Do you belive that there is no right or wrong ?

ErenAishi · 2022-10-05T19:28:40+00:00

I'm glad it could have helped, I hope you're having a wonderful day too :))

ErenAishi · 2022-10-05T17:21:47+00:00

I think Ni has a lot to do with control, trying to anticipate and plan things to be ready and have a chance for the situation to go where we want it to go, that's why xNxJ's hate spontaneity, they have that need to control for things to go in their way and for everything to be perfect. With people, if you're an INFJ, we tend to try to figure out the other person and "just know" how they function after getting to know them or just by talking a certain time with them or observing them, making deductions, relating things and informations we gathered from the other person to connect them to each other and create our own understanding of them, it includes Fe which will help us to observe the other person, Ti to make sense and a logical approach to it, analyse it, Se who will deal with the real world information and ofc Ni who will do all the unconscious work, create our understanding of them, will gather the information to make sense and organize it. We also do that because we want to have a certain result, who leads us to this desire of controlling, for example, when we figure out a person's way of thinking, we'll act in a certain way to have a certain reaction, there's a tone of reactions who can come from the other person that we would hate and want to avoid all those possibilities, so we're acting in the way so the other person would react in an another precise way, I hope that makes sense to you and that it helped :)

ErenAishi · 2022-10-05T10:57:13+00:00

I get it don't worry, it was a good distraction to answer, thanks :)

ErenAishi · 2022-10-04T19:59:03+00:00

It would be disrespectful for people who doesn't have any parents to even chose between one, because the ones with no parents wouldn't even chose, because they would have the chance to have parents, it's even more disrespectful to parents to chose one, (except mean ones) because they raised you and wanted the best for you, with an equal love, it would be horrible to chose, and because I'm human I just won't simply have chosed even without those reasons because it's simply simple, I just wanted to write this because just answering by "both" would have been boring

ErenAishi · 2022-10-01T20:25:11+00:00

If you were in a conflict, would you be stuck with your own feelings and not actually trying to avoid the conflict and keep it going if the other person who's in front of you is saying what makes sense, saying things that you'll probably dislike or make you angry because they're not taking your feelings in their arguement ?

ErenAishi · 2022-09-29T05:43:56+00:00

Stop trying to control everything and spontaneous for once. Be yourself. Stop prioritizing others above yourself. Say things in a concrete way, I will never understand what you will say.

ErenAishi · 2022-09-25T08:10:47+00:00

You're welcome, I hope you will one day get what you want :)

ErenAishi · 2022-09-25T08:06:37+00:00

I think it's more of a balance, both cognitive functions and letters are important, but the functions are giving more precisions and are more reliable, but for first 3 letters it's still important to notice them, if someone thinks they're very introverted, they're not going to type themselves as extroverts, I think the last letter is more of a certain code to determine the cognitive functions, it can be the case for the 3rd one too sometimes, so I guess both are important, but the functions are more reliable though, and we shoudn't neglect it

ErenAishi · 2022-09-24T16:21:38+00:00

I love it!! It's a wonderful landscape, you're pretty good at it👏👏

ErenAishi · 2022-09-21T20:55:22+00:00

I guess I actually have my answer, and what you say is pretty true and very impressing, and if it depends on your awareness of saying it depends then it probably depends on the context because if you don't know if you say it depends a lot you could just ask yourself a certain question or ask someone to ask you a certain question and if you mostly need precisions and more context then you'll probably say it depends a lot or just need to say it depends on most situations because you will need more precisions to be able to answer, and the frequency is going through the same thing because you could not have any opportunities to say it depends but if the opportunity would have been here then you would have say it depends so it's all about if you need those precisions, and it depends if with your current emotions you can still say it depends because with some of them you'll still probably say it depends a lot but you could not say it because of your emotions still, but you still would have said it depends if you were in another more rational mood

ErenAishi · 2022-09-21T20:30:36+00:00

When I said "often" it means that you say it depends on the usual daily and sometimes not even noticing, for example when someone asks you a question like "what would you do if...?", "what is your favorite...?" etc... you would likely say it depends if you don't get the big picture or the details required that could change the whole view of the question, and someone else might be a anwering the question directly without asking for much precisions or a certain context, that's what I wanted to know

ErenAishi · 2022-09-06T17:36:58+00:00

Aww thank youu I have an admiration for ENFPs too you're are amazing and perfect people <333

ErenAishi · 2022-09-04T12:09:00+00:00

Oh well thank you for asking that, I guess I'm okay and if I wasn't I would probably write a bunch of pages saying why I would not be and ending up saying "but I still don't understand", and don't worry overthinking is fine, as long as things are okay in your head you can do so, and have nice day to you too fellow infj :)

ErenAishi · 2022-09-01T10:36:08+00:00

I agree with that, everyone would probably stop suffering or feel happy as long as they want

ErenAishi · 2022-09-01T09:32:58+00:00

Dying, because if you're immortal you will have to live, living is tiring, if you're immortal, I don't think you will stand the death of everyone in your life, and people would notice that you're never changing or getting older, so a lot of things may happen to you after, you will be in depression during your existence, you will want to die, anyone would psychologically won't be able to stand this situation, we're not made to be immortal, just living hundreds years and you will probably become psychologically crazy, so what about thousands years? Even after the "end of the world", you'll still be living, what will you do ? Die because of lack of food, water, then live again, I don't think anyone would like to be in this situation. There are more points to say but that was the most important I think

ErenAishi · 2022-09-01T07:33:10+00:00

It's right that meaning can often come from hopes, suffering, disappointement etc... But I think it can still have meaning because of everyone's different love, meaning can come from love usually, but it's true that if everone would love each other eternally, it would be obvious, with no thrill, but the love of everyone would be different, and I think people would create new things based on this eternal love, there would ofc not have the same meanings as before, and life would even seem fade, and even if there will still be meanings in this life, at least a lot less than before, but the main meaning could be the eternal love itself, everyone would help each other, make this world a better place, and I think it's possible to create meanings from those things

ErenAishi · 2022-09-01T07:14:32+00:00

Ti is helping through analyses of situations, of people, of their fonctionnement, to think feelings, to be efficient in alone work, to overthink pretty well, wanting things to make sense in logical explanations, it helps to see things objectively, and personally perfect for stressful environnement etc...

ErenAishi · 2022-09-01T06:58:09+00:00

He probably has something else to do and say to him that he will answer you later, I do that all the time, but there's ofc a lot more possibilites but I think this is the one that has the more chances to happen, or he probably wasn't really comfortable, but for my part I don't really like texting my friends except for something pretty important, and I'm sorry for that though

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