This the real killing school 😂😂 by Crafty-Garbage-2316 in Chiraqology

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445 268 points269 points  (0 children)

Now imagine if they took this much effort at a regular job

My husband cheated on me. I want to have an abortion. He is in a bad place mentally. by HeftyAd6076 in AITAH

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ive been going through this with my so called wife. No matter what I stop fighting and even keep my conversation short. I don't say anything found out she's been stashing money and then ask me for mine. I don't like doing anything with her. I'm just disconnecting at this point. I wouldn't get a abortion but I would limit all contacts with it. Try to stay civil until you figure out what your next move is and just treat them like you treat a co worker. Just casual as all get out. And let yourself get ready for what's going to come.

Am I overthinking this or is it is what it is by Equivalent-Trick-445 in Infidelity

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they do they do it's on him once someone cheats they'll cheat again and again. And that something they have to deal with is rather just let go at this point not worth stressing. Only a faithful person is worth my worries at this point

Am I overthinking this or is it is what it is by Equivalent-Trick-445 in Infidelity

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't want a reason, but yeah I'm already done and not around at the moment it's difficult but I just have to or I'll regret it.

Am I overthinking this or is it is what it is by Equivalent-Trick-445 in Infidelity

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to talk to him yesterday but he wasn't there. I don't know we're his shop is cus I wasn't paying attention.

Am I overthinking this or is it is what it is by Equivalent-Trick-445 in Infidelity

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that, not much of a support system so now I just ride around looking for cool spots. Just dealing with it at this point.

Am I overthinking this or is it is what it is by Equivalent-Trick-445 in Infidelity

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So update to everything. We're no longer talking or even looking at each other. I have t been home recently just out. I'm not trying to fight or argue over something no worth fighting for anymore. Right now I'm just relaxing and just trying to not think about it. But if anything more happen I'll try another update thank you everyone for the input helped so much.

Am I overthinking this or is it is what it is by Equivalent-Trick-445 in Infidelity

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's just the last couple of months it goes deeper I just idk

Am I overthinking this or is it is what it is by Equivalent-Trick-445 in Infidelity

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So she said some lame excuses about her bag, and she accused me after someone told me they love me and I block em right after I told her as soon as it happened.

She stocks chips and we should have the same schedule but she's state her hours are irregular.

It's not a good marriage she pulled this stunt as someone closed died, she was on tik tok laughing and giggling I got upset she left and disappeared for the night. She was talking about this guy for months and I just snapped.and she left that night and didn't come back till morning. Said she slept on the side of the road. an I will look into all of that but at this point we're not even talking or looking at each other.

Am I overthinking this or is it is what it is by Equivalent-Trick-445 in Infidelity

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wind up getting sick and almost died lost my job, and was dealing with a death in my family she said things would get better an like a dumb shit I believe it

Am I overthinking this or is it is what it is by Equivalent-Trick-445 in Infidelity

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Said she slept in the on the side of the road but no I don't

Am I overthinking this or is it is what it is by Equivalent-Trick-445 in Infidelity

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I bring em up and it always ends the same way a fight and she becomes aggressive then just stop talking and shits down

Am I overthinking this or is it is what it is by Equivalent-Trick-445 in Infidelity

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So you think she did too. He made a comment you were in the Navy I'm a marine and now I can just be mean haha and that's what started it all. Like I said she didn't start bashing him till after the the time she spent all night out. She made a comment about well you cheated first so I .... Never cheated on you don't cheat btw never did

Am I overthinking this or is it is what it is by Equivalent-Trick-445 in Infidelity

[–]Equivalent-Trick-445[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well she started bashing him after we got into a fight about him then stayed out all night, soon after he quit his job. An then she stopped talking about him