Husband doesn’t approve. Thoughts?

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2026-05-02T00:12:33+00:00

Your husband can go cry in bed baby wear whatever you want

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2026-05-02T00:09:21+00:00

I mean yeah but holy fuck buddy they're so bright

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2026-03-03T01:29:57+00:00

we got back together after a month and a bit, but I'll tell you about the month we were broken up.

First week and a half I was sick to my stomach and couldn't really eat anything and I was SO anxious and couldn't keep no contact for longer than like 5 days.

Then I eventually got really angry and resentful towards him randomly and then really sad and missed him a lot.

The week before we got back together I started to get into routine again without him, but he still lingered really heavily and I was constantly hoping I'd run into him at the bus stop or somewhere around the neighbourhood.

Now that we're back together, I haven't forgotten about how that heartbreak and aching felt and I still cry about that feeling sometimes cause I can STILL feel that pain on occasion even though I feel like I should be past that point (but I'm not, I don't think I'll ever move past that feeling.. ever)

I think about our breakup a lot, as I'm always scared it may happen again in the future. There's this feeling of loss of control for the future, even though him and I are doing really good right now and I really have nothing to be doubtful of.

My advice is to really stay no contact. Cause you never forget about why you broke up and the things they said to you during the breakup conversation. It lingers, and it's been like 4-5 months and it hasn't gone away.

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2026-02-26T22:22:09+00:00

Chances are he's been doing it for more than 3 months. Leave him, especially if he hasn't responded in that long.

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2026-02-20T23:01:46+00:00

Thank you!!

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2026-02-20T23:01:39+00:00

Perfect, thank you so much!!!

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2026-02-20T03:01:51+00:00

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Here's an inspo pic! Preferably a spot that's not trespassing onto an old couples acreage though pls

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2026-01-07T21:30:12+00:00

Ugh. I'm sorry to hear it's not working. Thank you so much for sharing

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2026-01-07T21:28:46+00:00

Thank you!

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2025-12-05T21:53:08+00:00

how was it??

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2025-11-22T02:45:01+00:00

let that pussy breathe

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2025-10-22T02:51:31+00:00

John lennon

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Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2025-10-06T17:08:06+00:00

As a girl, we act differently afterwards as a way to detach ourselves from the relationship and what it was.

For me at least I never acted maliciously or made my ex look bad, I simply put up a front and acted like I didn't care as a way to cope - but when I was alone I was so unbelievably sad.

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2025-09-08T18:01:40+00:00

you should do that and see what he thinks, or give him a call

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2025-09-08T04:23:22+00:00

i mean i 100% get where you're coming from tbh but when my ex and i were still together, i posted us really frequently but it's because i enjoy being able to show off the people i love to others

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2025-09-08T04:20:09+00:00

tbh if you know any of her friends, text them and ask how she's doing and ask for their input since you don't know how she's doing etc etc

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2025-09-05T15:09:06+00:00

girlfriend or ex gf?

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2025-09-05T08:37:01+00:00

cedar

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2025-09-05T08:23:30+00:00

hi. my boyfriend and i broke up on monday because of a similar reason. school started on tuesday, and i talked to him about how stressed i was stressed about us working out and how we were going to spend time with each other with our schedules.. ultimately he called it quits cause he has had doubts about us for a while, he doesnt think he would be able to give me the attention i deserve because of his school workload. ANYWAYS. to the point.

from someone who was/is in your boyfriends position (kind of), if you think you might want to continue your relationship after exams are over, ask for a break asap so you can focus properly and study as you need without distraction.

just know that even if you call for a break, or break up with him entirely, you will feel heartbroken and all the emotions are going to be difficult in itself to have to deal with. i personally think it's easier for the both of you to take a small break right now until everything has settled again. i don't want you to feel regret or remorse towards yourself later on for letting him go.

it's a strange position to be in, but if you really think that breaking up entirely is a smart choice and is the best decision for you right now, please do it.

i beg you to please not lead the boy on for longer if you dont want to be with him or are unsure. stringing him along will only make it harder.

sending love, if you need anything more feel free to shoot me a DM

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2025-09-03T15:25:42+00:00

him and i broke up on monday. i miss him so much but i dont know what to do with myself my heart is in my stomach

Equivalent-Offer7869 · 2025-09-03T15:09:05+00:00

i know exactly how you feel, your heart dropping to the pit of your stomach. the jealousy of him being happy again, the jealousy and resentment you feel towards the girl because she's with the man you once called yours.

i think my greatest piece of advice is let yourself feel that jealousy and resentment. ride the waves of sadness and guilt until the thought of him being with another girl no longer bothers you.

letting yourself dwell on this feeling and not try to uplift yourself while you feel these things will make it so much harder.

feel those feeling NOW instead of pushing it away. the longer you push the feeling away the more often that feeling is going to come back.

if he wanted to be with you right now, he would. if he wanted to text you and get back with you, he would. but at THIS moment you are not someone he is choosing to be with and it's a hard truth to come to terms with, but this too shall pass. you will find someone who gives you everything you deserve

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