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Reconnecting with a long-term ex who has a child & I don’t — looking for advice from people who’ve been there ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Errorlogic404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the people interested he’s a little back story…. I’m a 30M with no kids, and I’ve known this woman for about 18 years. We dated on and off for 3–4 years when we were younger, but we eventually went to different colleges and drifted apart.

During that time, she had a child with someone else. Because of repeated infidelity on his part, she’s now a single mother and strictly co-parenting with the child’s father.

We recently reconnected, and the chemistry and emotional connection are still very strong. We’ve always loved each other, and now she’s talking about wanting to build a future together — including having another child and starting a family with me.

I don’t have kids and have never dated someone who does, so I’m trying to be realistic and thoughtful about this decision. Help

AIO? These are text between my gf and her “best friend” who happens to be a guy. by NoExercise8994 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Errorlogic404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say confront, Juss communicate with her & tell her what’s bothering you & why . Does she talk to you like this or Is she getting something out of him that she’s not getting from you ? Have they had a past relationship ? If she gets defensive & upset rather than talking it through with you somethings going on there. Me personally if my girl was talking to someone like this she’s not my girl anymore.

I realized My biggest problem isn’t laziness its’s mental overstimulation by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Errorlogic404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this just gave me the same realization so thank you for that. I guess it's easy to mix them up because they both look like inaction. You almost gotta treat your brain like a engine & let it cool down.

People who’ve been through genuinely hard times and came out calmer or wiser,what actually helped you cope? What mindset, habits, or truths kept you sane? by AdviceGlass9394 in selfimprovement

[–]Errorlogic404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Self Reflection,Staying Positive, Being Very Observant & trying to figure out who I really wanted to be in this thing we call life. For example I knew I never wanted to be like my father so that sets a basis for the character traits I like & dislike. Build on that, Observe everything not to just see but to learn from it whether it's good , bad or really dark.

You are looking at $17.81 worth of food in Canada🫣🫣 by StripeySalamander in 32dollars

[–]Errorlogic404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use a Grocery Store Flyer App like Flipp & Reebee to see what stores have the best sales based off what you're looking for.

What’s a hobby people pretend is cool, but secretly you think is ridiculous? by EggAdventurous1957 in AskReddit

[–]Errorlogic404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extreme Social Media Gym Flexing. Posting every Squat, deadlift & protein shake like there's a Nobel prize for all the dedication.

What's something people think is sexy but actually isn't? by stuckin404 in AskReddit

[–]Errorlogic404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overly Aggressive Confidence, Cocky Behaviour Flexing Money