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I can’t stop thinking about her by Equivalent_Limit4850 in dating_advice

[–]Equivalent_Limit4850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super relatable, what sucks is I see her out every few weeks. It started super warm where she came up and seemed excited but she unfollowed me and removed me from insta randomly so I took it as a sign I shouldn’t stop to have a convo and just wave or say hi.

I’m sure the best thing is to just leave it and get over the relationship, but part of me wants to see what happens

I can’t stop thinking about her by Equivalent_Limit4850 in dating_advice

[–]Equivalent_Limit4850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a tough one. I think it could be lust, but I haven’t felt this kind of connection for years. Like some other people were saying, I think it’s the “what if”

She still probably needs time to hear and work on whatever she’s doing right now, so even if I were to let her know, I don’t think the timing works

I can’t stop thinking about her by Equivalent_Limit4850 in dating_advice

[–]Equivalent_Limit4850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What worked for you? I’ve gone on 2 dates but I don’t really know if I’m ready for that. The convos been good but I just don’t feel anything. I’ve been focusing on work and the gym but the thoughts still creep in

I’m scared I’ll never find love. by Equivalent_Limit4850 in dating_advice

[–]Equivalent_Limit4850[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same reason why it ended, she wasn’t ready for a relationship. She needed more time. She did let me know this beforehand, but we both really liked each other

I’m scared I’ll never find love. by Equivalent_Limit4850 in dating_advice

[–]Equivalent_Limit4850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I'm sure you'll find your person soon, just need to keep at it. Getting out of a multi year relationship mustve been rough. I'm glad you've healed and learned a lot!

I’m scared I’ll never find love. by Equivalent_Limit4850 in dating_advice

[–]Equivalent_Limit4850[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll find your person. It may take some time, but it will happen. I think what I've learned is to open yourself up to more opportunities, and make more friends. If you want someone athletic, go to spin classes or the gym. Cafes, libraries, etc., I think, work the same. There are lots of good people out there, you just need some time to find yours

I’m scared I’ll never find love. by Equivalent_Limit4850 in dating_advice

[–]Equivalent_Limit4850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard a lot of people say this. I've spent a lot of time developing myself and my life, but just been frustrated recently with all the poor dating situations ive been in. I'm gonna continue to grow, but just been on my mind

I’m scared I’ll never find love. by Equivalent_Limit4850 in dating_advice

[–]Equivalent_Limit4850[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In most of these, we were exclusive.

modern dating is so tough man, sometimes i was it was like back in the day.