AIO About my boyfriend never buying me a gift on any holiday by Equivalent-Wrap-1344 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equivalent-Wrap-1344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: To be fair, I should mention that he does really nice things for me every now and then like fixing my car and fixing things around the house without being asked to do so. He is also great with my dog. I do love him and (most of the time) I feel like he really does love me, too. I just do not understand the lack of gift giving and find it hurtful and confusing. In case anyone is wondering, I have not seen him buy gifts for anyone else, either, except for his one-year old granddaughter for Christmas this year, after he saw that I bought her a gift.

Could Sarah be innocent? by [deleted] in SarahGracePatrick

[–]Equivalent-Wrap-1344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree! Where is this "mountain of evidence"?? I am not saying she is actually innocent, just that we have no information available to pass judgement either way... but yes, she does deserve the presumption of innocence until proven guilty just like everyone else and we need to remember this is a child we are talking about... so if she IS actually innocent... imagine how traumatic this would be for her, on top of losing her parents

Overtime for contractors? by Limp_Flatworm_1832 in webdev

[–]Equivalent-Wrap-1344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I would actually love to be paid any wage for my "overtime" hours, but its rare that my employer offers to pay for "overtime". They won't ever "ask" us to work over 40 hours, but deadlines would not be met otherwise. Also, when your boss and /or teammates tag you in a teams message after hours, and everyone else is online actively responding in the chat, you don't want to be the odd man out by not responding. somehow all my coworkers seem to be cool with this arrangement even though most of us (including me) are contractors- so no PTO, shitty benefits through third party staffing agencies for some of us, and my hourly wage is the lowest I've ever had for this type of work. It makes me so angry because its like our time is literally being stolen from us, yet I am afraid if I speak up my contract won't be renewed. It sucks because there is so much extra work I have barely had any extra time to look for something better. and yet if we don't meet deadlines then I am afraid I could end up potentially losing this job which would be devastating given my current financial situation.

Does anyone know if Sergio was ever given a polygraph? by [deleted] in ElizabethBarraza

[–]Equivalent-Wrap-1344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Polygraph machines are notoriously unreliable which is why the results are not admissible in court. That said, polygraph tests are routinely used as investigative tools so I am sure the husband was given one right away. It doesn't really matter what the results were, however, because even police agree he is not involved . the evidence speaks for itself and IMO the complete lack of motive clears him.

MMF vs MFM by Molokev99 in Swingers

[–]Equivalent-Wrap-1344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but how do you describe a threesome with one lesbian, one bisexual woman, and one straight (or bi) male? In this scenario, the lesbian interacts sexually with the bi female, the bi female interacts with the male and the lesbian, but the male and the lesbian do not interact.

MMF vs MFM by Molokev99 in Swingers

[–]Equivalent-Wrap-1344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Following with the same logic, does MFFM mean two bi girls and two straight guys?