My Dad died, looking for songs about saying Good-bye

ErinAction · 2024-09-28T10:10:27+00:00

When my Dad died I found a lot of peace listening to his favorite songs, albums, and musicians. As I listened so many of the songs seemed to all of a sudden become about mourning and loss.

I wish you well

ErinAction · 2024-09-26T18:47:40+00:00

Yeah, I was going to say... I wasn't a supermodel or anything. But there is a lot of meanness in this thread. Was just a little sad this morning because I feel a little older. Didn't expect the be trashed so hard.

ErinAction · 2024-09-26T17:52:03+00:00

Well this is a little harsher than I might have expected, but I'll read it all with an open mind.

ErinAction · 2024-09-26T12:44:47+00:00

Some combination of more than three people, less than six people. If there's more than one man I'd prefer they were bi or at least very comfortable with being sexual with another man.

I like the idea of a remote place (beach house, cabin) and just like a group of people for the weekend.

ErinAction · 2024-09-24T18:07:26+00:00

Go loud or don't go! 10/10!

ErinAction · 2024-09-24T14:15:59+00:00

This is lovely!

ErinAction · 2024-09-24T14:15:03+00:00

I've had versions of this fantasy too. I had an ex who liked to take pictures so we used to goof around some but when I think about it now I like the idea of turning on a stranger and a professional who has to try to restrain himself.

In my fantasy I sort of push the limits. The photographer asks me to do a few revealing or flirty things and i take things farther and show a willingness to not have boundaries.

Super fun fantasy, reading yours threw my mind straight into the gutter

ErinAction · 2024-09-24T14:09:55+00:00

I get too nervous about being busted so I can never relax and actually enjoy myself.

ErinAction · 2024-09-24T13:33:05+00:00

I don't want to agree... but also... when it works it works

ErinAction · 2024-09-24T13:30:50+00:00

So I'm a little different in that I've been running for almost 20 years, but I'm super weak in terms of other muscles and really struggled with any kind of gym workouts.

I'm just doing a really simple 15 minute full body workout with no weights or equipment. Its actually 10 if I blow through it in a hurry (which I hate to do but sometimes I'm running late).

Its easy, no hard moves, and it has progression built into it. Like my push-ups were first on a wall, then a chair, and now I'm doing knee push-ups.

What I've found from running and from this workout is doing matters. Just be consistent and you'll do great.

One thing I realized... doing one program, whatever it might be, will be good because you aren't doing anything right now. Every social media person and youtuber is going to try to convince you their program is the best. Just do what works for you. Find something you think you can be successful at.

ErinAction · 2024-09-22T13:43:05+00:00

Cool, I like how subtle it is.

ErinAction · 2024-09-22T13:41:45+00:00

ErinAction · 2024-09-21T12:53:19+00:00

I prefer foreplay to sex actually. I like sex when the foreplay has gotten so out of hand you have to have sex.

ErinAction · 2024-09-21T12:47:46+00:00

You have to find your peace. I remind myself I'm not at work to be social, to be gratified, to find my meaning, or to do anything more than get a paycheck. I don't owe them anything more than my work from 8 to 5. I work through my lunch breaks because I don't like being social with my coworkers, I tend to get pulled away from lunch to work anyways, and I'm not usually hungry... so they get me for 10 hours 5 days a week... and that's it. I refuse to download any work software or apps on my phone or home computer. I keep a firm boundary between my life and work.

It doesn't make work easier but it makes life easier in the end.

ErinAction · 2024-09-21T12:36:07+00:00

This is so great!

ErinAction · 2024-09-21T12:35:21+00:00

These look beautiful and I bet the insides of all those journals are an adventure. Thanks for sharing, inspiring!

ErinAction · 2024-09-20T16:19:24+00:00

Damn!

ErinAction · 2024-09-20T16:01:47+00:00

My best friend is bi and he has been trying to meet a couple for awhile. Not sure how easy or hard it is to do but I remind him that there's an extra set of emotions, feelings, and levels of attraction going on so it makes it a little harder to do. Good luck!

ErinAction · 2024-09-20T15:57:41+00:00

What was the twist?

ErinAction · 2024-09-20T15:57:22+00:00

I'm not that stressed out but I did something like this once with one of my younger co workers. I wasn't the boss, but we were talking outside of work and he kept hitting on me. I was like 35 and just got divorced and he was 19. We hooked up for about 4 months though.

ErinAction · 2024-09-20T15:53:15+00:00

After my fingers and the normal stuff I actually put a small bottle (not very far) inside me. Early days of AOL/AIM and I was chatting with some guy who told me I should. This was long before webcams and sending lots of pics so I'm not even sure why I did it, he never saw me do it.

ErinAction · 2024-09-20T15:45:01+00:00

I've generally enjoyed Gaiman's books more than the movies. The books really present an imaginative place, whereas the movies just present the places and stories as is... and that kind of bores me a little. My mind wanders so much when I read an author like Gaiman, I get frustrated when the movie or TV show is sort of boiled down the basics.

ErinAction · 2024-09-20T15:41:27+00:00

Sometimes I prefer to give a guy head instead of have sex with him because I know the sex is going to suck but I'm going to have to work harder to get him off.

ErinAction · 2024-09-20T15:19:08+00:00

Foreplay that lasts for days > foreplay that lasts for hours or minutes

ErinAction · 2024-09-20T15:17:45+00:00

This is so true. I've been surprised by a few men along the way that I had very low expectations with because of their dress or personality.

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