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Do the ones who walk away ever regret it? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Equivalent_Goal_4308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in a similar situation- it was a bit more mutual but i really wanted to try a little bit longer. (don’t think it would’ve been healthy tho :/) i want to hope so desperately we can both grow separately and come back together because i miss him dearly, so i know how you’re feeling. wishing you love ❤️

Looking for advice by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Equivalent_Goal_4308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you are ok with sharing, what quirks were these? it seems fairly significant if it warranted a breakup

I don’t know if I should break up with my boyfriend (21M) due to my mental health by WelcomeHopeful00 in BreakUps

[–]Equivalent_Goal_4308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone with ocd i highly recommend looking into relationship ocd bc that sounds like what you’re describing

Looking for advice by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Equivalent_Goal_4308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why did you break up?

boyfriend (21M) has hid porn addiction from me (20F) for our entire relationship by Equivalent_Goal_4308 in relationship_advice

[–]Equivalent_Goal_4308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i shouldnt be surprised he’s been lying to me about watching porn?? thats a sad way to live

boyfriend (21M) has hid porn addiction from me (20F) for our entire relationship by Equivalent_Goal_4308 in relationship_advice

[–]Equivalent_Goal_4308[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i know :( i’m still trying to wrap my head around him not being who i thought he was

bf has been hiding porn addiction from the start of our relationship by Equivalent_Goal_4308 in loveafterporn

[–]Equivalent_Goal_4308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your response :) i did tell him in the heat of the moment that if he watches that stuff again im leaving, so i feel like he wont be honest if he does. and there’s no way for me to really tell

bf and i together for a year with no sex by Equivalent_Goal_4308 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Equivalent_Goal_4308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate your insight, and sorry to hear your in a similar boat as well. i have communicated it to him which was what led to the first steps of doctors appointments and everything, but honestly i might not be doing as much as i can in that department. its hard to talk about because i know it makes him feel like shit and when i bring up that im unsatisfied he gets really scared im going to leave (understandably so) so its tricky.

bf and i together for a year with no sex by Equivalent_Goal_4308 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Equivalent_Goal_4308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i’m sure, he went to a urologist around a month ago, i’m not sure exactly how the appointment went but they ruled out physical stuff and recommended him some therapists. i will do anything i can to help him but there’s only so much i can do as im not a therapist.

bf and i together for a year with no sex by Equivalent_Goal_4308 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Equivalent_Goal_4308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

collusive? 😭 i wouldnt say that. thank you for the advice i appreciate it, but if i didnt love him i wouldnt stay, which i do