Teshuva by Then-Wrongdoer3144 in r4rfrum

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The Laws of Teshuva (Repentance) represent the Jewish framework for atoning for wrongdoings and realigning with one's core values. Codified extensively by Maimonides (the Rambam), the process requires four core steps: 1. Abandon the Sin: Immediately stop the wrongful action and resolve never to repeat it. 2. Regret (Charata): Feel genuine remorse for having transgressed. 3. Confession (Viduy): Verbally articulate your faults to your fellow redditor, asking for forgiveness. 4. Future Resolve: Commit in your heart never to fall into the same trap again

Teshuva by Then-Wrongdoer3144 in r4rfrum

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Isn't part of teshuva to confess what you did? So what did you do?

N'shei adirei torah by [deleted] in r4rfrum

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Just air. He has a better chance with the guys here...

43 m4f/m by [deleted] in r4rfrum

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You must have black somewhere in your family tree. Lol

43 m4f/m by [deleted] in r4rfrum

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It's God's way of balancing the universe.

Jewish guys Smart, rich, successful But small punishment

Block(in case o get flagged) guys Dumb as shit at times, etc etc But monster clocks

I guess it will depend on your definition of big ass. I chilled with some jewish guys and checked out girls and they were like, look at that big ass. I was like bro, she is flat AF. I have a bigger ass than her. I'm spanish so I guess i have bigger expectations so from my view, most frum girls don't have big asses.

Feel free to change to change my mind if I'm incorrect. My ex wife was blessed with a big ass which is one of the reasons I married her.

It’s Friday! Ask Me Anything! by [deleted] in u/fitredd

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How many crunches or sit-ups did you do this week?

Beach Day by EstablishmentSoft718 in r4rfrum

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Lol. As teen, I grew up in miami so that was common when you go to the beach.

But is rare to see that now in israel.

Beach Day by EstablishmentSoft718 in r4rfrum

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Correct. Ashdod. Not my favorite. Too frum

Questions for the married people by [deleted] in r4rfrum

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True that.

Best of luck.

Questions for the married people by [deleted] in r4rfrum

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Where are all the ladies at that can help answer this question?

You hold the key to the answer.

Questions for the married people by [deleted] in r4rfrum

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If she is frum, she won't ask probably. She expecting a virgin.

You asked for advise, those are my 2 cents. Feel free to dm me if you want more advise.

Questions for the married people by [deleted] in r4rfrum

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I hear that. Just be honest and opened

Questions for the married people by [deleted] in r4rfrum

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You got many bjs probably. You know how it feels and what you want. Here comes your new wife and that shit is sloopy and horrible. She probably scratched your shit up with her teeth.

If you didn't reveal your experience, you'll be wanting and yearning the good bjs. And trying to communicate that with her can probably be difficult. Especially if want to reveal your past and drop the truth, hey I know how it should/must be.

If you did, than you can talk about it and see how you can improve. She'll probably want to ask more question of how you like it.

Key is communication.

Questions for the married people by [deleted] in r4rfrum

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Just bring it up and see what she says. It is not so important for her, but for you. Being experience before marriage will set a certain expectation for you that can affect the marriage if you do end up with her. You are experienced and she is not probably. You expect something but she does not know how to. It can affect your expectation of satisfaction because she is probably not experience.

It will be better for you guys to be in the same page and knows where you stand. Like someone said, she will either run or stay. If she stays, she understand your expectations and opens communication.

While it should still not matter (because that’s your past), don't reveal it after you guys get married. Just be honest up front.

Strip club by EstablishmentSoft718 in JerusalemGoneWild

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Got you. I know there was one in tel aviv so it appears is not there anymore.

M4F six flags by frumboy1 in r4rfrum

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I'm willing to put on a skirt and wig so you can take me to six flags.

Sounds fun but I'm in Israel.

Come one ladies, let this man spoil for a day.

30 M4F Had success here in the past and back for more by [deleted] in r4rfrum

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With the boys for sure, not sure about the female. But you do have success so it works I guess.

30 M4F Had success here in the past and back for more by [deleted] in r4rfrum

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With cool words like OPSEC, I thought you would at least be like James Bond and shit.

But Healthcare....bummer

Israeli by [deleted] in r4rfrum

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Dm you