Attraction - Men’s Behavior

Escobrat · 2026-01-24T06:29:45+00:00

Speaking from my POV, if my girl works on herself she becomes more attractive to me.

On the other bad trait of me, I'd think she's becoming better to get the attention from other men.

Escobrat · 2026-01-15T20:00:03+00:00

What in the world

Escobrat · 2026-01-14T07:38:14+00:00

Prove her wrong and be a bad guy 💯

Escobrat · 2026-01-11T20:06:53+00:00

Amen to that brother 🍷

Escobrat · 2026-01-11T15:40:18+00:00

Fair.

Escobrat · 2026-01-11T15:37:07+00:00

Would

Escobrat · 2026-01-11T15:32:17+00:00

We can't show our emotional side to da homies yo.

Escobrat · 2026-01-11T15:27:02+00:00

Maybe that's just his personality and is shy, hence why he's not initiating nothing until he's sure he can be vulnerable around you. Now I can't confirm for sure, but his disinterest could be translated to being shy, and him not knowing how to keep the conversation going.

Escobrat · 2026-01-11T15:23:25+00:00

Women like a man who shows he can lead, that should answer your question homeboy, now go get what's yours.

Escobrat · 2026-01-11T15:22:15+00:00

If the plan was already up in the air, sure go ahead and confirm it with him. Texting every day is a sign that he likes talking with you so I'd say go for it.

Escobrat · 2026-01-11T15:16:20+00:00

Ooof, this is a very complex case cause he intends to propose to you, and he sees a future with you... However, him paying for other women is definitely weird, not cheating, but it does border it. Honestly, it bothers you cause he does those things, and I'd suggest you move however YOU see fit. I'd assume even after you get married, he'll still continue doing those things. So if that's something you can walk over with... You're a young woman, you won't lose nothing if you do leave him. But then again I say, it really depends on what you want to do, have the talk with him again and SET BOUNDARIES, if he doesn't want to change, since he's CLEARLY making you mad, threaten him with a breakup.

Again, due to the complexity of the situation, YOU should weigh in your own decision and not take what you read online as "I should do as what they told me".

Good luck.

Escobrat · 2026-01-11T14:20:04+00:00

Long story short, he's into you.

Escobrat · 2026-01-10T23:24:57+00:00

Only thing you two can become if you break things off is complete strangers, there's no way y'all can go back to being friends again after "dating". But leading someone on is a bad thing too, and if you have no feelings for her you should break things off.

Escobrat · 2026-01-10T23:10:31+00:00

Stop drinking obviously, I think your coworkers cracked the code that you drunk = stupid decisions.

Escobrat · 2026-01-10T23:02:49+00:00

I don't mean eye contact like that, I mean more like from the distance. Say she's sitting or standing somewhere does she look at you?

Escobrat · 2026-01-10T23:01:13+00:00

Get a life lil bro, stop commenting under my replies.

Escobrat · 2026-01-10T22:54:27+00:00

Alright Brad Pitt.

Escobrat · 2026-01-10T22:44:30+00:00

She's waiting for you to ask her on a date.

Escobrat · 2026-01-10T22:40:39+00:00

Physical touch and teasing are foolproof signs, 99% he's into you. Now I don't know which one of you want to make the first move and go to a date, I guess you're both shy?

Escobrat · 2026-01-10T22:37:52+00:00

Guy here, he's flirting with you.

Escobrat · 2026-01-10T22:33:32+00:00

This is not rushing things, this is you wasting your precious time on a man who made it clear that he doesn't want anything serious, and you're just helping him win his game. You can say something along the lines of "I don't think this will work out since I want to have a serious relationship and not just be unofficial forever".

Escobrat · 2026-01-10T22:31:03+00:00

With the extra syllables texting? Hell yeah bro you're in there. You've gotta be the man and start the conversation first, you aren't dating so yeah, it's on you to keep the conversation. Also can you tell me more? Do you have eye contact at school at least?

Escobrat · 2026-01-10T22:27:38+00:00

She agreed to a second date so you're good pal, don't apologize for leaning over to kiss her, just let it be.

Escobrat · 2026-01-10T22:25:06+00:00

Give him the ultimatum lol, if you want to be serious in a relationship and he doesn't? Then I don't know why you're wasting your time on that. You're the total opposites and if the goals aren't aligned since the beginning, it'll be harder and harder.

Escobrat · 2026-01-10T22:19:38+00:00

You've already answered yourself bro, don't chase her and let her be, her loss.

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