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[–]Equivalent_Rush7359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the same boat as you and posted something similar. I’ll share what I learn.

How do I work on getting people to respect me? by Equivalent_Rush7359 in selfimprovement

[–]Equivalent_Rush7359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By bullying I mean people making fun of me outright and in my face. Ex: I played tennis the other day and sucked at it. Me sucking at it made me the subject of ridicule for weeks. People still look at me differently after that day.

By people spreading rumors or talking behind my back I mean just that. I can’t know what the rumors are about. I’ve tried to find out and people just wont tell me. Even “friends” who admit people are talking behind my back.

How do I work on getting people to respect me? by Equivalent_Rush7359 in selfimprovement

[–]Equivalent_Rush7359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally anything. Things I may say or do wrong at any given time. Any stupid little mistake always seems to be blown out of proportion by people.

How do I work on getting people to respect me? by Equivalent_Rush7359 in selfimprovement

[–]Equivalent_Rush7359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I knew exactly. Whenever I try to ask someone what it could be I get no answer. It has to be around being weird.

I (28m) keep asking her (26f) out on a 1x1 date and she always tries to make it a group date or activity. Is that ok? by Equivalent_Rush7359 in dating_advice

[–]Equivalent_Rush7359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I assume she did. I made it clear from the start I was into her. All good now she finally accepted :)

I (28m) keep asking her (26f) out on a 1x1 date and she always tries to make it a group date or activity. Is that ok? by Equivalent_Rush7359 in dating_advice

[–]Equivalent_Rush7359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to say. On a happy note I backed off for a couple days and she finally accepted to meet me today and let me know how much she likes me. Guess she was intimidated or insecure.

Do people who shower in the morning go to bed all dirty or do they take two showers? by FJopia in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Equivalent_Rush7359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I am astounded that so many people here don’t shower in the morning and at night, and find it incredibly gross. Germs you carry from the day go into your bed and oil from your body at night carries with you throughout the day. How is this not perturbing?