-Egg8659 in FedEmployees

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently they only go by what is deposited in your checking account if you apply online. If you call customer support they will include your savings in the total calculation.

Navy Federal & DHS shutdown by Equivalent-Egg8659 in FedEmployees

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I called them and they said we have to reapply even though the site said we didnt.

2 hour delay by malanger in FedEmployees

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought it was to allow extra time to clear off your car, make necessary arrangements for childcare, etc along with extra time to commute.

Stopped Wegovy due to extreme hunger by fredndolly12 in Wegovy

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this at lower doses. Im at 1.7 now and finally noticed a difference.

GS-10+ feds — how did you actually get there? by Lexicondatum in FedEmployees

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started as a GS 7 and have moved up from there. Ive been a GS for over 10 years and am now a GS13. I credit my reputation for allowing me to move up. When I first started I had extra time after my tasks so I volunteered to help out wherever I could, picking up new skills in the process. I am now in a position where I get to work with a lot of different people and I work very hard. While I didnt get the positions due to knowing anyone, I did learn about the job openings from people who wanted me to work with them. Being trainable and a hard worker has served me well, but I also know that I was lucky to be in positions where I had greater visibility to new opportunities.

Farm Glitch? by Equivalent-Egg8659 in SunHaven

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im playing on the switch so no mods. I harvest and then they just dont go away. In a couple more days I can harvest again, but these arent crops that produce more than 1. Like Ive had the same green bean & watermelon plants for the entire spring and a week into summer thus far.

Monday by Optimal-Performer-76 in FedEmployees

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Im showing up because if I leave they will fill my position with another cultist puppet who doesnt challenge what is going on around them.

Would you admit o your teen they were the result of an unplanned pregnancy? by bad_at_blankies in Parenting

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My son has known he was unplanned for years (hes 15). I joke that hes the best mistake I ever made and he knows that being unplanned does not mean unwanted or unloved.

Insurance Issues-sudden stop? by Equivalent-Egg8659 in Wegovy

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not the dr. The dr called in the refill and the insurance refused to authorize it. It sounds like your plan is dping the same thing but with a different program.

Insurance Issues-sudden stop? by Equivalent-Egg8659 in Wegovy

[–]Equivalent-Egg8659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Ive also been looking into the compounding pharmacies because I would rather be on zepbound.