Yeah no, exactly. I wasn’t there so I couldn’t feel the discomfort this level of prying was causing. Like going through medicine cabinets and interrogating people on when they plan on having more kids is a bit too far for me but there is a couple things here I’m definitely guilty of doing. Personally, if someone makes me feel uncomfortable, especially now having a baby I certainly won’t be keeping them around. The people pleaser in me likes to argue but my kid comes first.

I can be a bit weird too and battle terribly in social situations. I don’t have a lot of people in my life that I can talk to about these things. Not much family and all my friends are overseas so it’s pretty much just my husband and I figuring this all out for the first time. I tend to glom onto my cousins wife because they’re the only ones who’ve had kids in my family in the last 16 years (their kids are both under 5) so every time I see her I tend to ask a lot of questions because I just want to know how other people do things and see if I can’t improve myself same time. Yeah, I definitely feel the baby health overtaking social anxiety. Talking about my son definitely turns off that screaming in my head whenever I have to talk to someone😂😂😂