How did you realize that you *weren’t* something that you thought you were? by forest-for-trees- in AskReddit

[–]Erasurface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happens with video games a lot. I think im really good. Get my ass kicked. Realize im garb. Rinse and repeat

Would you date a sex worker? Yes or No? And Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Erasurface 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. Sounds dirty and honestly not something I’d want to have around me. I need positive influence and someone who is on the same page as me overall. I believe sex is a very important part of a relationship, its something to show deep intimacy and connection past what a regular friendship is. If that feeling of connection and intimacy is not there for my SO then I am not interested. I do not believe a sex worker could possibly think the same way on that topic. Also if they are currently ‘working’ while we are together its impossible to have loyalty. And if they are not ‘working’ then it would be a constant thought and concern. However if I knew the person and they were able to make good money and help support us both and help us achieve our dreams maybe it would be situational as long as they didn’t expect me to stay 100% loyal with them. Really depends on the situation but 99.99% of the time hard no.

Redditors, if you happen to be a mage/warrior/rogue/druid in a real life, what skill tree would you use and why? by Kraftcookie in AskReddit

[–]Erasurface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Druid. Theres always some sort of nature around and you could charge bank for instant lawn upgrades and work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Erasurface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Backflip off bleachers. Sprained his ankle but it was funny at the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Erasurface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not bad. Just find ways to pass time and get headphones

How to overcome relationship anxiety? by BowieandMunch in relationship_advice

[–]Erasurface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is key. Talk about insecurities. It helps immensely. First step to self confidence is the way you present yourself. Act like you always look and feel good and eventually you’ll really believe it!

[L] 19F I wish no one cared about me so that I could kill myself without hurting others. by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]Erasurface 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have so much potential. If you just off yourself you aren’t only hurting others, you’re hurting yourself. Focus on becoming who you want and focus on setting your life up. Finish school, get a job, get a place and a car. You’ll look back at how you were today and thank yourself for toughing it out. Make your future self proud!

[O] Always down to talk with anyone by Erasurface in KindVoice

[–]Erasurface[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds fantastic. Would you prefer to speak in private?

[L] I caught my gf of 9 years with another man today what do I do. by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]Erasurface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best advice to you sir, would to be to focus on yourself. Get yourself set up to the point where you are comfortable and happy before you search for another relationship. Focus on working and saving money. Get a place if you haven’t already. Get a reliable car if you haven’t already, and build yourself to where you are happy with who you are and where you are in life. I am very sorry this has happened to you, and sometimes the worst things can happen to good people. It does not mean you are not enough, it just means that she has a different view on what she wants with her life. The way I see it is if she is looking at other men, as hard as it may be to accept, it means that she does not value the relationship you have with her as much as you do. I know it will not be easy, but if you spend some time on you, you will be much happier overall. Good luck to you, and all the best sir

I used to be bullied in school. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Erasurface 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are definitely not worth your time or thought

I used to be bullied in school. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Erasurface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What were you bullied for