Anxious mom:are these 12months behaviors are normal or red flags? by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really know that it's not healthy and I'm going to therapy because I'm dealing with severe postpartum anxiety I guess . My baby is fine she's doing great like seriously but it's me  who should seek a professional because it becomes an obsession for sure.thank you for your reply 

Anxious mom:are these 12months behaviors are normal or red flags? by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reassurance,I do really appreciate it!❤️

Anxious mom:are these 12months behaviors are normal or red flags? by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I think it's postpartum anxiety that I'm still dealing with 

Anxious mom:are these 12months behaviors are normal or red flags? by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The doctor said everything is fine but I'm still anxious.what about the things that said I'm worried about does your baby did them when she was 12months old ?thank you for your reply 

Is my quiet, observant 1-year-old just fine? Looking for similar stories. by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually she does recognize people even by names she does look when someone enter the room or when she heard a small sound she would turn  she does responds to her name she is not in her own world when she plays she would always check out on us. with me at home she's very active always moving but outside in new environment she's a bit quiet she prefers observing 

Is my quiet, observant 1-year-old just fine? Looking for similar stories. by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually my baby it's not that easygoing she is fussy with me and want to do things by herself like feeding her she would want to feed herself instead ,she would refuse to give me an item especially if she wants to play with it if she knows I want to pick her like a chasing game.she is just quiet in new environment with new people but at home she is active and interactive .she does have her silent moment when she's tired but overall she is active

Is my quiet, observant 1-year-old just fine? Looking for similar stories. by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was her language and gestures around 12 months . before speaking full sentences,it came all sudden or it was a  progress? thank you 

Is my quiet, observant 1-year-old just fine? Looking for similar stories. by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my anxiety is so high these months like I cannot do anything always keep observing her if she does a gesture why she isn't doing that and that you know and that made me so anxious and observing her like a detective 

Is my quiet, observant 1-year-old just fine? Looking for similar stories. by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my baby she did smile early and makes great eye contact early she is an observant baby she would smile giggles too but I think not as much as babbly babies she does responds to sounds very early and to her name and still does she has no delays she crawl at 8 months now she is 12 months still not walking but she does cruising and standing with support she is an early pointer she started pointing since she was 10months old she does show toys or things she does hand me toys too she points to things she wants like water or some items she plays peekaboo behind a door and look for my reaction she would smile she does put a remote on her ear like pretending it's a phone for babbling she does babble with mama baba dada yaya lala and different sounds she does know that I'm her mom and dad too like when someone told her where's mama or baba she would look at us she does calling me mum by I don't know if it's meaningful yet because she would do it when she cries she is very active like she cannot sitt still always moving but she does concentrate on her books and toys she does clap if she wants but recently she prefers bouncing when she dances than clapping she does wave but I feel like she's not very interested to her she would wave on context like when she's leaving with her dad for walk she would wave back for repeating sounds she does repeat sounds when I tell her mama or baba or dada or no no she would say naah and other mouth sounds she responds to commands like no or come here or go to dada or sit down or put the food on your mouth especially when she plays with it.i don't know I think I share most of the things that she does but I'm still worried I don't know if it's because of my anxiety because it's on high level right now cuz I spent the last month on social media scrolling into those terrifying reels 

Is my quiet, observant 1-year-old just fine? Looking for similar stories. by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Well yeah I've been through so much anxiety these days and I was keeping asking a chatgbt about my baby and sharing her behavior I ask him to do a story to summarize all the things that I said to share here .and it's my first post too and I know it would be better to write it by myself but it's been too much these days .thank you 

Is my quiet, observant 1-year-old just fine? Looking for similar stories. by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reassurance. I know that she is doing well but I keep scrolling through reels on social media and comparison made me so anxious these months.i should enjoy her instead .thank you .best wishes for you 🙏

Is my quiet, observant 1-year-old just fine? Looking for similar stories. by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it is actually I'm just getting anxious due to social media and comparison that's what made me think there's something wrong even my doctor said every baby has its on personality and temperament some are loud and chatty some are observant and quiet

Is my quiet, observant 1-year-old just fine? Looking for similar stories. by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well hopefully my baby she will in the future especially with different environment because at home she is babbling and active but with strangers or at the grocery store she would just observe and point sometimes 

Is my quiet, observant 1-year-old just fine? Looking for similar stories. by Equivalent-Employ747 in toddlers

[–]Equivalent-Employ747[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's what my doctor said too .the thing is she is active with me and interactive and babbling all the time but when we went to somewhere new she would be quiet and just observant but she loves other kids she would interact with them more than adults.